Jazzyboo919
I Need some advice so last weekend I went to a party with my best friend an we got dared to make out an It gave me butterfly s... I've never felt that way before but she's been my best friend for 12 years an I just don't know what to do... I want to tell her how I feel, but then again I don't say cuz i don't want to lose my best friend what should I do?

happytoknowu
If she is your best friend then you should be able to tell her anything even as intimate as your feelings sexually. You may be surprised that she may have the same feelings. You won't know until you discus with her. Good luck!

Jazzyboo919
Your absolutely right its just hard to talk about cuz I don't want her to look at me any differently but you never know thanks for the awesome advice I really appreciate it

happytoknowu
Your most welcome. If you want bounce any thing off me don't hesitate to contact me. I don't mind.

Jazzyboo919
Bet

Jazzyboo919
but I really don't think I can do it I don't want a relationship that might not work when I could have a best friend forever this is so confusing

happytoknowu
Could you talk her about what she may be interested in by using hyptheticals? You could say that you heard someone speak of a best friend that she was attracted to and didn't know how her friend felt but decided to approach her to find out. Then ask your friend you are just curious what she thought. Of course be as subtle as you can.

Jazzyboo919
that is a safer approach I might do that Thanks for lending me some advice preciate it

happytoknowu
You are welcome! Any time.

Jazzyboo919
well she's coming over to hang out with me on Friday so I will try to gently talk about it and see what she says I'm so nervous thank you for all this advice cuz I have so many different ways to take this in my mind and I really want to hear what other people think so I don't effs anything's up and yes I will for sure keep you updated!

happytoknowu
Lots of luck. Will be thinking good thoughts for you. Like to here how it went.

Jazzyboo919
thank you guy s, and I will let you guys know what happens and if I can I will try to get her a Lil smooch

crushed
hi jazzy;
me personally if I ddnt know their sexuality is to bring it up something like, "con you believe how we got that party wound up. I hope you didn't mind, I cant turn down a dare sometimes. I think I got a hot flash" then laugh about your statement to ease the tension should it arise.
obviously she was not completely against it or she would have flat refused to do it. that tells me you got a chance.
j
have a few glasses of wine to loosen her up first to see if she will even talk about
best of luck sweety
TEri

Jazzyboo919


I'm getting so nervous thank you for the advice can't wait to use
some of these tips cuz I really do need to get this across to her in the lightest way possible
to see if she's even remotely interested in the idea thanks again for the amazing advice!

happytoknowu
You will be fine. Go get get her!

Jazzyboo919
tomorrow's the big day!!

happytoknowu
I am so hopeful for you. Be positive, be yourself and everything will work out. All the best to you!

crushed
So Jazzy;
What happened we are all dieing to know. you got my panties soaked just wondering--do tell girl friend do tell
Teri

highrise
Cant wait to hear about your outcome.....