African American

Caucasian

Yes, always

Yes, always

I have had so many experiences, I can't count them all

I have had so many experiences, I can't count them all

6' 3, 200 lbs. (Average)

5' 4, 200 lbs. (Chubby)

Long Dark Brown

Long Blonde

Brown

Hazel

I don't have glasses

I have glasses, but I don't wear them often

25 - 50

25 - 50

Single Men
Single Women
Couples

Single Men
Single Women
Couples

Internet
Meeting in person
Dating
Short Term Relationship
Long Term Relationship

Internet
Meeting in person
Dating
Short Term Relationship
Long Term Relationship

M-F-F Threesome
M-M-F Threesome
M-F-M Threesome
F-M-F Threesome
Foursome
Group Sex
Other Alternative Lifestyle

M-F-F Threesome
M-M-F Threesome
M-F-M Threesome
F-M-F Threesome
Foursome
Group Sex
Other Alternative Lifestyle

Erin is kind of a modern primitive who's a huge martial arts enthusiast and has been studying various styles since she was about 8; is into philosophy of all kinds (quite heavily eastern), and has a serious preoccupation with sex and sexuality.

Tara is kind of a pragmatic hippie who spends her time reading most anything she can get her hands on; loves to cook (especially baking) and has a strong interest in domesticity.

There are a few tasteful piercings and tattoos between us. Erin's lip ring used to be Tara'a hood jewelry. ;p

We're both very relaxed, laid-back people in our early 30s, who tend to have somewhat dominant (but not pushy) personalities. Both extremely open-minded and non-judgmental (as long as you're enjoying yourself and not hurting anyone else, do what you do, right?). We *love* to laugh and have a good time with interests that range from books and music to kinky, kinky sex. We always enjoy meeting new folks and making friends with those who have a strong sense of themselves and can take a little ribbing here and there. 420-friendly as well.

diamond_tether has gotten together with someone through a site like this before.
diamond_tether can entertain at their home.
diamond_tether would like to meet at an I am not sure yet.
diamond_tether can travel up to 20 miles.

As often as possible, we prefer to meet folks once in person somewhere public over coffee/light meal to give everyone a chance to be sure they like one another. If so, we'll figure out another time and place for play. We generally don't play on the first 'date', but it has happened when the click/chemistry is there. We are able to host if things progress, though. And, please, forgive us our schedules as we'll forgive yours; we're all adults and do have regular lives to attend to.

We prefer and cultivate no-pressure situations, where playing cards and watching movies can be just as fun and satisfying an experience as anything else. People can get way too clinical and machine-like about this stuff, basically expecting certain things to happen and then getting weird regardless. Rest assured that nothing ever *has* to happen with us; whatever everyone's comfortable doing at the time is what we're after - from mild (dinner, cards and movies on the couch) to wild (really, you didn't need all those clothes on anyway..). If it's not fun, then what's the point, right?