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Lucky070707
My fiance and I are wanting to have a 3sum. He has had past experience with 3sums but I have no idea where to even to began to find someone or even when we do find someone how to even get it started. I am a shy person at first and then once I get comfortable more will happen. I need some advice about 3sums or maybe even a 3sum 101.....lol. any advice is good advice and the 3sum would be ffm. I have the urges to want to have sex with a female but I am so picky about my females it's really tough to find one. We need a kinky girl that is fun and playful and can take control of me and show me what to do but I am going to be in control of who and what goes on with my fiance. We do practice safe sex. We also need a girl who has a nice ass and titties long brown hair and toys can be involved. There are rules of what to do and not to do but I am not really sure how a 3sum works. So if anyone can give me the ins and outs of a 3sum please let me know. I greatly appreciate it. Thank you so much!!!!!
byronnn
The trickiest thing is finding a chemistry that works for all three people because if any one of you is uncomfortable it brings the whole experience down.

It sounds like you need to find a girl you're attracted to and have a mutual intrigue with before you can really proceed any further.

Lionessa
Hi!

Welcome to the site. You might want to do some housekeeping first before trying to find a 3rd.

By housekeeping, I mean complete your profile. Your profile does not say much at all. Many members will not look twice at a profile unless it has the super profile ribbon on it. You get this ribbon by answering all the questions on your profile. If a ? is n/a say it does not pertain to you and why. etc

The more info in your profile, the better chances of that profile having something that interests someone else too.

Before you start, make sure you have agreed to everything you will allow between you two first. Then when you find that special someone for that , make sure you have shared how far you will go and know what it is they are looking for before you start anything. That way if you do not share the same interests, you know before anything happens.

Enjoy and be yourself!

Nessa

smoggytomcat
I really can't give you the advice you want because I've only been involved in 3ways as mmf. And yes finding the right couple for me is very hard to find, but worth it when it happens. And it will eventually. And it usually gets started by the couple whose spouse has their desired counterpart involved. Which means that if your interested in a ffm, you should be the 1 that gets it started by making your 3rd comfy because NORMALLY they are just as nervous and shy as you are. Now if you happen to find a veteran of sorts and have let them know your desires and that you are abit shy because it is your 1rst time meeting and not sure of how "to break the ice", they should take you by the hand and start the giddy-up and go. And everyone on here is kinky. Either in their minds or in actual meeting. So just keep on being honest and your lady will appear!

crushed
Hi lucky;
Max and I have been in the lifestyle (swingers) for many years. The other hit the nail on the head. There can be no jealousy at all. You both need to separate making love with Animalistic . You have to trust each other 1000% if not you have a very good chance of destroying the relationship you already have.
It's not easy now-a-day finding another partner who makes the threesome work. Every one usually have to high of expectations for their first go round. Yes it can get mind blowing and orgasmic but that happens when only when everyone is in 100 percent. I don't think you will have the ultimate experience by just adding a third body. .
So here is my suggestion. Shop around your area for an adult party house. Once there you take it as fast or slow as you like. You can go and just watch other or go as far a full swap. The best part is it's totally up to you. Go as far as you like. You have a much better chance on finding someone who is experienced and can make your first time mind boggling wild.
P/S I am sending you an e-mail about max and I first trip to an adult party house so you can get an idea of how great it can be
TEri

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