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I'm 37 and have been married for 10 years. My wife and I used to enjoy the lifestyle both before and during the first few years of our marriage. We met several singles and couples so that she could explore her bisexual side and enjoy multiple partners. Sadly, when I approached her about exploring my own bi side, she freaked out. I've tried to approach the topic many different ways but it always ends with her saying it's not something she's interested in. Other than this one thing, our marriage is pretty good - but I'm extremely frustrated sexually. I figured I'd try this site to find some like minded people to help me explore my bi side. I've got some very limited experience so, ideally, I'd like to meet a couple first. However, I'm completely open to meeting singles as well. I've had experience orally with men, but am very eager to try more.
Successful and well established educated male. Former professional athlete looking for fun and escape from a mundane sex life with wife. Not looking to change my mariatl status so I must be discreet. Want to explore and experience satisfying and being satisfied sexually with couples or solo women or solo men. Love anal play, oral sex, masturbation and long for FFM and/or MMF sexual encounters. Want to rekindle experiences I had before marriage. Drug free, disease free, non-smoker, social drinker, hygiene is important.
Femdom marriage
Bi guy,in an open marriage.
In a sexless marriage, lonely ad shy.
I am married. My wife and I enjoyed swinging for about 18 months but I still want to find a guy to play with while she is "taking a break". She knows I am looking and will want to meet whoever I plan to have sex with just to make sure she likes you. Happy wife, happy marriage as they say. We have been married more than 5 years and been best friends for much longer than that. We both love travel, movies, live music, and the great outdoors. Colorado is gorgeous and we love it here. Sexually, we have explored Tantra, Light Bondage, and swinging (MMF, MMFF).. I am looking for an easy going, fun-loving single or married bisexual man (if you are married I'd want your wife to know you are doing this too. Secrets are too hard to keep and I don't want to break up a marriage.. We prefer to getting to know you a bit before hopping into the sack. Attraction is a multi-level experience for us. Depth and chemistry are a must. If this is you, please connect.
Recently single from a 10 year marriage. Bi-curious, 6ft1 230lb little extra in the middle.
Bisexual woman, 39, in open marriage with wife, seeking single men or M/W couple for casual encounter.
Regular guy in a sexless marriage. found my bi side with a couple some time ago now looking to explore. I'm very easy going as long as we are relaxed and can enjoy ourselves
I am47 average he is 43 looking to spice up marriage of 20yrs some drinking no smoking very clean and loving woman to join us at our house tonight
Orally bi hite male who is in a sexless marriage . Physically I am 6 feet 2 inches tall salt and pepper hair close-cropped beard and mustache.
We are down to earth couple, we have been married 22 years, and after 18 years of marriage we both decided to not fantasize but live!
We're a couple looking for the right women to have a threesome with or just fool around aND we're even ok with a women who wants to start out watching completely nsa and will be drama free and serious women only. .
I'm latino, looking 4 a women who likes 2 play w/ women & men. I have dated married men & women. I have 3 kids & family drama
I'm a no-drama girl next door, with a wild side! I love women...seriously love women! No men please!! Would love a fff, or more. Love the idea of lots of women to enjoy every inch of them! Discretion is a must! Did I mention I love women?!?
I want to please the woman.... see two women pleasing each other... see women having squirting orgasms Would like oriental women, Koreans, Chinese, Japanese or Latina.... University or working females.
I am a married guy who is in an open marriage. My wife and I have no secrets. I am new to actually exploring my bisexual side. I can be alittle shy at first but open up rather quickly after getting to know someone alittle. I am a bottom and I enjoy having someone else take control.
Coming from a married female on this site I would rather have the truth told to me then be snuck around on behind my back. That's why we refuse to mess around with married men OR women. Having a distrustful marriage (regardless of sexual problems) is not a marriage. Work on your issues instead of going outside of your marriage or let your spouse know what you are feeling and let them make the decision on whether they want to work on things. If you say you love your spouse then love them enough to be honest with them. Anyway that's my opinion but you know what they say about those....
~Trouble
i would like to find and get together with bi fems, for long term relations, i am white male single, i do not want to hear from men or couples, just women who have this interest, we can become couple, i prefer only women, i do not lke to be watched by men, or even see men,
what i would like is perhaps even marriage to a bi fem women who would only be interested in women, any interested would love to hear from you
Liz0125 hit the nail on the head when she said, "women are taught/socialized that we are to be chased and to protect our 'virtue'".

