Finishme
I've recently had some erection problems. I not sure how other guys feel about playing with and sucking a cock that remains limp. Feels good to me but does it ruin their enjoyment.

longncurious
I can have the same problem too. OK with me.

crushed
from a females point of view, well mine anyway, I like to play with a flasid cock for a while, max would be the first to admit we use the magical blue pill but I allway have him wait so I can play with him soft for a while then feel him get hard in my mouth. to me its super hot. fore play babe it works
if for some reason a man cant get hard at all then I see it as a challenge. I will get him up or die trying
Teri

crushed
also, so many men are so worried about cumming, guys thats not what we are looking for up front, that's not our prime objective. we like the whole experience, foreplay through orgasm. if for some reason you cant cum relax its not the end of the world. some guys get so wound up in worry that they cant relax and let the blood flow to there cock. sex is for enjoyment of both partners. enjoy what you have as long as you put the effort into your partner then they will always be back for more.
just my personal view
TEri

chuckles61
I find my own erection problems frustrating personally, but I still love the sharing.

chuckles61
I too love the long slow buildup of foreplay, more than the actual act of ejaculation, but I do miss having a nice hardon.

Poulmark
I have had the same problem following a prostate cancer. I was originally given a self injected drug but I found pushing a needle into my cock turned both my wife and I off. I then went to my GP who prescribed Sildenafil. Sadly the NHS will only allow one a week. Thankfully a friend of mine visits Thailand regularly and can get in jelly form. It works wonders. I even get hard the following day

crushed
Poulmark;
if i use that on my pussy will my nipples get harder
Teri

Poulmark
You can but try Teri