A secluded place to have fun, since I'm into outdoor/risk, and possibly something low-key but public, like the movies or a night drive
I probably wouldn't care about looks, but definitely cleanliness, and I wouldn't like to be told what to do, I don't think... Depending on whether I was meeting a couple or a guy.
I can't really see myself turning down being picked up, meeting close to my place, in a park or other place at night, or even a store or bathroom or something.
I'm very discreet, so as long as I'm not being kissed in a department store (though I wouldn't care in a theater or car), I wouldn't mind meeting anywhere I can get, really.