Not readily apparent but nonetheless lurking behind SookieB's question is the old Christian "virgin/slut" paradox, which turns women into a form of chattel--livestock, if you will--upon marriage. But brands their unmarried, sisters as promiscuous "sluts," "whorebags," or "harlots."

As "mad" Willie Blake once put it:

But most thro’ midnight streets I hear
How the youthful Harlot's curse
Blasts the new-born Infants tear
And blights with plagues the Marriage hearse

Small wonder that, for as long as it's been around, matrimony has come under attack of one sort or another, but has always recovered.

Right around the corner from the spacious boulevards of "marital bliss" lies St herine Street, as SookieB should well know.
We are a married couple looking to spice up are marriage. We are looking for single women with some experience to help us live out our fantasy. so let us know if you can help us.
looking for a bi women to bring into my marriage for 1 time or a few times. he dont want to have sex he wants to watch. i want to know how it is. we are friendly fun loving people.
If you try and involve him and he continues to be dis-interested, just do what he's already given you permission for: have the fun with another woman on the side. At least it will be with his knowledge and 'permission'.

I was in a marriage of 20 years where I couldn't express my bisexuality - well, just one time when she didn't know.

Now both my fiance and I are bi and swingers. We've done alot of straight full swaps and a few fully bi couples... those are the most fun - you never have to wait to have fun... lol We even had a great time at our first 'house party' when we were invited to a friends home along with about 10 couples. Only the women were all bi for that... but that was still WONDERFUL!

Basically my advice is not to try and stifle your urges - allow yourself to have the fun and release that you can from 'naked time' with the same sex. If you can convince your hubby to play along, then great - if not, then play without him (and suggest that he go for mental health counseling *just joking* - he would be one of the few that truly isn't interested in watching 2 women play - or even better yet, FMF s - hmmmm... I love them!!)

Actually, let me make one more suggestion here. You specifically mentioned that your communications with him suck - that is what doomed my previous marriage. It really was a 20 year marriage that shouldn't have lasted 10, but I fought to try and keep it together. I wouldn't trade that 10 years back even if I could because I wouldn't have met the wonderful person - my true soulmate that I'm with now. If communications continue to suck for you two - I would seriously suggest counseling for you both - or you probably won't last as a couple. Oh... one more thing - buy "The 5 Languages" - you two might literally be trying to say you love each other, but in such a way that neither of you see or hear it.
hi,,,i have 4 women i play with,,,and they all know and support me being bi,,,oh and a couple i join,,,,i feel sorry for all u guys who have to hide it,,,,to me a marriage like that sucks,,,,shit even my x knew about it,,,,she even sucked in bed but she knew,,,its the greatest feeling enjoying both together,,,,,anybody close that wants to join in is very welcome,,,,well we dont like cheatting husbands,,,,but u never know,,u might have something we would like to play with,,,oh yea and 3 of the women r bi also
Lidie_Ray, I want to congratulate you both on your impending marriage and Ray i must tell you that Lidie is a beautiful women. Good Luck and much happiness

Mike
With so many countries now embracing Gay Marriage, should there be a push to do the same with Plural Marriage?
After all, assuming that ALL the parties involved are fully consenting adults, what's wrong with say four guys becoming husbands or a man having two or more wives etc.
Some religions and sects encourage it and until the later middle ages it was common all over the world - Although this was almost always one man with many wives.
We're open to the idea, indeed a couple more husbands and another wife would be quite useful to us right now!
By the way, this post isn't intended to sort out the issues of human relationship and the problems that would happen in plural marriage, just the principle
Hi, I am wondering if I should be on this site or not. I am a straight, 44, SWM, six foot, 195 lbs, shaved head, blue eyes, not bad looking and an all around good guy. I am fun, fun loving and also responsible. I am a somewhat traditional in a lot of ways, especially regarding courtship, but I am modern in many ways as well.

I am looking for a bi female and ultimately looking for a LTR and possibly marriage with same. I have had long term relationships with bi women before and found that it seemed to work best for me. I believe you can have a romantic and committed relationship that has some extra points to it with bi women. I am not necessarily looking for threesomes but really a woman who periodically sleeps with other women. Someone who might have a friend-with-benefits or two but who is mainly focused on our relationship.

There's more to a relationship than the erotic, though I believe it is very important. It requires a lot of work, anyone above a certain age will tell you. So her being bi is not the be-all and end-all for me. It is just a very nice aspect to think about, even when I am just thinking about her during the day. Maybe she is flirting with some girl at the gym, maybe she is checking out the waitress at lunch. This is nice.

