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Two passionate men looking to add spice. Mike bisexual and familiar with swinger life. Jim gay, formerly married to a woman though; and looking to enjoy muff diving again; as well as participating in MFM or MFMM play, maybe MFMF. Prefer to spend some time getting to know each other before our clothes come off.
Easy Going, Non Judgmental person. Looking for bi female or bi couple to go to swinger events with and possibly form a life long friendship with. 5'11" 170lbs. In shape Disease Free Discreet Male Ready to Have fun and Meet like minded individuals and couples in this lifestyle.
I am a happily married male who is looking for more! Yes my wife knows I am on this site and meet people from this site, and is ok with that. Although I do not tell her what goes on at these meetings she is not stupid. If I tell her I am going out to meet a person or couple from a swinger site what else can she think?
We've been active in the swinger scene for going on 10 years. We've met a fair amount of people, but are still looking for a great guy that is around our age, who is not unattractive, is at least bisexual and willing to play on equal terms with both of us. She is totally into men and is cool with bi men and loves to play with more than one guy at a time. Her fantasy would be to be gangbanged by 4 or 5 guys, while his is to share some time with each of those guys with her.
I want to find a couple who likes to play strip poker. This can lead to wonderful was to loose a round of poker. I love sucking cock and eating pussy. I have sucked black cocks ( two times-2 different cocks- via this website) but never licked a black pussy. I want to get better, I want to practice whenever the opportunity is available. Some members have sent me a letter, I try to answer all relevant mail asap. I am very up front. I don't say one thing and mean another. I love sex, but don't have to be in love to have sex. I work out regularly, I enjoy music, except rap. I am very oral on men and women. I like to suck as much as be sucked. I have met some and had fun. I have met others where we all parted ways. I have met some guys, who said they were bi, but they just want a blow job and absolutely nothing else. I am not interested in that kind of meeting. I have been to bi-m parties and swinger m and f parties, not frequently but I am not a virgin at such happenings.
I have always been curious sexually and really enjoy both voyeurism and exhibitionism. I am probably more bi-sexual at this point than just bi-curious. I have had a few experiences and have enjoyed them all. I guess I can share a few with you. I talked my wife into going to a swinger's club just to watch 6 or 7 years ago. We both really enjoyed the atmospher and the voyeurism. She was afraid that people would approach her or would pressure us to have sex with them; but that didn't happen and the people were actually very friendly, nice and sociable. Since then we have been to dozens of clubs together (most of these clubs only allow couples). I would love to swing and swap partners with another couple; but my wife is not ready to see me with another women. About 5 years ago, we went to a club in New York city. They have a policy that if you want to go back into the play rooms, you have to take your clothes off. My wife decided to humor me; so we got naked and joined the action. She was seated on a couch and I was in front of her eating her out while a large black guy was doing the same to his girlfriend who was sitting right next to my wife. I watch as he slowly slid up and placed his huge cock at the entrance to his girlfriend's pussy. I couldn't take my eyes off of his cock, but as I glanced down at my wife, I saw that she was watching the same thing that I was. After a few minutes, the guys politely asked if he could feel my wife's 34G breasts. I turned to her and whispered in to her ear, "he asked me if he could feel your breasts?". She surprised me by saying, "Really? He actually asked you if he could feel my tits?". I said, "Yes". So she said "OK". I turned back to the guy and gestured for him to help himself. As he reached over to caress her boobs, I slowly inserted my cock into my wife's pussy. I couldn't believe how wet she was. After a minute, the guy removed his hand, so I leaned forward to say thank you to my wife. But she surprised me again and said "I bet you would like to see him fuck me with that huge cock, wouldn't you?" I just nodded and then said "why? would you do it?" She said "yes." As quick as I could, before she changed her mind, I turned to the black guy and asked him if we would like to fuck my wife. In the blink of an eye, he reached for another condom, opened the package with one hand, pulled out of his girlfriend and unrolled the condom onto his gigantic cock. I quickly moved up next to my wife so I had a good view and then the guy slowly started to inch his thick dick into my wife's dripping cunt. A thousand emotions flashed through my mind in that moment; but I was out of my mind turned on. Anyway, he very fucked her very sensuously for a few minutes until my wife came. He wasn't finished but politely pulled out and went back to fucking his girlfriend. Nothing has come close to the excitement of that moment. I have been hooked on watching my wife fuck and suck other men ever sense. We attended a few gang-bang parties where lots of pre-screened men show up to allow women to fuck as many guys as they want. I really got off watching my wife pick out the guys and blow or fuck them. Next we found a straight guy on the internet that my wife was willing to meet for a MFM threesome. He was a nice guy and we met him 5 or six times. During one of those meetings, I slid up behind my wife while she was riding his cock and inserted my dick into her ass. She went absolutely crazy. She is usually very quite during sex, but this time she was yelling and screaming "God YES!! Fuck Me!". She came like crazy over and over. We did that again once and it was just as good the second time; but then that guy got a girlfriend and didn't want to play