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that is the real question where is the line. dose this mean a 60 year old person shouldnt have sex with a 30 or 40 year old .I think this is what people mean by age is just a number ( or at least it is for me ) . I go by how mature a person is mentelly. for me i have known a 20 year old that was far more mature than most 40 or 50 year olds. but on the flip side i have almost next to nothing in common with todays 20 year olds. this is why i like my own age group the best. i will not turn down a invite for drinks with a 20 year old just because they are 20 though. my opionon is its a case by case bassis. now if looking for a life mate it would be better for a guy to marry and older women because women live longer than men so if a guy marries an older women you both will die about the same time . Just food for thought. I may be right i maybe wrong but that is the way i see things. i do agree with not haveing sex with any one under 18 because they are truelly children and do not under stand the whole concept of sex and that is just wrong and a very big big turn off with me.



The short answer is NO. The woman is at the age of consent and, well, enough said.
Not to be Clinton-esque, but define wrong. Is it wrong to be bisexual? Is it wrong to marry or date someone of a different race or culture? Is it wrong for a man to wear women's underwear (not that I do)? So where does the wrong come in to play? If it was an 18 yo man would you be asking the same question?
And finally, at what age is it NOT wrong? 25? 30? 35? What age spread is appropriate?
Just some food for thought.

Just watching you all masterbate would definitely be nice...would love to masterbate in front of you all as well. It is looking like Sundays are going to be best for me now. I would say we could do an all day Sunday party. I would definitely want to do it near a pay day and we all could bring drinks and games..hehehe. we can do whatever. Let's start trying to figure out when. So far, looks like it would be 3 of us and possibly more. Maybe eventually someone can entertain at home with a swimming pool or a hot tub. We can start figuring out when and then where. I probably won't be able to go until another couple of weeks. Any suggestions anyone..also, if any other females want to come, more the welcome.
Hi, Vince here,

Ali may or may not post on this later depending on if she has anything else or different to say, or if I cover everything myself.

Well to start, there is nothing wrong with an 18 year old wanting to be with a 49 year old. There is nothing wrong with anything sexual between consenting adults in and of itself. However, by the same token, there is nothing wrong with you being uncomfortable with the age difference.

Frequently, people in there 40's or 50's want to be with a partner that is from the 18 - 25 age range and that is quite a common fantasy. However, just as many people are weirded out by the thought of having sex with someone young enough to be their child. On top of that, many of the people in their 40's or 50's are bothered by the immaturity mentioned by others, as well as by the "generation gap" that results from the fact that both partners grew up in very different worlds. My wife and I are 10 years apart in age and the generation gap thing is not a problem since the world she was born in was the world I grew up in, so the gap was small. But with a 31 year difference in age - like in your situation - this gap would be more noticeable.

In the end you have to decide whether or not these issues matter enough to avoid getting involved with her, or if you decide to go for it any way. I get the impression that you have already decided and are really looking for people to tell you it is okay to feel and do what you intend. I hope this post helps in that. As for what to do in the case that you decide not to be with this 18 year old... Just explain that the age difference is too great, and it makes you feel uncomfortable... And if she gets upset send her to us and we will make her feel better, LOL. If you happen to decide to be with her anyway, well have fun, I do not think you need advice there.

Be Well,

"Do what thou Wilt, thou shalt be the whole of the Law, is the Law, under Will." Aleister Crowley
I never said it was "WRONG". I am glad that she is staying. I never said kindness or anything like that was wrong either. I am glad that people can give gifts and everything. I never was saying it was wrong. And when is expressing feelings WRONG JUST?????? How can you say my feelings are wrong, you want me to say your feelings are wrong? You can reply without downing someone's opinion. Java, I am glad you are staying and don't think I was trying to tell you to go or anything. I was just trying to express my feelings. I am not jealous either. That was just my opinion.
Help beeman45. What am i doing wrong. or what am i not doing right. In my profile i put that i am a married-man. tired of being alone. tired of playing alone. And that i'm looking to spice up my sezlife. The wife and i do-not see eye-to-eye on anything any more. INCLUDING SEX . My wife and i we may live togather. But we don't-love-togather. We are only togather for the kid's. Sow someone tale-me what am i doing wrong. I am a 40/y/o 5ft9in's...about...150./lb's.. .slim in good shape. Looking for the same in good shape. I look yonnger than...40/year's/old. Please don't get me wrong. I am not perfect. And ho is on-one-is. That is why i said in good shape. The same or yonnger. Man or whoman or both. So to anyone that is interested and liveing in the houston tx, area. I'm new to this. I have no-exprince. I am looking for my first m/m experince or mm/f. I'm clean-cut attractive respectful discreet drug and disease free. I get know responses in my Email. Is my taleing the truth stoping me from geting any responses. Thank's two all. beeman45
Hi i'm a widow interested in meeting a single female between 35-50. would like to stay in the philadelphia suburbs. We could possibly met in a starbucks etc... and see what comes
do you horry guys ever check the dates? this was originally posted just at a year ago.... using the wrong head to read with I see...

Hi, My girl friend is wanting a man w ho is hung and practices safe sex. She is 68 and still very attractive. She is a widow and needs to be very discrete because of family in town.. Is open to an occasional meeting.
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