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BekDen
This is something that I have wondered for quite a while. I figured I'd ask here as I'd get a broad set of answers. It's nothing earth shattering....but what does a woman or man find attractive in a woman?

smoggytomcat
A great personality,ass, tits, and willingness to explore. All in that order for me.

lovebiplay
A Good Mind and personality. outgoing women who go for what they want with confidence. I love . Although Barbie types are pretty I like women who are not perfect. Women who have lived and have the stretch marks and scars to show it. That is what's attractive to me.
~Shelly

virgin56
Personally and beautiful eyes

kylookin4fun
First thing that catches my eye is long hair then tits body ass but the clincher would be personality
DeeSilver
Real woman. I like mommy bodies with all that comes with them.

I love mature women's bodies complete with a good working and thinking brain who is not a train wreck of emotions. I love the proofed out stomachs or tummies complete with stretched skin and the stripes left from pregnancies. I love a mommy body that had boobies that their job and inflated with mommy's breast milk. It does not matter to me if their natural boobies are now stretched out with marks left from when they nourished a hoped for healthy baby until that baby became a toddler or older. Muffin tops of delicate soft skin with baby weight fat still there does not bother me at all. I like REAL no silicon or saline bags under their boobies. Women for the most part are way too critical of themselves. I love a Plus-Size woman who is healthy and clean and smells as fresh as summer rain with a touch of fruit and flowers all mixed together. I do not like fake women.

paul_bi_nudist
Personality, eyes, smile. If you are asking about what I most admire on a woman's body, I would have to say her butt. asses are beautiful works of art, never get tired of looking at them.

seniornudistbi_guy
As a nudist, what is attractive to me is the ability to be comfortable naked around other people, in private or in appropriate public areas.

MORTISER
For me it would be the type of person she is inside. Her personality, her honesty and openness. Her ability to know what she wants and go for it without concerns of what others may think of her. If she is willing to explore the things she says she wants sexually in an open and honest way and to follow through is a BIG plus. A woman who has no jealousies and is willing to play with others in any combination. Physically I am open to just about any body type after all we all have our flaws. I do like bigger breasts but smaller ones are just as fun. I like a woman who can be both submissive and one who can be in charge when she wants to be. A woman who when sexually aroused and shows her excitement is a BIG plus. A woman who will let me know what I am doing right or wrong sexually to satisfy her, it is after all her body. Oral sex both giving and receiving and a swallower. A woman who loves to receive anal sex.
The bottom line though is being open and honest and being willing to follow through with no jealousies and no inhibitions.
poppadog3
Humor is a must, small in stature, little or no jealousies, intrest in sex, average looks, some intelligence after sex, likes people and enjoys social gatherings.

SeekingPleasures
The silky smooth skin and taste of their sweet nectar.

TransAnalFem
The female

SquidlyJones
Fun and frolic. Attitude and a smile. A willingness to enjoy people and sex. These things are dear to me, far more than any physical attribute.

BekDen
Wow.....as I thought a wide range of things. Now I have to say...Bibmadragon64......I have never seen a woman that has a hard cock. And to all of you...Thanks!

BekDen
I can honestly agree with you all. I thought I was different. I spose I should Tell yas what I think as I'm happy to have heard your opinions. I am Bi so I hope I can speak for how I feel about both men and women. Women: I like the way how I can click with them....soft sweet and how it feels. Men: I like to be taken slowly....undressed and then it heats up. For both I love the humor and convos outside of the bedroom. That seems to lead to there anyway. Thank You all. Sure I will take somehing from you all. s
Cdnwoodpecker
a woman who dares to follow her heart...to be different....who wants what she wants..who accepts her body as her own unique...who will try to satisfy her partner...
who does not care what the norm is...yes horny as hell..a devil in disguise..😈

BekDen
Cd.....good reply. Thank You
luvscockandpussy
The first thing I notice is her eyes. After that, her appeal becomes more cerebral for me. I fall for women who know who they are, are comfortable in their own skin and aren't afraid to tell you what they need out of a relationship, whether it's just to fulfill her sexual needs or if it's a deeper, more emotional desire. Who you are is far more sexy than how you look...at least that's how I feel now at this point in life...

BekDen
Well put luv!
Gangbangingshemale
Looking for shemales with big cock to suck or whatever they want to do.

BekDen
That's nice....you know what attracts you.

BekDen
Luvscockandpussy. I think you nailed it as far as what I was asking. I'm Bisexual so I have seen and had have both. I am VERY comfortable as who I am...as are you. Thanks for your input....I couldn't agree more with you.

Bek

BekDen
I keep going back to this post. Mostly to see that I am so much like....what you all seem to like. all again!

Ellie_Heart
Having been with only one woman, married for 20+ years, I haven't given much thought to this question until now that I'm exploring bisexuality from an unhindered female perspective. I admire all kinds of body types, so it's hard to say what physical attributes I find most attractive. I know it's almost cliche at this point to insist that personality trumps physical assets, but it's certainly true for me. A woman I can talk to easily, whose company I can enjoy outside of sex, someone I can laugh with easily is definitely at the top of my list on attractiveness for a potential sex partner.

One thing that concerns me about exploring sex with other women is the importance to self-esteem that too many women place on their sex appeal. No amount of sex is going to compensate anyone for a low self-esteem. I, honestly, would refuse to have sex with someone I suspect of harboring a low self-esteem just to avoid the inevitable drama that will follow...and I sure don't want to be another "reason" she feels like shit about herself.

Which brings me to one of my mantras, lol, Confidence is sexy...particularly in women. I've found this particularly effective in attracting men. I feel confident of my sex appeal. I may not be the prettiest thing or have the most "rockin' body," but then neither do most of these guys, but I do enjoy the hell out of sex and will not likely disappoint in that department. If a guy (or girl for that matter) isn't interested in me, I don't take it personally - it's just a matter of tastes and they're as entitled to their preferences as I am to mine.

BekDen
A deep reply Ellie. And I agree whole heartedly. I am very comfortable with my desires and who I am. I too believe that the inside is much more important than how one looks on the outside. But that would be an attraction to at least be interested. If it turns out that the "person" doesn't sorta click with all you have stated....then it's not gonna happen. Man or woman. I do like what you said and as I reiterate....I agree. You put it better than I.

Bek.

BekDen
Hi....I do stop in here and re-read your opinions. And every time I get summpin new from reading it. I can't thank you all enough. s es. You guys make my day!!!

BekDen
Hiya Cap. Thanks for your "input" here. I like all of the responses. I never knew that peeps would respond. it!!

BekDen
Ha ha....there are alot who would meet your criteria here.

BekDen
I never thought I'd get so many replys. But I all....hope I can get more thoughts on this...s

BekDen
Isn't it summpin.....we all have our fav "parts". Now I will admit...my butt isn't the best...lol But for some reason....we seem to make it up in other ways? Ha ha. Thanks jazz!

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