Description:
I'm a professional guy in the design world -- a creative type, I guess. I just turned 61 a few days ago. I'm attractive and in good shape. I'm educated, completely sane and normal -- a nice guy, a father and husband, I have two kids in college. I'm married to a wonderful woman who is my best friend and the love of my life. We have a great sex life -- but sometimes I get an itch that needs to be scratched. Although my wife is aware and approves of my periodic need for bisexual play, she's not quite at the point where she's ready to participate, so we've adopted a sort of "don't ask don't tell" policy -- that is, we keep these things quite and low key, etc. As a result, I'm here on my own searching for a local, occasional (but hopefully regular) encounter with a couple that includes a bi man.
I'm open minded, sex positive and non judgmental. I truly love pleasing and being pleased by both men and women. I should add however, that despite my love of same sex play and friendly, good natured kink -- in truth it's really been an occasional thing. That is, I'm largely heterosexual and monogamous. For example, the last time I had any male to male play was in 2010 as part of a mmf threesome. Regardless, sometimes that itch just returns and I need relief.
Basically, I started having occasional bi-mmf threesome in college -- whenever the opportunity presented itself. Sometimes the female third didn't even physically participate but just watched us boys playing with each other -- which I must say is a lot of fun! My first wife and I got into that for a while but then with kids, work, careers, etc., it just subsided for many years. But then, as always -- the itch returns.
I'm disease free. I don't smoke cigarettes, but do smoke weed occasionally and drink socially. However, I have absolutely no problem with people who do smoke and/or drink -- within reason and sanity. I'm a "live and let live" kind of guy.
Also, I have no issues with age, race, body type and the like. Of course, it's about how a person is inside, not the outside.
If you're interested I'd love to hear back -- and please feel free to ask anything you want to know. I'm pretty easy to talk to.