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Bi Sexual Woman Relationships

I am a married woman interested in companionship and sexual relationships. No emotional relationships aside from friendships.
We are a couple who would like to have drama free sexual fun with a bi-sexual woman. We are both educated people who need discreet relationships. We love sex and want to experience a woman in our bed!
I am an intelligent, creative, and very sexual woman. I am polyamorous and pagan. I have a big heart and like to have loving lasting relationships with all my lovers. Right now there is only one. I dye my hair dark purple, have bright blue eyes and a belly ring. I am kinky but also love passionate vanilla relationships.
When I first joined this website, I considered myself to be bi-sexual, my relationships were with men and I had a few sexual experiences with women. Since then, I have had a relationship with a woman (it has since ended) which leads me to believe that I am not sure that I want to be with a man again sexually. So, am I bi-sexual or a lesbian? These are the questions I am trying to answer!
I am a 36 year old bi-curious woman. Although I have been married for eight years and have never had a sexual encounter with another woman, the thought of it interests me very much. I have joined this site to learn more about bi-sexual encounters and to be honest, am quite nervous about it. I am also interested in three way encounters and very much enjoy relationships with men as well.
I am an attractive, easy going, intelligent woman. I love sports, reading, shopping, movies, and being outdoors. I am honest, sincere, and loyal in my relationships. I have always felt like there was something missing in my life. I have been married for some time, but was always looking for that woman to be my best friend, to develop a deep relationship. I finally realized that I wanted more than just a friendship. I am just now exploring those feelings, but have no idea where to go with them. I am not into games or casual relationships, but I flourish in trusting, honest relationships.
This is an excellent topic and after reading all of the posts, I have to agree on two major points. One, it is a preference/choice to some extent, and two, I believe that there are different degrees of bisexuality. And this, not only in males. I have had many female friends who were bisexual like myself. As such, we would actually have long term loving relationships with another woman which included kissing, loving, nurturing and caring. We have also had short term relationships with women. I have also known may bi sexual and bi curious women who would only receive the oral sexual pleasure from another woman, not necessarily kissing or any real intimacy. I think where a lot of people lose site is that they denote sex with intimacy, and as Charlie pointed out, one night stands or things of that nature have nothing to do with intimacy and everything to do with one quick release. The way I figure it though, is that with a site such as this, you can see just exactly what any potential partner is looking for and how far they are willing to go. I have to be quite honest with you, I have had sex with men and never kissed them, but with women, there is always a kiss. I don't know why, that's just the way the ball bounced in those particular situations.
We have met many people here and a good number of them have not only made the *lasting friend* list but have become a part of our FAMILY. There is nothing sexual in these relationships nor would it ever go there. We also came for the sex........ but stayed for the friends. You CAN be friends without the sex here. And shouldn't be condemned for that. We all have our wants/likes/dislikes and those should be respected. Some are only here for the sex and thats great if thats what they want. But those that are here for just the friends should also be respected. I know in our case, our lives are fuller because of the NON sexual relationships we have found here. Hugs & Kiss
Di
I am married to a wonderful bisexual woman for the past 25 years. I also am bisexual and amazingly we never new this about each other but in retrospect I should have picked up on it. At any rate we are in tune with this now but I am curious about the differences between relationships in men and women outside the marriage. To me a sexual fling, or fuck buddy etc. is purely for the pleasure of physical sex. I consider romantic or loving type friendships to be another dimension entirely. My wife has multiple platonic relationship of a deep and lioving nature that I would classify as affairs due to the intensity but because they are platonic I am not certain how to categorize them. I find them painful to address as I am the type of person that maintains that emotional committment must be total. Of course she disagrees with me and consider that a person can love many different prople but at different levels. This is hard for me and perhaps it is a fundamental difference between men and women and how we view relationships. Or perhaps I am too stringent in my interpretation. She suggests I develop "friends" as she has done (I tend to be a loner and she has been my soulmate and only true friend) so this will be difficult for me. I am setting up for sexual gratification with other bisexual men and possibly women although she feels threatened by that unless she is involved. She does not want sex as frequently as I as she appears to have entered the age where vaginal dryness is causing her a great deal of pain and I take up to an hour to reach orgasm. So we are dealing with that using oral and or manual methods but it is a separate issue. Any insights on how people consider and/or separate sexual relationships from romantic relationships is appreciated.
Many people are 100% gay or lesbian, and are drawn sexually and emotionally only to partners of the same sex. Others are completely heterosexual, bonding in sexual and intimate relationships only with people of another sex. But what about everybody else? A significant percentage of people do not fit neatly into either of these categories, because they experience sexual and emotional attractions and feelings for people of different genders at some point during their lives. For lack of a better term, they are called bisexuals, although many people prefer to call themselves "pansexual," "non-preferential,&am p;quot; "sexually fluid," "ambisexual,&quot ; or "omni-sexual.&quo t;
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Bisexuality is the potential to feel sexually attracted to and to engage in sensual or sexual relationships with people of either sex. A bisexual person may not be equally attracted to both sexes, and a degree of attraction may vary over time. Self-perception is the key to a bisexual identity. Many people engage in a sexual activity with people of both sexes, yet do not identify as being bisexual. Likewise, other people engage in sexual relations only with people of one sex, or do not engage in sexual activity at all, yet consider themselves bisexual. There is no behavioral "test" to determine whether or not one is bisexual.
The question is "Why are there so many Bi-curious Middle Aged Men"? My answer getting down to the nitty gritty is that a man, in general has 10 times the Physical drive that a woman has! Why do men typically have to PAY for sexual enjoyment when most women do not? There are many exceptions to this, but I feel this general rule holds! Many middle aged men have been LOCKED down in relationships that may be mostly exclusive and they are supressed or prohibited by those very relationships sexually! Women in our society have been bred from the very beginning to resist sexual pleasure and thus women are supressed in that way! Isn't this really kinda sick when we do things to supress people? As we get older, some of us realize that allot of the constraints that were put on us as youngsters just do not apply anymore and we are now ALLOWED to actually enjoy ourselves uninhibited, whatever your personal choices. After all, who are we hurting when there are two or more consenting adults participating! True freedom comes from allowing yourself to do whatever you want, NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE ELSE SAYS OR EXPECTS! After all, we only have ourselves to answer to when the end comes, so why not enjoy life in whatever capacity you can.
Bi-sexual black woman looking for a discreet, but ongoing (depending on chemistry & agreement) sexual relationship & friendship with a bi-sexual woman with no strings attached!

