On-premise Swing Clubs yes the swingers palace in Pittsburgh pa. has two bisexual nights a month. first Friday and third Saturday. cross dressing and tgirls are very welcome, and you can dress to the hilt.
Kinky Sex To me kinky and taboo are the same thing,,, I don't want to be tied up and be forced to do something. But I WANT and DESIRE a woman who knows WHAT she wants, and how she wants it, no matter what. I am very open and very much want to do a lot of VERY PERSONAL things that certain women would enjoy having a man do these things just for her and her own pleasure. I am experienced, and wish to please women in many different ways. Orally there is very little, if anything I wouldn't to for the woman to wants to see me do most anything to PLEASE her...
Really miss my old GF, she was so hot and so appreciative...
Men Sucking Dick With Women Participating Last night at a local swingers club that allows single men, my wife and I sucked and fucked 8 cocks. We sucked 3 of them together and she got fucked by 4 of them. The room is full of mattresses at different heights, makes it easy to take one up the ass doggie style while sucking one that is a little higher, and with me underneath tonging her clit and sucking a cock as it slides in and out
Bisexual Swing Clubs I'm in Columbia, SC and looking for bi-singles/couples clubs in my area or the surrounding area. Is there a group that gets together for orgies or parties. I am truly interested, but not sure where to start. Hope someone can help. I love this site!
Professional, Clean, Laid-back, Drama Free, Athletic, BI-oral guy here in DFW area Texas... Normal interests include exercise, sports, movies, motorcycle, and travel... ual interests include Swingers clubs, Gentlemens clubs, Nude beaches/resorts, and 69... Don't do drugs, and disease free (tested) seeking same!
We travel in our RV full time and loving it! We can and are all over the USA! If we are in your area, contact us, we would love to meet and/or have fun (wink) or tell us about some fun events/socials/clubs/parties in our area! He had a penile implant and it works wonderfully. Since she is multi-orgasmatic, this allows him to keep going on and on. It aways stays hard - yummy!
like my name suggests i have a bit of a list i'm trying to check things off of. it wont take many people, just the right ones.
i'm 21, 5'11", 165lbs, moderately hairy, glasses. i've got a list, it's not physical yet, but i'm working on it. there are many things that i want to try, then there are the things that should stay in fantasy.
Easy going and honest. Dependable, will be there when I say I will and do what I'll say I'll do. Real person who enjoys real fun. Sociable and pleasant company. Think sex is to be savored and enjoyed, not a big fan of the crash and dash. Those who act like they are in a hurry to be somewhere else can just save time and go there. I am truly single, not a cheating husband or a faker hiding behind a fictitious "couple" profile. Also, I am really Bi, not just pretend so I can have fun with only the female half of a couple. I am honest, reliable, and pretty good company. Especially helpful to first-time swingers or those who think they might like to have a bi experience but afraid if they have "cold feet" at the last moment that they will be pressured into something. As you can see, I am old, I am fat, and over the years I have been lucky enough to have made some fun friends. It's all about eveyrone having a good time.
61yo bisexual male, just an everyda y type of person i love to go to flea markets and yard sales and just check things and the sights out. i love convertables and fixing things. i have made a massage room with some interesting things in there .im really searching for local friends .i like cooking . i love being nude any time i can
We are both completely Bisexual, and enjoy both men and women equally. We are very open to everything, and we are both quite versatile, meaning we can "Top" and/or "Bottom". We also play together and separately, and can entertain one person or a large group of people. It's all good. We are very secure in our relationship so we will also play on our own without the other present, but only with people that we know and are comfortable with. The other always knows what is happening, as we don't "cheat" an each other, but enjoy a truly open Lifestyle. We will admit that the "Couples Only" concepts of the '80s and '90s just aren't for us anymore, even though we also do play with other couples. Just the rigidity that some people have has become a bit of a turn off for us.
We really don't take our sex too seriously, as sex is supposed to be fun, and not a porn movie. So our desires are people that have fun with their sex and take it lightly. We also believe that friendship greatly enhances the sexual pleasure between like-minded people, so another desire is to have sex with the friends we make
We have never considered ourselves "hot" or "sexy" as that truly is in the eye of the beholder. What is sexy to one person, may not be to another. We are just your average, fun-loving couple, and after you read our profile and view our pictures, you can (and will) make your own judgement. We really are no longer into playing dress-up or doing the "sexy clothes" thing, which is the main reason we no longer go to Swing Clubs. We just like to be natural and comfortable, and we like the people we meet to feel the same way. Swinging is a Lifestyle, not a Fashion Show
We have been in the Lifestyle a long, long time, and are quite "experienced" (whatever that means) although we still consider ourselves only occasional swingers. We are a very open and friendly couple, and really enjoy meeting and talking with new people, and are usually quite comfortable in most situations. We only practise safer-sex, so condom use for either anal or vaginal penetration is a must. But we both enjoy oral sex bareback, and we both love to swallow as much CUM as we can be fed. We prefer partners who feel the same way about safer-sex as we do.