I have found that there are a lot of venues for bi women to meet other women but not a whole lot of places for straight men to meet bi women, specifically. Perhaps because they are so coveted by straight men, I don't know.

So I am wondering if this is the right site for me to find someone and/or if there is another that might be recommended. I am about to move to LA from the east coast and would also love to know of places where I might socialize to meet bi women as well.

Am I nuts?

Thanks.

Joey
i guess i want my cake and eat it too, pardon the pun... but anyway, i'm new to actively looking for something outside of my marriage, so i'm a little nervous, but i would like to meet someone for me, who could agree with my husband.... i'm experienced, from truly before i got married, but i had a girlfriend inside the marriage a couple years ago that ended kinda bad... but anyway, i just want to get comfortable with who i am, and learn to be more open and trusting...
Women over 30
> This is for all you girls 30 years and over....and for those who are turning 30, and for those who are scared of moving into their 30's!!!!...This was written by Andy Rooney from CBS 60 Minutes)
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> As I grow in age, I value women who are over 30 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:
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> A woman over 30 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.
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> If a woman over 30 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do And, it's usually something more interesting.
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> A woman over 30 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of 30 give a damn what you might think about her or what she's doing.
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> Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
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> Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.
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> A woman over 30 has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. She couldn't care less if you're attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won't betray her.
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> Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 30. They always know.
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> Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 30 is far sexier than her younger counterpart. Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk or if you are acting like one! You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her.
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> Yes, we praise women over 30 for a multitude of reasons.
> Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of 30+, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year-old waitress.
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> Ladies, I apologize. For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying the entire , just to get a little sausage.
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Are there any married bi women who's spouse is unaware of their lifestyle willing to converse with a 52 yo man in the same situation, to compare notes? I think bi's have a unique outlook on sexuallity and marriage, and ideally bi's may be happier with other bi's who participate in each other's lifestyle.
I have not read this thread in detail, so somebody may have said this already, but here is my opinion. Now, this is me, understand that we all travel different roads in life, but we all seem to essentially come to some shared points in "older age", that would be late 60s for me. I never had a thought about even the possibility of getting naked alone with another guy let alone getting intimate. My turning point came a few years after my dear wife had some serious medical issues which left her with absolutely no sex drive at all, at least that is what she tells me. Its a bitch to, because at 63 she is as, if not more, attractive than ever.
Now, would I like to find a women to play with of course, but affairs get messy quickly (experience from marriage number one) and there are other reason. Also, and this is my main point, most women my age, like my wife have no interest at all in cock. And what women below say, 45 wants anything to do with a 68 year old man when there is so much young, firm and so attractive meat available. So I think that is why most men my age turn to looking for some sexual relief from guys our age and in our same situation. Just sayin.
For all those men who say, Why buy a cow when you can get milk for free. Here's an update for you: Now days, 80% of women are against marriage, WHY? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage.

Men are like....

1. Men are like .. Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.

2. Men are like. Bananas . The older they get, the less firm they are.

3. Men are like Weather . Nothing can be done to change them.

4. Men are like .... Blenders You need One, but you're not quite sure why.

5. Men are like .... Chocolate Bars .... Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.

6. Men are like .... Commercials ....... You can't believe a word they say.

7. Men are like Department Stores ..... Their clothes are always 1/2 off!

8. Men are like ...... Government Bonds .... They take soooooooo long to mature.

9. Men are like ..... Mascara . They usually run at the first sign of emotion.

10. Men are like Popcorn ..... They satisfy you, but only for a little while.

11. Men are like Snowstorms .... You never know when they're coming, how many inches you'll get or how long it will last.

12. Men are like ........ Lava Lamps ... Fun to look at, but not very bright.

13. Men are like Parking Spots All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped.

Now send this to all the remarkable women you know, as well as to any understanding good-natured, fun kinda guys you might be lucky enough to know !!!!!!!!!!
Why Older Chicks Rule by Andy Rooney from CBS "60 Minutes".

This is for all you girls 40 years and over... and for those who are
turning 40, and for those who are scared of moving into their
50's...AND 60's..and for guys who are scared of girls over 40!

Andy Rooney says:

As I grow in age, I value women who are over 40 most of all. Here are just
a few reasons why:

A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night to
ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.

If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit
around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it's
usually something more interesting.

A woman over 40 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she
is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of
40 give a hoot what you might think about her or what she's doing.

Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you
at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course,if
you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they
can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.

A woman over 40 has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women
friends.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess
your sins to a woman over 40. They always know.


A woman over 40 looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true
of younger women.

Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you
are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don't ever have to wonder
where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons.
Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot
woman of 40+, there is a bald, paunchy relic of a man in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year-old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize.

For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk
for free", here's an update for you. Now 80% of women are against
marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig,
just to get a little sausage.




n to all women over 40 !! JT
Hello ladies,yes, it's me,again, seeking your feminine wisdom! Here it is:My wife and I got married since it was the "right" and "honourable" thing to do since we managed to bring a child into the world. We were going to stop seeing eachother till we found out she was pregnant.FAST FORWARD 7 YEARS: We have an open marriage,she has no trouble getting dates,guys don't care if she's married.For me being married is like having a raven on my shoulder! Women find I'm married and they run! Why is that?I realize women look at things differently but I don't get it?Fortunately,I'm Bi so I can find guy friends but I'd like to hear a womans perspective on this.

Interests:

Sex Slave For Couple
Is your marriage stressing you out? Is the passion fading? I put your minds at ease and help couples relax. And then I rev up the sexual energy. You'll forget about your relationship woes and want to fuck like rabbits in no time!
M-M-F Threesome
I'm a "CONVERT"!!! I used to like FMF the most, but my wife kept telling me she liked the idea of two guys working her at the same time. Now all I fantasize about is MFM and MMF! Took me 7 years of marriage to finally cum to my senses!

Ben
Girl On Girl 3somes
What a dream come true!!!! One of my fantasies is to be in jail nad take total advantage of from as many women as possible. Make me their property, whore me out to other women! Yummy!!!!! Please contact me if you would like to talk one on one or one on several women! I need to be taught how to be a good fem on fem slut girl! I am ready!!!!!!!!
Asian Women
I have had the pleasure of dating a couple of Asian women that were about 4' 10" and had very proportionate bodies. They where very enthusiastic when it came to sex. I have a great fondness for women under 5 foot tall and especially Asian women.
Squirting Females
damn wish all women squirted,,,,i have had one,,,she came so much i couldnt sleep in my bed that nite,,,,,any women that do can get ahold of me anytime,,,,love to get wet
Strap-ons
Strap-ons put women on an equal level playing field with men! It's so sexy to have a women make a man submit like this!
Girl On Girl 3somes
I want to be forced... take me.... my jail fantasy to be turned into a whore, tricked out by women and used by as many women as possible! I am so horny!
Asian Women
Having lived in a Thai bar with the women that worked there I find the women some of the most beutiful and sexy in the world. The men and transsexuals were awsome also.
Curvy Women
Curvy women have become a huge interest of ours in past 10 years. Most women have curves and should enjoy their beauty that men can only admire.
Asian Women
I developed a taste for Asian women while on a tour of Thailand. I had the occasion to date several that where between 4' 10" and 5' with very petite figures. All I can say is WOW. They where awesome women to be with.
Men Getting Fucked By Women
I'd love to find some women, or couples (lesbian or male/female) to Fuck my long and hard. Wouldn't mind getting gangbanged by a group of women either!
Women Who Love Giving Blowjobs
Ok, lets break it down this way..

there are women who, will suck cock, if only to please the guy..

Then there are women who actually love sucking... And lets be honest..

if you are doing something because you love it, you are better at it!! if you are doing it , just to please someone else.. its ok.. but, more often than not.. forgetable..

ANSWERS PLEASE!
Women In Panties
MMMMMM luv a women in her sexxy lil panties luv to kiss them; lick em; then just move aside N eat that pussy where you at babe ?? im horny for a sexxy women in panties ?????
Black Women For White Men
This is 1 subject that totally interests me!! I view all women as women, there is no color barrier for me what so ever. There is a lovely lady at work that is so hot that she can get me hard just by flirting. I really can't explain it fully besides the fact she is highly attractive to me. I don't get excited much but she really can get me going. So yes I'm very open to "black ladies for white guys"
Bras
mmmm we luv to see men n women in sexxy bras i luv when me n my gf go out n her sexxy bra is peeking out !!! she gets look from men n women
M-M-M Threesomes
I think that males love males better than most ladies do.Yes women love women + can satisfy themselves more than a man can,but a man knows what a man likes better than a woman does.I'd love to have men share with me.Either oral or anal.maybe a little of sandwiches,I'll propose my ass up to some meat
Grinding Pussy
I want a clit on clit feeling...one of you women please fuck me!!!! Check out me pussy and tell me if you would love to grind with me. I will be your lover! juices all mixed together...OH MY GOD!!!! I am here to fuck women...come play with me. On line, in person, that is what I am all about! flesh on female flesh!

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