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hiricky
Men in this age group are still sexually active. Many like myself are curious, but find it difficult finding men in this age group.
I've tried different websites and they're mostly for men under 45 yo. It's frustrating finding anyone in my age group (50-70). It's as if we lost our penis and desires.
Any input or suggestion would be appreciated. Many older men work out and are healthy. They do love sex and can perform very well!!!

Lionessa
First welcome to Bisexual Playground. I noticed you are new here. (1 day)

BP has some great features such as the search and browse to help you find matches. There are many (cough) older members here who enjoy meeting other members.

Take your time. Don't expect immediate results. Many like to get to know who they may be meeting up with first.

Posting a pic helps but is not a requirement. If you do not want just anyone seein your pic, you can always put one up and hide it in your private pics section. Then only those you give your pin number to will be able to see it.

Write emails and check the new members today section daily to see who may have joined in the last 24 hours.

Be willing to travel. Come on into chat and get to know members. Many times someone will log onto the site and notice someone in chat who is close by them. Then they come in to meet that person. I have seen this happen many times.

Good luck


LVBiMack
You are right, Ricky. As a mature guy myself, I find it very hard to meet others - especially couples.
bigmouth45
I TOO HAVE A PROBLEM ,I AM 60 AND THEY ALL WANT YOUNGER. THE ONES WHO SAY THEY WANT OLDER DONT SHOW.HUDSON,FLORIDA, JOHN

dudleydorite222
Hey guys 59 here and still as sexually aactive as I can be. Totally enjoy the bisexual lifestyle. I do not consider myself gay or straight, as they say doubles your dating prospects.
Bill

gveandrec69
I am mid forty If I am not to young let me know
sierramist3
Well, I have met order guys in the bay area, with some good sexual experiences. Why don't we get to know each other? It is a good meeting place to start.

jmtogether
This male of couple , personally I enjoy older men more

Bramguy54
I certainly wouldn't despair. There seems to be older singles of both sexes and older couples here in great enough numbers. I've not been here long but people seem both friendly and accepting. I feel very welcome and fully expect to find the right partner or partners for me in the fullness of time.

digitlxtc
Older is better. Usually they know exactly who they are and what they want, they have experience, and are pretty safe to play with (drug and disease wise) I believe you can learn a lot from them I am 42...is that too young for you gentleman? Of course there is always the exception to the rule, but for the most part, that is what I have found to be true with older men.

moondance2008
I'm 57 and new to this site so I can't really make any judgements yet. I will say this though, I was on another site for about six months with no luck at all. It was like I was totally ignored. I've only been on this site for a few days and I will say that people seem a lot friendlier here. They respond to your emails and no one saying "get lost you old fart" I have high hopes and a good feeling about this site. Stay in there, keep looking and keep sending emails. It never hurts to ask.

bstressfree
I've always been most comfortable with older. Now that I'm 55 myself that's getting more difficult but still very desirable. Actually hope a guy would have at least some degree of ED. I imagine it being a very enjoyable challenge. Look at it this way, I've been lovin' dick since I was 15. My reward has always been to have my joy taken away as soon as it's drained and softening. I fantasize about the prospect of lovin' on a soft one for hours on end.
dfb6734
Ha!!! Look, am 70 and still going strong. I have no problem finding men younger than me. I've a lot of experience with younger men in there 20's 30's on up to my age. Don't anyone give up.

burtonkelly59
i want to meat any one in my are mm or mfm mmf mmf or groups i want to meat and have fun and do it i am for real no games no bull s
usnmcb11
i have always been attracted to older people especially older women,now that im older things havent changed.i see women i would like to have sex with and get to know in thier ninties.i introduced two ladies to oral sex in thier seventies,they both loved it of course.probably went and stomped on thier husbands graves

gay2bi
I actually PREFER guys my age or older. I'm happy with being bald and gray hair (what's left)!

Thought I'd throw that in ...

BillySue32605
Grin...between what has been posted prior and asking you to take a look at my profile. I'm sure you'll come to the realization that the BP website is unlike others out there and there is a number of people to have fun with that are not just talkers. Get involved in the chat room and don't forget to use the browse section as it not only has people located in your state, but you'll be surprise to see how many people live close to you.
usnmcb11
im 62 and am having trouble to,but i know somewhere in this area i will find a bi male or couple

chillywilly
I am 63 years old and have been a BP member for seven years. In that time I have met with (and played with many other members. I haven't encountered any age prejudice unless you count the ppl who block contacts in my age group. But few younger ppl want to deal with geezers and that's perfectly understandable. There are plenty of sexually active older members of BP who are seeking the same. Keep looking, perseverance furthers. Willy

king63
being on the wrong side of the pond,really pisses me off.would love a rough chunky american over 50 thumbing up and down on my butt, begging you to stop with my posh english accent,especially if you smell my wifes panties,arnt there any pervs in the uk,
wickedbery
Wayne from Ohio. anyone willing to play try . Right in mid ohio Would like to give and recieve. You wont be dissapointed. call after9:30-9-30p.m.!
webmon
I'm probably the oldest guy here. 75 and quite active. Recently ended 25 year threesome relationship and now looking for more. Joined yesterday. Southern Cal resident. Great shape. 5'8" 160 pounds

slimboy877
to very honest i am 43 and i really want to only meet guys in there 60's and 70's and know how hard it is to find guys this age to meet for real from the internet. i just dont fancy meeting younger guys and like most there are not really any of this age on BP that are within travel range for a married male

bothenz61
Hi guys I know what you mean about age I'm actually 61 but said 51 for that very reason (Most other sites everyone was under 40). These dan digital cameras make you look older than you Are so I hate showing my face! Most people guess my age in about 45. But like the sto. ry of Dorian Gray These digital pictures to show my true age or older. Anyway back to it I too prefer older man. I always have ever since I can remember.And believe me nobody forced me i nto it!