So, if what we say is of any interest, please just message us. We also feel that since we took the time to write this, you should take the time to tell us a bit about yourselves. If another single guy writes us with something like "Let's meet" and nothing else, I'll scream! We answer all sincere e-mails, but will disregard quick messages with no true content to them. We also appreciate pictures, especially from the single guys. We've just been misled too many times.
Thank you for your time,
BIG NOTE THAT WE WISH PEOPLE WOULD ACTUALLY READ: As we both work on the Internet for a living, we are not into private chats, instant messaging or webcams, other than for an initial meeting or quick notices. We also do not trade pictures, so please don't ask, there should be more than enough in our profile to satiate any curiosity. We are not into phone sex in the least. Our preference is to meet in a public place, like a bar or coffee shop. We live in the West Island area of Montreal, and neither of us speak a word of French (transplanted Anglos).
SIDE NOTE ABOUT MESSAGES: We don't answer any messages until we both have had a chance to read it. You will get a response that your message to us was read, but it may take a day or two for us to respond due to the personal requirement that we BOTH read before responding. Please have a bit of patience. We also will ignore messages from people who don't have a proper profile or pictures and who want to "hook up". Would you agree to meet someone sight unseen? No, us either.
I am back after taking a little time to figure out some things in life and i am ready to get back into the swing of things!! get at me friends!
i am a 28 year old guy that is looking for new experiences. I am up to try anything once! I have had a few bi experiences just one on one things i would really like to find a couple or single females or males that want to play in a group setting. i am 5ft 4in about 130lbs i try to keep myself in shape as much as possible and i love all things that have to do with sex if i can lick it, suck it, play with it till you scream, or anything of that nature i will. I am a strong believer that every person is beautiful and sexy in some way, not everyone has a perfect body, a big dick, big boobs, etc. but every person has something about them that i would like to explore. I am willing to travel just need to make arrangements. If you are interested give me a shout and lets see what happens.
He is 6'1" 210 lbs with brown hair and eyes. She is 5'2" about 160 lbs with blond hair and blue eyes 38C We are happily married and have been together for over 10 years. We have children at home so for obvious reasons we are unable to entertain. We enjoy the outdoors, nude beaches, and ski often during the winter. We enjoy going to restaurants, bars, nightclubs,and on premise swing clubs. We also enjoy the theater and attend plays . We are discrete and expect the same from you. If you might be thinking about not using a condom then you better bring your papers with you. (Tested with in the last month) Not perfect but vastly better than nothing.
We're a married couple, totally in love with each other. We are nice, attractive, discreet, self-confident, open-minded... and love sex! We want to expand our sexual horizons, adding more excitement for both of us. Everything that we do, we do together, including reading and responding to messages. We're mostly interested in exploring our bi-side in relaxed MMFF encounters with the "right" bi-couple. We're not interested in bed-hopping... Ideally, we would meet an attractive, clean, nice, discreet bi (or bi-curious) married couple who is also interested in developing a long-lasting friendship. We would enjoy ourselves in and out of the bedroom, meeting occasionally for dinner, attend a concert, a wine festival, movie, etc., then going home for intense fun... We're NOT interested in hard-core swingers. We would like to develop an exclusive friends-with-benefits relationship with a like-minded bi-couple, even if they're not local to our area (we are willing to travel occasionally).
we are both down to earth individuals. we like doing things together...all the time. we are not stuck-up. we like trying new things whenever possible. we are very out going, spontaneous, friendly people.if u don't have a pic,we will not respond
Professional and discreet. I am D/D free, and expect the same. I am very laid back and if things don't work out I always say meeting new people always gives you a new perspective of life. I am willing to try anything except standard bathroom games.... I would only try things with a guy if his gr/wife were involved.
At this time we have room for 2 more local couples to join us at our yearly Swingers Halloween Party. Like we said local couples. Just let us know if you are interested and we can check out your profile and send you a yes or a no on the invite.
We are a very easy going couple. We have been together for 22 years, wonderful years and have been in the swinging lifestyle for 17 years. We have met several nice people and have made many life long new friends. Hope to add to that list of friends. I enjoy playing golf when time and money permits. We do not push anyone into anything. We really have no age limitations even though it is listed, we haven't really figured out why people put age limits in there profile. Everyone likes sex, at least we know we do. Race is not an issue either, people are people and should be treated with love and respect. If you don't agree with our thinking then chances are we will not get along. New Years Eve Party Information?
