justaboy4U
I been very sad each time I look to see who is in Lobby its usually 1 -3 people. It seems like there is lack of interest getting to know people, talking, which can turn into a very pleasant meeting. This has been my own experience on BP. I know the lobby is not used by many and that's each individuals choice. I have heard in the short time that I have been here many good things can happen being outside the lobby through emails within the site. I miss the bonding, friendliness, compassion, erotic/ exciting photos, or just checking in to say hello. I sure hope people come back and lets have the bonding that brings this wonderful site together.
Thank you
Kenny

AlleyBear
I am guessing the reason people are rarely seen in any of the rooms is the reason you just gave, people drop in and see nobody present so they move on. it really has to be about timing.
there are probably times when the room is pretty packed but you are not online to see it.

If someone, hint hint, started a meet and greet time for members to gather, the room would be consistently busy and we would all get to meet new and exciting people who probably share similar interests, I mean we must, or why would be members of BP?
Maybe call it the "10 O'clock Slide" just an idea. Room opens at 10pm on Fridays and Saturdays

I am more than open to meeting up with people online, but you have top also consider that we all have lives away from BP and timing, again, can be a factor for even the most dedicated member.

What do you think about that idea. schedule a time so people know, rather than random appearances when few show up. Although sometimes smaller groups are a perfect fit too.

justaboy4U
Thank you for responding. I joined BP July 2014 and most nights this room was packed with people. Granted it had its slow period. I work during the day found myself spending long hours in here during the work week which is not in my better interest. The usual time slots I come in back then & of course its the same would be Friday & Saturday evenings Its pretty quiet. Like anything else times change it will eventually pick up. I like the idea scheduling a time how do you suggest that idea to be implemented?

Lionessa
The chat rooms are open 24/7 so it's not like they ever close down. Members always come and go. When the weather was bad out, chat was full more often. Weather is getting better, people do things other than stay home on the computer. When a Holiday is coming, chat gets busy and as the time nears, members become less as members take off to be with family or friends. Then of course we have members who live all over the U.S, Mexico, Canada, and even across the pond. These are all different time zones as well. (I am sure too I left out somewhere, sorry)

If this is something you really want to try though, ok....We need to give people time to plan / schedule it into their life so ok here goes:

Fri May 8th
5pm Pacific Standard Time
Come join me and "Chat till ya drop"
BP Lobby.

Now I just hope I remember!

justaboy4U
Thank you Lionessa ,
Sounds good to me.

Lionessa
Well I was there at 5pm Fri. No one who wanted a set chat time showed up. Other members came and went. I stayed for an hour waiting, hoping those who posted and said they wanted one, would come in, but none did.

It was a nice time and thank you to those who did show.

People come and go. We all have lives of some sort. If you always come in at 2am and find chat empty, maybe you just need to change the time you come in. Just a thought.

Take care
Nessa

justaboy4U
Good mornong Nessa,
We did speak the other day and due to a migraine headache I missed out. I spent some quality time in chat Saturday & Sunday. I BP and enjoyed new people coming on board. Many thanks for your friendship and service to the group