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newbiguy10
My friend and I used to suck eachother off when we were kids. I was 12 and he was 14 the last time. Now i am 28 and he is 30. We are still friends but not as close and we havnt apoke about it since. I text him out of the blue and told him i still wanna do it. He said he doesnt ever think of it. Do u think he is lieing and just scared to admitt it. He was the agresser when we were kids. Very into it. Even wanted to kiss.
newbiguy10
Please someone help. The last time i text him he basically said he isnt into that and hasnt thought about it since. Im dying to suck him again. How could i make this happen?
Love4three
I think you should move on from this guy. There are plenty of guys out there. You dont want to lose a friend or worse make an enemy. You cant force someone to do something that they dont want to do.

Lionessa
You don't. He isn't interested and you need to respect him for that. If you want to keep his friendship, you stop bringing it up, you move on and find someone else. There are plenty of in the sea.

Nessa

lovebiplay
Sounds like he isn't into it anymore. I wouldn't push it cause you may lose him as a friend. People change. Back off and see what happens.
-Trouble

jbshot
You have to respect your friend's answer and let it go. Forcing the issue will not end well. Try to find someone on BP or elsewhere.

smoggytomcat
I don't think it will my friend. First of all it originally happened at a young age between you both. When we are all curious about our peckers. I would say since then he found out what pussy is like. That's the way things went for me. I sucked a few male friends when I was younger than 10 yrs old. Never knew why, just a sort of fever came over me. Then around 12 yrs old I saw my 1rst pussy, she was around 10 and we licked and sucked each other. We had no idea what we were doing at the time, We were just both curious about ourselves. I think that is what happened to you and your friend. He maybe ashamed of what you both done, but he learned from that also. Now, my guess would be to take it easy and continue to be his friend. Just don't pressure him into it right now. Maybe you should try finding another man to satisfy your desires? If he is involved with a lady, he probably won't ever admit to his earlier endeavors into the sex world until he is comfy enough to do so, and that would take some time to happen. It took me 35 years to suck my 1rst cock since my earlier years. I was in denial that long! Maybe he will change before then, but don't count on it.

crushed
new bi;
it looks to me like it was an experimental time for him back then and he now isn't into it. if you push to hard you could loose the friendship completely. keep the conversation open but don't keep bring it up. if he is interested he needs to be the one to go forward with it. he knows you want to so its up to him now.
after some thinking he may come around and want to play again. only he can make that decision. good friendships are hard to find. don't loose it over a blow job
Teri

BiDiscreteMaleMD
Simple advice - let is be. You two have a history together and are friends. You out it out there that you would like to play again and he said no. If he is interested and jut in denial, he knows that you are willing and will reach out. I hate to say such a cliche, but with sex, "no means no". that isn't to say that he may come back later....

handsumjack
Grew up with a friend who got picked on alot. We got close as he played the drums and was teaching me how to read music. He was the first to cum in my mouth and who I swallowed.We sucked each other for 3 years and then my family moved. Ran into him and talking about old times got us going again.

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