xp243
I am a bi married man recently out to wife. In the past would mess with girls and discreetly guys now that my wife knows about me it's such a relief but I told her I will never cheat on her but can't stop thinking about being with another man. I told her the only way I would if she would join me I think it would be so hot for me and my wife to give head together. Any advice?

xp243
Thanks for all the advice. I have been trying to slowly bring ideas into the bedroom with bi porn and talking about having another guy with us as we are hot into sex. I'll just wait and see.

brawar
Just like the others have said listen to her, and above anything talk to her!! Bi, and in a commented relationship. No pun intended, but don't be pushing in in her face all the time. Girl, or guy nobody likes a pushy person. The hardest part is over, you came out to her! I have worked it out with the gf ( not every one is the same) I get to have my fun around 1 or 2 times a month. It works for both of us. She does from time to time use my toys on me. Just talk to her. Good luck!!

nybili
How has she been, when u told her u were bi? you took the first step. it doesnt always work out but it has for you. thats good. just tread lightly. she may want to join in or she man not and let u play alone. everyone is different and many couples are different. Some only one of the partners is bi. the ideal is if both partners are bi. that makes for easier conversation and get togethers. Good luck. I hope it works out well for you. Let me know how its going if u like. As for myself. i have to play alone, my wife doesnt know and she is not the type that would be understanding of my bi side. It works for me since we are not that intimate any more.

xp243
I think you are right about not being too strong on being bi. It's gonna take some time. Thanks to all

crushed
just remember "Trust" is the main issue in multiple partner relationships. your partner must know she is number one to you and keep reminding her of that. us women love to hear it and the more we do the closer we feel.
I would say let her decide how in depth she want to go and don't push it. i have seen many relationship go down the tube from trying the life style. in most cases one isn't into it and the other pushes a bit to hard or the Trust issue pops up. tread carefully and talk a lot about it. don't lead the conversation let her head down that path. ask her if she would like to chat with me about her concerns, i would be happy to help. max and i have been in the lifestyle since before it was cool and was extremely taboo. i have seen a lot of couples grow there relationship as a result of being honest and trying this lifestyle, such as my story and i have seen couple who have been together many year break apart from jealousy. just talk about it and let her find the way. more than likely she will want to make you happy, as long a she knows its not about you getting different pussy or wanting others. its about the raw natural instinct to procreate. there is making love and their is fucking. two completely different emotions
let me know if i can be of any help
Teri

JasonStaff
The fact that you can have that conversation with your wife is so amazing. You have a true relationship. Really nice.