strangemanHello everyone... I am new to this playground and if I go somewhere that is not the intent of this area, I apologize.
I have a posting here and it pretty much describes me or who I want to be or fantasies that I would like to try, may be the best way to describe my feelings.
I am married, bi-curious (no experience) living in East TN just NE of Knoxville. This is our second marriage and my wife is of the "Bible Belt" up-bringing, even though I believe that she has had some lesbian encounters in her previous marriage. I would like to see what she thinks and how open she is about all of this but I just have not found a way to approach her that would not leave me divorced...
Now, onto my purpose for these comments. Knowing that I am solo and must be very discreet, here are my interests....
femdom - as I have had dominate roles in jobs all my life.....I want to give up this control to a female, not be with one who just assumes it should belong to her....
s with strapons - anal play
CBT play
Here might be a good time to say: No Pain, No Blood, No Marks, No Children
Light Bondage
Public Nudity
Golden Showers - with the right person and after trust builds up
I would like to try:
MM
MMF
FFM
I have an interest in finding a couple, build trust, and then allowing that trust over time to have us experience all sorts of mutual fantasies.... It would be ideal is that was with a traditional couple, but, I could consider MM couples, FF couples, as well as a M and a F that were not together, but from other marriages or singles.......
I guess my one rule of thumb is that in order to maintain the discretion, make sure that the risks are evenly divided among all parties....
I have a flexible schedule during the week and some weekends.......
I don't have a problem sharing photos..... or cell phone numbers........
I like reading erotica..... is my favorite.......and, I have written a couple of stories......
Whether we meet or not, to me, is not as important as meeting new friends who seriously want to share their situations and provide guidance and direction and support, if needed.......
Not sure what else to say at this point, other than let me date myself....
I attended Woodstock and the VietNam war..........
A hippie I was and mentally continue to be......
I like SciFi stuff
walks in wooded areas
fantasies
and download erotic videos using Morpheus and/or Limewire......
Hope to hear back from you real soon so we can begin to build our friendships......
Take care,
Strangeman