newfrds4all
This is my first post ever. That I remember anyway.
I have considered myself very bi-curious for years and years. I have always felt that until I experience another guy I have to add the "curious", reluctantly! I didn't want to be just bi-curious. The wife and I are swingers. She lost the "curious" stigma so god damn quick. It was watching her that inspired me. I also wanted to be able to enjoy anything with anyone. I am shocked that the oportunitey never presented itself and that I could not shake the title of curious. until moments ago, and seconds after I eased the big dildo out of my ass.
I am bi-sexual because I am. I have teenages and they didn't have to wait until they had sex to pick a sexual identity. My son thought it was a good idea to tell all his friends that he was gay at the age of 9. He hadn't even experienced his first kiss but he was confident in his feelings.
I hate labels period. My wife doesn't identify as bi-sexual even though she can, and has enjoyed the pleasure of being with men and woman.
I don't this anyone will read this and I am fine with that. I just had to share a very good moment in my personal growth and this a way better place than the hockey dressing room.

parkingman35
As friends here at BP will tell you, I like the description of being fully sexual as opposed to bi-sexual. Congratulations on finding fulfillment. That is the best part, being comfortable and having fun in the fullest way. I'm glad you picked us over the hockey locker room to share.

Itsmeandyou
Cool. Glad you had the opportunity to enlighten us in this forum.

SwingBi757
I was reading an article on bierasure and biphobia not long ago and it goes deep into how it can affect someone to the core to be told that your sexual orientation doesn't exist because we say it doesn't. In a way they're right but not in the way they think they are because technically their sexual orientation doesn't exist either it just is what it is no more than a duck knows it's a duck he's going to keep doing duck things because that's what he does. The term used and bove about being fully sexual is a spot on a term as I've ever heard because that's the reality of the situation. It's never been the label holding you back it's been your own apprehension and your own fear and that's perfectly understandable. We all seem to go through that phase where we worry about the label as if it's going to change anything about us. In all honesty I'd rather wear their label and know about myself than to wear the one they think I should have and live a life of regret. During your life on earth you are the only human being you'll ever have the chance of fully knowing and chances are most of us won't know ourselves when our lives end because we spent too much time letting others live our lives for us.

mrbisexualnudist
When Will people just realise that we are all very much indeed born to be bisexual and just over them selives?