Interests:

Lesbian Sex
I have had great experiences with woman. But want to get together and Fuck a female in my area which is Minneapolis, Minnesota. I m bi-sexual female married. Looking for Friends/with sexual benefits. I haven't Fucked a woman in a few years and wish to again very soon. Want to taste a females Pussy again soon.HugKiss:)
First Time
first timers: How would an experienced man or couple normally approach a man with his first bi-sexual encounter? I assume gentle is better but I'm sure some are more forceful. Do gentle folks find the results more rewarding, or does the thought of being with a bi-sexual first timer excite one into a frenzy? I would think a woman being present would make things go more smoothly, but what are a womans view on being with a married man looking mainly for a MM contact, but obviously coming in contact with a woman also. Happy Holidays:)
Flirting
I agree fliriting can be a good ice breaker. I Love flirting with woman and men and couples. Love flirting online in chat rooms or IM's. Gets both parties in the mood and to get to know eachother better. I live in Minneapolis, Minnesota married bi-sexual female looking for BI=SEXUAL FEMALE/BI CURIOUS FEMALE FOR FRIENDS //WITH SEXUAL BENEFITS... THANKS BRANDI.:)Hug
Women Wanting Couples
We are looking for a drama free connection with a sexual experimental and fun woman. I have had sex with a few woman before being with my husband and we have been in a monogamous relationship for over 13 years. Very discreet and open-minded. We have never done this before and it is going to take a very special woman to peek our interest. But look out for when she does.. It could be an amazing and fun time.
Mature Married Bi-females
When I saw the Oprah show a few weeks ago about beautiful, sexy, married bi-sexual woman struggling without support, I thought I'd look into it some more. You see, I am one of those frustrated "desperate" housewives, who feels completely alone! I actually joined this site not so much as to find a sexual partner, (although THAT would be great), but to find support from other woman. Bisexuality can be so complicated, we woman ought to really stick together. Is anyone in the Greater Los Angeles, or West L.A. area interested in forming some sort of an alliance where, perhaps a few well matched woman of similar backgrounds and interests can get together? We can plan it slowly, find a cafe for all who care to meet, and go from there! You just know we'll have great conversation, at the very least, and make new exciting gal-pals most. Now, doesn't that sound proactive?! Aw common, let your spirit sour!!HugKissKissFlower
Bisexual Women
I am bisexual woman that wants the companionship of a woman to have fun and sex. My bf would like to watch. Hes a newbie..But doesnt mind if i have a girlfriend to do all the girlie things and have all the sexual fun I want. In time he may join in..if that's ok.. If interested just send me a message and tell me that u have seen my advertisement for a single bi woman-Kiss:-P

Testimonials

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HI BillnPattie, I had to let you know what a terrific site this is! Seems like I'm coming here all the time... LOL I've tried for many years to smash my bi-sexual desires and then a few years ago I told my husband. Oh my has life changed!!!!! He brought them out full force. Never seen a man smile so much. We have become so much more in tune with each other and he's shown me that other realm of sex that I never new existed. Anyway, I love just browsing around and the more I see and read helps me to see that just because I desire a woman too, I'm OK. Now if I can get over this damn shyness, life couldn't be better! Hats off to you!