Spearfish
Hello,

So I wanted to see if it's normal to feel odd or uncomfortable after cumming when your with another man in a bisexual experience. I have had no issues when playing with a man and women couple and have been in some cases very very bi with them and never felt odd or uncomfortable. Recently I met a very nice gentlemen and the topic of being with another man came up between us which led to us having an intimate experience but after he made me cum which I may add was Very intense!!!! I felt very uncomfortable and had to come up with an excuse to stop. This has never happened before but again this was my first one on one male experience. Any advice?

bill9961
It is normal in my experience. But it does go away once you become comfortable in your own skin so to speak and are comfortable with who you are sexually. Just my two cents.

byronnn
Y'get used to it . .

Spearfish
I was hoping that be the case because I did really enjoy it but didn't dear set up another encounter with the way I felt about the last time. Thank you both.

tadlock
I think it depends on the combination. If the person you're with is very comfortable as a bottom or with their sexual orientation, or someone more effeminate then may be a sense after orgasm to remain in a more intimate connection. If with a masculine gay top, may shift more easily to the conversation you were having or take a phone call. I've been with other tops for massage exchange, oral, etc; with it's done it's done, "let's have another beer and get back to the game" (not quite that, but close). With a bottom, try to be more sensitive, aware that they have just turned their body over to me. Don't want to jump up and leave. As has been said, you'll get use to it; just be sensitive to the needs of your partner; each is a little different - either "getting use to it" themselves, or maybe very aware of what makes a good connection. Just be a caring partner, and give more of yourself as you become more comfortable with the experience.

Don4both
I was involved with a couple. To get to know me and make sure I was real I met with the husband and sucked his cock then he sucked mine. He then invite me over and his wife watched fully dressed as I again enjoyed his cock. After that she joined in.

I got very excited meeting the husband alone. Though I did feel weird about just meeting with a good looking guy.I did get over the uncomfortable feeling. On several occasion after he and I would get together without her and play. Both playing with him or them was always lots of fun.

crushed
spear;
any new experiance will pretty much feel different because it is just that different. if you enjoyed it then stop worrying about it. same sex experiances that you have not encountered before will send lots of emmosions, just throw out the bad ones and go for the good ones
i think you need to sit back and look at your life, figure out where you are sexualy then except your self for who you and and make the best of it. we only live once so why not live to the fullest, no regrets
thats my take on it from a woman prospective--basicly the same as a mans. be your self and enjoy who you are
TEri

oldboner1
Like myself,once you cum the lust vanishes and your left satisfied,but if your with a understanding partner,your in good shape,slow down a bit,then you can look at what you are there(his cock) and then slow down and just start licking your way back to being lustfull and injoy yourself, believe me your partner will like that, at least that what i would try to do, good luck emotions are tricky.

BillySue32605
Just because you have experimented with another man while having a mmf threesome does not make you bisexual. Until you can actually say that you enjoy having sex with another man as much as you enjoy having sex with a woman. I believe that you are just experimenting and caught up in the heat of the moment. Having enjoyed forty plus years in this lifestyle please believe me when I say there's nothing wrong with that...

AtlBiCpl
Spearfish, what you described is normal. Bisexuality is being able to be with a man or a woman and not necessarily a man AND a woman. After having a good same sex experience for the first few times, we tend to allow "social norms" to creep into our minds and make us feel as if we've done something wrong (which can be overwhelming). "Oh no! Am I gay?!" Having the opposite sex present during a sexual encounter eliminates those thoughts. Essentially what has happened is that you grew a bit sexually from this experience. It may not happen to you the next time, but if it does, it will be less intense.

JohnSuz
I am very polysexual, and when I have sex with a man only, I call it gay sex, and it is nothing to be ashamed of. I enjoy men alone, women alone, or both in any combination. I have a gay lover, and I live with a woman in a sexual relationship, and I have platonic/FWB of both sexes.