Addendum:
Safe sex question full answer: Yes, but I was bi-celibate until pretty recently, and in monogamous LTRs with women before that including a marriage, and had a vascectomy during that relationship, so we had unprotected safe sex...Also different activities carry with them different risks, and to be completely frank, I've never used a dental dam...am happy to test, feel free to ask if I've done that yet if we start planning to meet, and if I haven't yet, I will get it done before we meet.
I need to post some pics here too, will try to do that soon. A family member had an emergency that required my presence a lot right after I signed up here, still catching up on other obligations...
Original profile follows:
I'm fun in bed but really inept at enticing you into it
I realized I was bi, in my twenties, when reading TG dating ads turned me on...may have just "discovered" "Shemale porn" but I didn't want to bother a tg person about my porn-inspired fantasies, but after years of quasi-celibacy with a porn/toys stash...I feel okay with annoying CD's and guys, some women too if they'd like to pop into range...
8-P I want to play with optimistic creative people who like to laugh more than dramalama/ intrigue...and though I'm certainly not oblivious to hot attractive people, I care much more about personality regarding who I'd play with...breathtaking beauty makes me nervous too...much rather have a great fuck with and average or homely person I relate to well or have fevered arguments with(all in good fun) than to Oaf and fumble and feel like a loser for nerding out because I'm afraid of pretty
I want people I play with to keep me abreast of any risks Im taking...unless I get a crush I'm not jealous...just if you boinked a stranger since the last time we hung out...tell me. I will take care that the company I keep gets what they need if I have it to give...
and I want to be around people who like each other and enjoy collaborating for mutual Lulz and warm fuzzies etc...