cumluvrguy
I have been living this double life so long and would really love to share this part of my life with my wife. Any suggestion would be helpful.

andrew9
suck a big hard cock in front of her

SeekingPleasures
First I have a question, through convenience, have you ever approached the subject with her about how she might feel about generally Bisexual topic or has she everhad feeling about about ever being with another female. Ask the question about her feelings about a threesome and all that what could happen during the threesome. Find out her feelings. Is your marriage strong enough to stay together if she's really against you being openly bisexual? I lost a really caring woman because she just didn't understand my feelings. I'm not sure if I'm making any sense or not and I hope it helps you a bit.

BillySue32605
You are addressing one of the most touchy subjects here for us living a bisexual lifestyle. Reason being is when you out yourself to your wife you will basically be outing yourself to the rest of your family and friends. If you decide too, you can expect one of these three results. (1) Your wife, family & friends will accept your lifestyle choice and not only love you, but support you like my wife Sue, two of my daughters, and one of my sons have. (2) Even though your wife, family, & friends accept your lifestyle it will only be okay if you don't mention or practice it out in the open like four of my children who have their heads buried in the sand about my bisexuality believe. (3) Your wife, family, & friends may totally turn completely against you and your marriage might end in divorce like my 1st marriage of 10 yrs. did in 1983 when I came out to my ex-wife.

As far as coming out to your wife it all depends on how strong your relationship is with her and how open minded she is towards sex. If you have a strong relationship with her where you feel you two can talk about anything just bring it up while you're having sex like I did. She'll especially have no problem adjusting to the thought of you being bisexual if your sexual play with her already involves having her use a dildo, butt plug, etc. on you anally.

No matter what though, "DO NOT!" do anything behind her back.

smoggytomcat
Personally I never was bi when I was married. But now after being divorced for over a decade I have an older lady that actually saved me from being totally gay. She was totally into sex at the time and I just asked her what she thought about swinging with other couples. The response was un preditictable, but I chanced the question. She thought it could be fun. That was my 1rst step into sharing with others. Then we did actually meet the most perfect couple right off the bat! We all 4 had fun and started to meet the others spouse separately. That was the 2nd step. We trusted each other to do so. That's how I started into the bi schene, we went to parties then there was contact between males and she actually got into it. So my suggestion is to be inquisitive, if you and her have a great sexual relationship, than any question should be answered. We all need a release and be honest about our sexual desires, just be cautious about it.

katlove
Go gently. Just because you are bi, does not mean you have to be unfaithful with guys behind her back. With all my relationships with ladies bar one, I hid my bisexuality. With my wife, she came out to me first, which made coming out to her quite easy. Although bi herself, she much prefers to be shared by bi guys.
However we had a boyfriend who came out to his lady about his sexuality and although before she knew about him being bi, she was happy about LGTB matters it was a different thing to find her man was one of them! Or us!!. So be careful. When the horrors of my life have passed then my next love will have to know about my side. Better still, perhaps I'll find some one through here!

BekDen
Wow.....what great advice I say. And the ONLY thing I can add is that you make sure you have a "rock solid relationship" That's important and go slow with it.

buldhead
DON'T! It ruined my marriage. We're still together but really in last name only. We don't sleep in the same room and we haven't had ANY type of sex in over 10 YEARS. It's NOT worth it.

smoggytomcat
katlove, what is LGTB? I lost you there!

BekDen
bulhead.....I agree and that's why I suggested to MAKE SURE the relationship is solid. One never knows how anything will turn out....sex or life or whatever.

nybili
You have to tread carefully, once u let her know, there is no turning back. Not all partners are that understanding or accomodating. Has she ever hinted to you that she might have an interest in bi? I know just from my own situation, if she found out i was bi, it would be all over. and i dont need my whole family and circle of friends to know what my sexual desires are.

Be extremely careful if u need to go this route. You have to decide is your marriage more important than getting something off your chest or not?

crushed
smoggy;
LGTB is Lesbian,Gay,Transsexual or sometimes Transgender, and Bi-sexual.

Cumlover;
tread carefully. your marriage has to be very very confident. again is it worth taking the chance of loosing the woman you love? yet if she is understanding or even bi-cuqriuos it can lead to some great sex. i would start off be talking to her about bi-sexuality. where does she stand on the subject.
the thing that got Max and i into the Lifestyle was an adult party house. their you can go as far or as little as you like from just watching to a full on gang bang. its totally up to the two of you. she has to know for sure that just because you are attracted to others it does not mean you are bored with her or will leave her for another. she has to know it only about the animal instinct to pro-create or most the the act of pro-creating-fucking or oral sex doesnt matter,. she needs to know she is the center of your universe.
if she is even a little unsure dont go down that road. it can break apart even the most loving couples. i think most women are insucure in there relationship when it comes to playing with others. we need to know we are the one and only and that just because your man is fucking another women doesnt mean he doesnt want you or wants to leave you. i get so horny watching max fuck another woman that i cant contain my self and keep him up all night
should you want to talk about it send me an message. i wuold be happy to help
Teri and Max

TheGalion
I hinted and hinted for years. She should have known I was a little different anyway.
Nope.
I made it clear.
She hates it.
Fears everything about everything (including sex) and has a guilty streak 3 miles wide.

Take time and nose around with subtleties until you are SURE she will handle it.

rockover66
Watch a bi-video together and watch her reaction, then you will know. I bought a video, put it on in our room then walked out saying id be right back. When I came back in she was still watching it, then I knew I could talk about it.

TallRedHead44
Divorce her & then live your life the was you see fit. Life is too short to be unhappy.