anymore. We have met up with about half-dozen other men. One of them had a beautiful dick about 8 inches long but a reasonable width. He saw me fascinated by his dick and asked me if I wanted to touch it. I shyly said yes. Then I took ahold of it and slowly started to stroke it up and down. I wanted so bad to take into my mouth but was afraid i would freak him out; so instead I offered it back to my wife. After that, I couldn't stop thinking about sucking a cock. I finally found an adult bookstore where I read that all types attended. Gay guys are the most common, but bi-guys and women looking for gang-bangs also show up from time-to-time. I visited there several times and had witnessed some interesting things; but on this one particular evening, there was only me and one other guy in the place. He was sitting on the other side of the room looking strangely at each other. He suddenly got up and walk over to me. He was standing in front of me and he said "Hi, my name is Joe". I said "Hi." He then asked me if I ever sucked a cock before and I said "No." He then said "Would you like to?" I said, "Yes. I think I would." He then pulled his shorts down and off. He wasn't wearing any underwear so his flaccid penis was directly in front of my face. It looked really small, and I was actually a bit surprised. But I leaned forward and placed my lips around his entire shaved cock and balls. It felt really strange: spongy and soft yet rubbery at the same time. He immediately started to get hard; and within a few seconds, it had grown to a couple of inches. So I started moving my mouth up and down on his cock while he stood in front of me. I was enjoying the fact that I could take his entire cock in my mouth; but that didn't last long. His dick kept on growing and was soon too big to fit comfortably in my mouth without gagging; so I moved my hand up and started stroking his shaft while moving my lips and tongue on the head. I felt a strange sense of power at that point that was out of character for me. I reached up, grabbed his hips and turned up toward the couch and made him sit down. I then moved between his legs and continued to give him a blow job. I was afraid he might come in my mouth; so I started jacking his cock with both hands paying extra attention to his frenulum while teasing his head. He started moaning like crazy and saying "Oh my god, I'm going to come!" I stroked his shaft more trying not to touch the head hoping that it would stretch it out; but he soon shot a rope of come up over my head. I really couldn't believe it. It happened so fast and afterwards, I was disappointed that I didn't let him come in my mouth. I really wanted to know what it would have felt like to have that powerful shot of come hitting the back of my throat. At that point, the owner of the shop popped his head in the door and shouted out that it was closing time. We picked up our things and left. I went straight out to my car and masturbated to one the most powerful orgasms of my life. Again, I was hooked. I went back to that same bookstore a couple of months later. This time, I told my wife that I wanted to jerk-off another guy and she said "Ok. You can play with other guys; just no playing with other women." I hadn't told her about my first experience. I'm sure she would have been fine with it; but for some reason just felt like something I should keep to myself. I had a few more bookstore experiences; but the fear of STS's keeps me from going back there. I got the curiosity out of my system; so now I only want more traditional experiences. My wife and I were approached by a guy who listed himself as bi and seemed nice and cute. My wife, knowing that I wanted to suck a cock but not knowing that I already had, asked me if I wanted to try a threesome with him. I jumped at it and we did hook up with the guy. My wife and I started out by sharing his cock with each of us taking turns sucking and licking his head or shaft. We moved to the bed and my wife continued to blow him while he sucked my dick. My god, did he know how to suck cock! Anyway, he came in my wife's mouth and she swallowed it all. He got up to go to the bath room and my wife turned to me and said "Oh my god, he tasted so good. You would have loved it!" I was really disappointed then. From that point on, I couldn't get the idea of swallowing a load of cum out of my mind. We found another bi-guy that joined us for a play date and I finally got taste my first load of cum only he didn't cum much so I barely knew it happened. I have never tried anal sex with a man (giving or getting); but I do fantasize about it. I guess that would have to be under the right conditions. At this point, I am really up for trying just about anything once. The only thing I am not into is male-on-male intimacy like hugging and kissing and I am not really into getting my nipples pinched or sucked. I would, however, really like to find a bi-guy for some occasional fun when the urge strikes (him or me). I would love to find someone that I trust enough to play with from time to time - no strings attached - that won't turn into a drama and wonit disrupt my otherwise normal life. While my wife accepts my needs when it comes to other men; I still prefer to keep it discrete and private.
anyone interested in attending a bi-swinger party in kc give me a shout, nice dance hall ,dj,drinks,.. be a grait way to meet and mingle.. there are no swinger clubs around kc so we are putting together a party where tomeet ,,, no presures anda nice atmosphere.. couples, single men, and women,,, bi, swinger,, or both,, my e-mail is
that would be great if there was a way to know if a person was bi or a swinger however i dont know if i want to shake hands with every person i see ...and like they say it takes one to know one ;)there are signs if you look that someone may be a swinger or bi :)
Hi everyone!
We recently got involved in a discussion about Swingers and we want to hear all your thoughts and opinions on it.
Specifically:
1. There are lots of different definitions out there, so let's hear yours. What is your definition of a Swinger?
Flower