Special question, Why is it that no one seems to write anymore? Has that become a thing of the past? We love hosting house parties and would enjoy finding new people to write us and ask us about them. Maybe even join us. We realize that with the way the economy is sometimes it is a bit difficult but at least try. As you can see we are life members that truly wish to meet new friends.
Biwm masculine open to new experiences with non-drama people, sense of humor somewhat dry. I dislike labels and tend to focus on the person not their sexual orientation. I enjoy staying in shape.
I'm separated and have a young son who is top priority.
I'll add more as I go and think about things....you know...things.
Secure couple wanting to try new things sexually. Open to others who are clean, discreet, drug/disease free. Keeping things realistic, we both have a couple extra pounds and we're not necessarily looking for super models.
We're Dave and Carol, a playful, down-to-earth, adventurous couple happily in a loving and open marriage who's fun to be around and that's always looking for a good time. While we definitely have a bit of a wild streak we do keep it within limits. Are open to new experiences and love trying new things. We're outgoing and social people who would like to find friends and companions with whom we can enjoy a variety of activities both within and outside of the bedroom. Long time members of the lifestyle as singles as well as a couple and do enjoy all aspects of it however pain definitely is not our thing. Have participated in threesomes, foursomes, and myriad other parings/groupings, video and photography, meet and greets, swing clubs, house parties, gang bangs, group sex/orgies, and swinging camping. It is all good. Will and do play on the first meeting if everything clicks but it definitely has to be mutual with both parties. We like seduction, eroticism, sensuality, and special moments.
We do live very busy lives as well as have small children at home so it is not always convenient for us to meet up but we like to play a little whenever possible. Both of us are free to play separately. With our respective schedules it's more often separately. We love to hear about each otherís experiences with others and especially love it when we can view it via photos or video. We do like playing together when the opportunity arises as well as seeing the acts first hand.
We live in Phoenix but travel frequently to Southern California, the greater Las Vegas area, the greater Kansas City area, as well as much of Iowa. Don't smoke but don't mind if you do. We're disease free and tested regularly. We are both straight but bi-comfortable/bi-playful as long as boundaries are respected. Drop us a line and let us know what you are looking for as we're sure we can figure something out!
er....this is a Swingers website, just primarily a Bi-Swingers site, so most have probably done some playing. Something about your post just doesn't ring true for me, and I feel like we are all being played. Mainly because if you did actually do research, your questions would have already been answered.
But I will respond as if this was a serious query...
There are different types of Swinger Clubs and Swinger Parties. Some are "Off-Premises" clubs where people go to mingle and chat, and if things go right, leave with others. Other clubs are "On-Premises" places where things happen right there. But either way, no one is ever pressured to have sex with anyone they don't want. There are also "Orgy Parties" where it is big free for all with everyone doing everyone.
When you come across places, they will be one type or the other, and will be billed as such. It's usually best to start with an Off-Premises place first, just too meet the people and get an idea of what they are like and if you are into it. From there you can move on and do as you like.
Having just returned from Maui, I have tan lines. My seem to pop out gleaming. I really like it. I suppose that I could go and do the sun booth and take care of things all over, but I'm enjoying the remains of my Maui memories. I vote tan lines are sexy!
If you go to NASCA's website you can find clubs and such. I hope its ok to post their name here without the link. I figured since BP is listed there it would be ok. BP may actually have a link to the site here on their site somehere. But that site lists clubs and sites and events and other things associated with swingers.
Delilah, there's gotta be some club like that downt here, I know they have at least 2 swingers clubs - I'd only be concerned about the environment itself. It tends to get a bit sleazy in some areas. Considered inquiring about Philly? That town is a den of inequity... A new thread on Tgirl clubs in south Jersey might get more attention though???
I was flipping around the stations on television the other night, and caught a feature story on CBC Newsworld on an On-premise club in Montreal club L'Orage. The club was in the news this past year for having been raided and then partially winning a court case when the judge said that an on-premise club is not necessarily illegal. The short part of the report showed a bit of what the inside of the club is like (a little like a straight version of a gay bathhouse for those that have been in one.) and showed a few people walking around.
However the part that caught my attention was a stat that said that 90% of all women at swing clubs are bi. Okay I can accept that, though I feel that many of the 90% may not be really bi, just going with their partners wishes. However it also said that only 3% of men in the lifestyle are bi.
Now that seems preposterously low. Now for many clubs male bisexuality is taboo, or at least discouraged. I strongly suspect that it is far higher than 3%, it's just that most men are not openly displaying their bisexual side. I base this suspicions not just on this board and the increasing number of web sites for bisexual male swingers but also in the number of ads looking for bimales or bicouples in the local swingers magazine.