Dennie
I guess I'm past that 70 mark. At 77 can't find anyone young or old that would love to get sucked off. to eat pussy and suck cock, but, nobody in South East FL they like the south beach crowd. I am very happy with BP as I did meet many friends in chat room and all you guys

DrSodomite
nOONE BROUGHT THIS UP IF YOUR IN HALF WAY GOOD SHAPE AND YOUR OVER SAY 43-44 OR SO AND YO GET KIDS YOU bROTHER'S OR SISTER'S SON'S G
AGE HITTING YOU UP FOR SEX AND YOU WONDER ABOUT THE MORALITY OF THAT TEN OR FIFTEEN YEARS BUT i HAD THIS ONE KID WHO WAS NOT 20 YET HE WAS 19 TOLD ME HE WAS23 HOUNDD ME WE WAS ON A NOTHER SITE AS i WAS BUT STILL IT WAS A LITTLE ODD i JUST WONDER ABOUT THAT i'D RATHER HAVE MEN AND WOMEN THAT DO REMEBER THE 60'S AND RECORDS AND HAVING NIXON TO KICK AROUND ALL THE COOL THINGS THAT MAKE OUR DECADES OF OUR TIMES SEEM MORE VALID THAN SAY ANYTHING THAT HAPPEN AFTER 2001. AM RIGHT?

trikepilot
65 years young here. This site seems more age tolerant than most .At my age , I am comfortable with who I am, and feel that helps make me attractive to others. Younger or older the right attitude makes you successful.

UpandDownaround
I know the feeling. You would think it would be easy to get a guy or gal to fuck a tight ass....unfortunately no.
memdecatur
I am older as well and have the same problems as those listed above. I think my main problem though is where I live. North Alabama is not the best place to be looking for a bi playmate, but I know they are out there, just have to find them.

crushed
hi ricky;
well max and my self are coming up close to the big 60 but as you said we are far from calling our sex life quits, if anything it keeps getting more and more interesting with trying some new things (recently got spanked to the point of orgasming-it just hurts like hell for two whole days after) I have noticed also that a lot us far from over the hill gang don't have the verity we once had, but I also have found that the people we are getting involved are way more open to new ideas and expanding on their sexuality. hell I had to settle a dept. for max a few weeks back with a pair of men in their mid 20's and it turned out I was the one ready for more. they sure don't build them like they use to.
anyway Ricky the Pickens may be shorter but the quality cant be beat
P/S attached is the results of my spanking-exciting as hell but the consequences are mighty high
Teri and Max

biat49
I just turned 49 last week and this is the first time in my life I can explore my bisexuality. I can't speak for all men my age or older but I can hang with the nest of them. Thinking of and trying to set up my first time giving oral and taking the big one I have a raging one.

Age is only in the mind.
Hiker63
Sometime I wish I had been bi-curious earlier in my life but I wasn't so now I have to live with what's available. There are guys out there so we just have to be patient. Good luck to all.

rvers
I find that all the ones who get back to me want to go the whole way right away. Being in my 70's, I like to take things slow. In the end it's more enjoyable. Making friends is the important point anyway!!! I'm on the DL so discrete is a must.
vme45
I am 53m never have m to m relation but fantasy for years. I looking for the right first one. I am little afraid but want to do it
dave_in_dc
I'm in my early 40's and enjoy meeting guys who are older than me. The problem is, I have difficulty meeting older bi-guys. There are plenty of older gay men where I live but I'm really looking for guys who are bi. I'm not open about this (and not married) and usually keep things discreet - some of them want an open relationship and I guess that's not what I'm looking for.
genie55
I'm a bi-curious older guy,58, in NJ. It's hard not only finding some one but also being able to hook-up. They'd have to host and be very discrete. I'm hoping this site will make it happen.

sensigansailor
I am new to this site and I am going on 77....And I still get it up every day....

happytoknowu
I've enjoyed reading this forum. I too am in the same position as most older guys here being 66 myself. Would luv to find a patient guy or couple to help me into this lifestyle. Have yet to connect and experience.

Poulmark
Age doesn't really matter to me. I have not met with any one from my age, I'm 65. All the guy's I've been with have been younger than me. The last guy was 24. I am very active sexually.

AlleyBear
I am 53 and not as active as i could be, I guess I am just the occasional bi guy, keeping busy. The desire hits me once in a while and I can act on it if I am lucky enough. met one guy years ago and we get together rarely but when I need some m+m time I email and try to get things going. Unfortunately I am not lucky enough to get my needs tended to at the moment the urge is strong so I just let it lapse and, unlike long ago, I now let it slide and carry on with my daily life of keeping busy. The sad part is that BP hasn't really given me an outlet to make contacts pan out. but there is always hope. so I let things run as they may.

I am the type of guy who has spontaneous urges and not planned meetings. in other words, when I am horny and the thought of cock hits me, I need to act and get relief or it dissipates and may be a while before that urge hits me again, probably because I really enjoy having a woman to satisfy my deeper need.

It would be nice to have what I want when I want it, but that's not very realistic for me. what is realistic is making the best of a bad situation so I don;t go stir crazy and sit in a corner weeping.

Lionessa
NewBiGuyMo try posting in your State Forums. That's where members post to make a connection
bibuttman
Im51 from michigan anybody want to chat

lancing
68 here and I have just started to look for a male my age to explore what pleasures M2M play can be in a safe and discrete way. New here also but so far as I can see this is a very well managed web sight and I believe in time more older folks will come on board.

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