2. If you are in a relationship, and ONLY ONE of you is being romantic or sexual with other people outside the relationship, does that classify that mate as a swinger or would it classify them as a cheater or something else? Does that depend if the uninvolved mate knows or does NOT know about the outside partners, or supports his/her sexual mate in being involved with the outside partners?
Flower

3. Can a single person be a Swinger? If so, how? Would the single be a swinger, if the single person is involved with a swinging couple? Is a single person considered a swinger if they are involved in multiple sexual acts or relationships with other single people (not couples) or would that just be considered dating/playing the field?
Flower

Let's hear your thoughts!
Hugs,
BillnPattie
The Webmasters
Is it cheating if your spouse knows you play, and is o k with it? Even though she does not play? I am not only open here about what I do but I will openly tell her I am going to meet people from swinger sites, and she was a swinger in the past herself.
I also agree the bigger issue is single men on here who only want single women.
I was 26 and a swinger when it was done thru magazines. Met a guy in an adult book store, looking at swinger mags to. We chatted and he invited me to meet his wife. She started a strip poker game, when there were no more clothes, you won choices of action. She won the next three hands. We went onto the bedroom and after things got really hot, she used a choice. She wanted to see me suck her hubby, she 'taught' me how. That was my first for a continuing story.
Hey Newbiguy,
the show does show alot from San Fran but I have also seen segments from New York, Las Vegas, Florida, and several other locals. There is probably something going on in your area. check the local swinger club sites. I have also found local swinger magazines that have workshops listed in them. And, as darklillith says, you can always create or set up one on your own as well.
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Dang, we would lovAnye to come to an event like this! We have been trying to organize a RVers party but can't get everybody together! Aren't there a lot of swinger campgrounds around Tampa, etc? If so, why couldn't we all pick one and set a date for Spring? I think it would be lots of fun! We have gone to lots of swinger campgrounds but usually the people are not openly bi! Why is it that 2 women together seems to be acceptable but not 2 men? Sounds like double standard to me. Personally, it think it would be hot to watch my husband suck a cock and then join in the fun! Dang, there seem to be a lot interested. I would be glad to help with organizing or whatever is needed.