So what does everybody think? Is that number ridiculously low? Or is it an accurate reflection of reality?
Well actually this is how i came to appreciate sucking a mans cock. I've attended swing clubs in the past, first as a couple then later as a single male. as a sinlge male i've learned if a woman asks me if i was "open to new things" this met was i willing to have sex with her husband as well as her. at first, i'd only let a husband suck me...then after a few experiences i became interested in how it felt and I learned to return the favor.
I've come to learn when a couple wants to play with me alone in a closed room, that most likely sex between me and her husband will come up.
Interesting enough, sex between men at swing clubs in public rooms still seems to taboo and reason to be kick out of some clubs or asked not to come back at the least.
There are very few swing clubs that have special bi nights where two men fucking or sucking in public is completely acceptable...and womening are getting to enjoy and experience two men fucking
When I posted the original message I was referring to openly bi-males with female partners that actively swing with other bi-males or bicouples, but out of the gaze of the swing clubs. Certainly the number of boards I've come across the cater to Bi-male swingers plus a few swing clubs for Bicouples that have Bi-male partners would suggest a great need is trying to be filled. Are we underrepresented in the Lifestyle community? Are our needs being met? Do we need to become more active and vocal so that we can be seen? Certainly bioldguy69's experience would suggest we have a long way to go, and the Lifestyle community might have to reflect on whether it needs be more inclusive of it's adherents.
Hey. We are just south of you near Lynchburg. We are looking for friends to hang out with and look with. While at this moment we are not so much into couples in bed we would love to find similar minded friends to relax with and go to Swingers Clubs with (do they have those in southern VA? I know they did when I was near DC...) So if we sound interesting, please let us know. Thanks y'all.
When we were down in the Philadelphia area a couple of months ago, we went to several on-premise clubs, the one we liked best was The Farm near York, Pa. But if you are looking off-premise clubs, especially NASCA sponsored clubs then I have no idea....
There are a few other clubs too. the green door, is a place where you can watch people having sex, or join in. If there are not enough women there ask the people that work there. The owner owns a strip club too, and he will bring girls from his club to play too. The Red Rooster is a swingers club.
We are an Orlando couple in our mid 20's looking for friends, possibly more. No pressure friendship. We're still new to fetish/kink lifestyles (among other things) and are open to new experiences. We'll try almost anything at least once. We are a little on the shy side, so tend to not go to any of the clubs since we don't know anyone there. We would like to go to clubs/outings and things like that, if someone we knew recommended it. We would like to meet people close to our ages. With Couples, we do not go for full swap/separate rooms. We want to be all together. For Bis-we are looking for submissive or switch to males and females, common interests. and possible long term. Bis-we are looking for possible long term friendship, common interests, submissive or switch to males and females. We are looking for open minded people in general, because we would like to experiment with different things. Not being camera shy is a plus, we like to take pictures. No players or fakers, only people who are true and willing to follow through.
if your traveling to Vega's soon ,and you would like some information about the hot spots in town . or some great places to eat and drink . swingers clubs , i would try the green door, or the red rooster . I'm more than happy to help, with anything you can think of .just send me a mail on the forum post , and i will get back with you. thanks for giving me a look hope to see you in town winning big or if you would like to here some of my vegas secrets and i will tell you some goodones and please if you have any coments about my article plese tell me
Hi, I have been using this site for a few days and have found it a wonderful resource. My bi-curious husband and I are still on the "talk about everything" stage of a potential MMF. We will be in Vegas soon for a few days and are inclined to try at least one of the swingers clubs there. The FAQs of these clubs state they are welcoming of bi males, although they suggest using private rooms for actual MM play. My questions to the Bi- and/or Bi-curious men on BP is: Have you attempted to or actually experience MM play at a on-premise club? Did you feel welcome to do so?
We don't know if we will be ready to take the plunge by the time we get to Vegas, but since I am the most 'reserved' half (due to previous bad experience-too much, too fast & clueless) we have decided to make HIM the focus of any encounter. I'd prefer an on-premise encounter to inviting someone back to our room, but would like to hear from actual people if this is feasible or even advisable. Thank you in advance. Any insight would be valuable and appreciated.
Have you considered a local swingers club - while there is play at the clubs, many go for the social connections - just to meet others, and straight husbands with bi wives is the norm, although a lot of the husbands are bi, just don't admit it openly. I have talked to many couples that have given up trying for on line connections, just because of all the BS involved (fakes, posers, etc.). Connecting on here takes a lot of time and patience, and the ability to sort through a lot of chaf.
rocknroll1313 Thanks so much for creating such a great site for swingers. I hope to find a few people on here to explore all life has to offer with and there sure are enough to choose from on here. I will do my best to promote this site to all the bi's and swingers I know! Thanks again!
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