weplaygreat
My wife and I want to have some fun but she is worried that it will cause issues in our marriage. Personally I think it's causing issues cause we don't do what we both want. Any advice ?

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weplay;
watch your step here. you both have to be on the same page if you plan on playing. their can be no jealousy what so ever or it will push you apart. As i have told many friends in the past. I would suggest you look for an adult party house in your area or make a trip out of it. either way i think its the best way to get into the life style with out getting mixed up in the you went to far situation. If you have not heard of one it is a private house that catteries to adult sexual play. you can go and just watch whats going on. their will be sex going on all around you. you do not have to do anything or you can go full on and screw your brains out. you can play as a couple as i reccomend until or if you become comfortable with individual play.at least you will get the chance to talk to other in person and get lots of answers.
playing can go both ways. with max and i it saved our marrage or it can destroy a merrage if jealousy shows its ugly head.you have to look at it as a physical need. sex is a natural animalist urge to procreate. making love is a union of two souls. its not fucking its a deep need to bring pleasure to your partner. its not about you getting off its about you giving your partner your bosy as a present to enjoy. its spiritual.
it cant be one way either. if you are going to play then you must accept your partner playing too
well hope this helps. should you have any other questions or want to know more about how max and I got into the lifestyle please feel free to send ask away in our mail in here
best of luck to you
Teri and Max