Lady
So, we've got a thing. We're a young, bi couple, who are looking for other bi couples to play with. And that's the thing: other BI couples. Not couples where the woman is bi, and the man is straight. BI couples!!! Why are they so hard to find?! One of the major reasons we joined this site, instead of one of the many other traditional swinger sites, was to get away from the traditional swinger mentality: "The girls should all be bi, the guys should all be straight". Soooo frustrating. Anyone else have this problem?
I was 26, living alone, going to grad school. This was before Internet and swinger mags, but there were swinger newsletters. I subscribed to one that hit the midwest and found a guy wanting to explore another guy near me. We talked on the phone then met at my apartment, stripped and sat on the sofa masturbating each other. I asked him to lie back and I proceeded to blow him. Somewhat surprised, he came in minutes, warning me, "I'm gonna cum!" I said I would swallow it. As he started to shoot I rapidly licked his cock head as I kept sucking. He lifted his ass off the sofa and into my face. His cum filled my mouth. Hours later I could feel the cum tingling my throat. I had confirmed a strong bi desire. I still have it here in mid Florida years later.
er....this is a Swingers website, just primarily a Bi-Swingers site, so most have probably done some playing. Something about your post just doesn't ring true for me, and I feel like we are all being played. Mainly because if you did actually do research, your questions would have already been answered.

But I will respond as if this was a serious query...

There are different types of Swinger Clubs and Swinger Parties. Some are "Off-Premises" clubs where people go to mingle and chat, and if things go right, leave with others. Other clubs are "On-Premises" places where things happen right there. But either way, no one is ever pressured to have sex with anyone they don't want. There are also "Orgy Parties" where it is big free for all with everyone doing everyone.

When you come across places, they will be one type or the other, and will be billed as such. It's usually best to start with an Off-Premises place first, just too meet the people and get an idea of what they are like and if you are into it. From there you can move on and do as you like.
well I be at Swinger club for New Years eve maybe I will get lucky again Hug
lookin to meet swinger friends
If you get directions let us know, we'll follow you. (swinger party) We are near the same area.
One of the reasons we no longer do anything swinger related with resorts or cruises...got quite sick of the attitude of the Ken & Barbie types!

We started in all this when Carol was 19 and I was 22, we were "Ken & Barbie" and we're known as the "Cutsie Couple" way back then. We never once hung out with anyone at any club that were the typical Ken & Barbies. Why? because the were not only shallow, they also tended to be the most boring people around! More concerned with their own looks and making sure they didn't associate with the "uglies".

We've been on 2 Swinger Cruises and have been to resorts such as Hedonism many many times. We hang out with the "fun people" regardless of age or looks, and always have had a great time. We always saw the "hot & sexy" ones walking around with such dour looks on their faces! Even when a group formed, they just never looked like they were having any fun.

These resorts and cruises are really not about the sex. They are about meeting fun, like-minded people to enjoy your time with. We actually rarely swing when we are on holidays as we tend to have fun just having fun.
We've been members for almost 12 years and there is definitely more of a sense of community here than any of the other swinger sites we've tried.
It has nothing to do with the type of swinger group, it has to do with the type of party. The type of party you just mentioned is an old fashioned, and quite common, swinger gang-bang. Typically no voyeurs are allowed, and if you attend, you have to take part. We put these on ourselves from time to time, and if you don't jump in, you get thrown out!

This thread doesn't deal with those types of parties, as those truly are "sex" parties. What most of us are talking about here is what could be considered an "off-premises, meet & greet" type of party. Since you cannot have sex right at the party, but need to go to the privacy of your own room, the two are not the same.

These types of off-premises parties are never a free-for-all, even within the experienced swingers community. They are set up so you can meet like-minded people, and if everyone is in agreement, go off somewhere else for your fun. You never come to these types of parties with the idea of guaranteed sex in mind. It is a very different scene.

