Asian

Most of the time

I have had a few experiences (still a beginner)

5' 8, 140 lbs. (Proportionate)

Medium Black

Brown

I have glasses, and I wear them all the time

20 - 45

Single Men
Single Women
Couples

Internet
Phone
Meeting in person
Dating
Short Term Relationship

1 on 1 Sexual Relationship
M-M-F Threesome
M-F-M Threesome

I'm a single male who is trying to break free from my hang ups about my own sexuality. This applies to both how I relate to women and men. Let's face it these various desires within ourselves can be a little difficult to deal with. Usually we're not given the proper emotional tools to resolve questions about sexuality. but I feel that creating a safe environment with other people to explore some of these issues will be beneficial to all. I am hoping to find that here. Usually i am a pretty monogamous person, and eventually I would like to end up with one person, but for now I am opening myself up to a variety of experiences just so that I can find out about myself quickly. Though I want to understand things quickly I still want to do it in as loving as a way as possible.

bayefendim has never gotten together with someone through a site like this before.
bayefendim can possibly entertain at their home.
bayefendim would like to meet at a Bar.
bayefendim can travel up to 20 miles.

We would meet in a public place, a bar or a cafe, and see if we hit off. this ivolves talking with each other, making sure the other person isn't a freak or a killer. There doesn't need to be sparks, there doesn't need to be horns blowing when we meet, there just has to be real live conversation. If we do hit it off than whether we have sex that day or another day would depend on the situation. I'm not opposed to moving quickly as long as it feels right. so much of this depends on how we feel together. If it were a couple I was meeting, I would like to meet both of them.