Ideal situation... um being friends first will be a great thing cause then you get to know the person better and learn more than having to go the hard way and find out when dating. I'd prefer to talk a while, get to know the girl better than i might already do.
is always a plus in a relationship but thats all it is and couples can be together for years and not have any and still be happy. But sex is thing that i hold dear and won't spill out to just anyone. I'd have to trust that person a lot.