Caucasian

Caucasian

Yes, always

Yes, always

I have a good amount of experience

I have a good amount of experience

6' 2, (Overweight)

5' 10, (Overweight)

Long Light Brown

Long Auburn

Hazel

Blue

I don't have glasses

I have glasses, but I don't wear them often

18 - 45

25 - 45

Single Women

Single Women

Internet
Phone
Meeting in person
Dating
Short Term Relationship
Long Term Relationship

Internet
Phone
Meeting in person
Dating
Short Term Relationship
Long Term Relationship

M-F-F Threesome
Other Alternative Lifestyle

M-F-F Threesome
Other Alternative Lifestyle

Kim and I are very a happily married chubby (ok, lets get real... we're fat) couple who have a very healthy D/s relationship (I am the "D", and Kim the "s". I am straight, and Kim is bi-sexual. We both love to hang out with friends, play board and card games, and just goof around. Our sense of humor is quirky, but since we can entertain ourselves, we don't worry too much about the rest of the world "getting it". The beach is our favorite place to play though we enjoy camping just about anywhere. Kim likes to fish. I will fish, but just don't ask me to clean or eat what I catch. Ditto for crabbing. More for her that way, though she'll share with the right person... We both enjoy reading. Fantasy is a favorite genre for both of us and Kim also enjoys horror/suspense. We're both pretty crafty. I do woodworking and leather working, while Kim does tole painting, quilt making, gardening, and writing. Oh! Let's not forget cooking! Kim loves to cook and bake! Which explains the chubby/fat thing I suppose. I am Wiccan and Kim is Pagan. Kim is also a certified Reiki practitioner. She loves doing energy work for people. We're looking forward to getting to know folks and making friends. Just remember, you never know unless you try. We don't bite (unless you want us to... ;D ). Drop us a line!

paulnkim has never gotten together with someone through a site like this before.
paulnkim can entertain at their home.
paulnkim would like to meet at a Restaurant.
paulnkim can travel up to 100 miles.

We would ideally like to find a bisexual woman who would be attracted to and in time could come to care for the both or us as much as we would care for her. Our "alternative lifestyle" is, as we mentioned before, a very healthy D/s relationship. We would like our prospective 3rd to be at least somewhat interested in being a submissive to me (Paul) as Kim is. Please don't panic and think that we're asking you to allow yourself to be abused. That's simply not the case. If you're interested and this one detail is keeping you from writing because you lack the knowledge and are fearfull, we would be more than happy to give you a list of very good educational websites that explain Dominance and submission and how it works in healthy relationships. A person will develop either dominant or submissive personality over time. Sometimes, a person can be what's called a "switch" which means they are comfortable in either role. But I'm probably telling you stuff that you already know so lets move on, shall we? We both are very firm believers in the mantra "Safe, Sane and Consensual". Trust and communication are the most important parts of our relationship and that would extend to any other person who became involved with us. Our kinky freakyness is never pushed onto others. When you're ready to take that step we're there for you.