cu_bi_guyI've done a few workshops, but I'm still at the point where I can really benefit
from a connection with someone who has a real feel for the energetics of
tantric sex. One of the frustrating things for me is that if I think too much about
a goal, like some of the energetic circulation stuff in trantra, it takes some of
the steam out of it for me. On the other hand, using breathing, muscle control,
and other methods to build energy have produced some amazing natural highs!