-- Danny
You might be a swinger if…" by Jeff Foxworthy You might be a swinger if... Your co-workers are convinced you have no social life because, you always change the subject when they ask about your weekend. ------------------------------ -------------- It takes a real effort for you not to yawn, when your co-workers talk about their sex lives. ------------------------------ -------- Your guy friends invite you to a strip club and you ask if it would be ok to bring your wife. ------------------------------ ------- You've got a bunch of pictures of you and your spouse in a hotel room wearing brightly colored wristbands. ------------------------------ ------- Your kids see your online Christmas card list and want to know who "two4fun", "allwaysready" and "carres_us_both" are. ------------------------------ ------ Your girlfriend wonders why you have both birth control pills and condoms in your purse. ------------------------------ ----- Your Saturday night babysitter wonders why your wife always has her coat on when she comes out of the bedroom. ------------------------------ --------- Your boss wonders why you're going to Orlando, or Las Vegas, "in the middle of summer for God's sake!" ------------------------------ -- Both you and your spouse wonder if the sexy lady who just walked past you would like to mess around. -------------------------- You make plans to meet a "straight" couple at a nice restaurant, and your wife suddenly realizes she has absolutely nothing to can wear. ------------------------------ ------ The store clerk wonders what you're going to do with four bottles of Scope, three-dozen condoms, and five bottles of Astroglide and a 12 pack. ------------------------------ ------- And the best way to tell you might just be a Swinger is........ Your neighbors wonder why they aren't invited to any of your parties, and why most of your guests arrive carrying pillows, towels, and overnight bags.

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12 inches Or More
Have a childhood friend that always bragged about having 12 1/2 inches...always made me wonder if it were true. Then, a couple of things happened.....One....on the day I moved into my house, he helped me move. We were both upstairs, and he went into the bathroom to pee, and left the door open. As i came out of the bedroom, i saw him unzip and whip out a huge 8 inch soft piece of meat. As he was standing there peeing, the sunlight was coming thru the window and shining right on his big cock. I could see little details like the big veins that circuled his dick...the slightly reddish head that looked like a firemans helmet. The fact it was very thick, over 2 inches wide in the middle, and thicker at the base than the head. it had to be almost 3 inches wide at the base.

The second thing that happened was that about a year after that incident, he had moved to Cinncinnati. Now, one thing was he liked to get druck....and then call me up and tell me about his sex life. Why? I have no idea....but it was titillating....I used to put my wife on the other extention to listen and then, after he hung up...we would try to duplicate his stories...it was quite a turnon for both of us. Once he told me about his GF's fantasies...so, I told him, my wife had watched a John Holmes movie about double penetration, and from then on, she had always had a fantasy about a 3 some with 2 guys, one with a huge dick. He told me, well... Ive got 12 1/2 inches...I laughed and said yeah right...I said NO ONE has 12 inches....he put his GF on the line...and she told me that when he got hard, he was so long and thick, that she had thought about getting her teeth pulled because she had a hard time sucking his cock. Of course, I told my wife about that conversation, and we had a grand fucking time...she was extrememly turned on, very wet and hot.

The third thing was that a couple of years later, he had then moved to Michigan. Every now and then, he would send me a meme or a cartoon eluding to me have a small dick. He had never seen it. So one night about 2 years ago, he sent me a picture of a guy with a 1 inch cock, and asked me if this was me? I wrote back and assured him, I am much bigger than that, and told him that since he was always bragging about his huge dick, he should send some pics of it, and who knows he might get lucky...as my wife has been wanting to see it for 20 years!!! Within an hour, he sent me some pics of it and I have to admit, it was still huge. I had never seen it fully erect, but there it was ...looking to be at least 11 inches or more, ...and vieny, with a reddish head. Did I mention my friend is black? Now, I showed the wife and yes, once again, we had a pretty good session. Of course, now, he's in North Dakota...even farther away....so the chance of us seeing it person is slim...but we have our pics and memories!!

What I didnt know was that all this time, he was a swinger. He never mentioned it. I dont remember how the subject came up...but somehow, he had mentioned having a party at this new house. I said it's too bad Im still in Philly, as I would have loved to have come. He laughed and said "oh you would cum alright. There was a lot of pussy here." I asked him what kind of party was this? He then told me he was a swinger...and they had regular swapping partys all the time. Wow! I never knew...

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Thanks for the warm welcome! The site looks quite organized, and well-populated. I'm sure we'll have a wonderful time seeking out fun bisexual males. Swinger sites really aren't geared for us. If we need any help, we'll let you know. :) --C&L