AllenMarksThere seems to be a consensus that looks may start you up but it is personality, intellect, chemistry that keep it going. I have thought about this in a slightly different way Bek.
I feel an almost universal attraction to women, there is always something to appreciate and that attracts my attention from eyes to smile, to body shape to hair to clothes, to how they Project. Especially on a site like this, when first impression is through sight. If I meet someone in the physical world, then voice, attitude, what a gal projects, becomes part of the mix. I am attracted by a broad spectrum of women.
On the other hand, with men, there is a narrower range of what attracts me visually and it becomes much more about how they are, personality, intellect, attitude, etc.
Maybe it is socialization or maybe just How attraction works in my case. What is interesting and a bit puzzleling to me, is that as a bisexual male, I’m not attracted in the same way to both genders.
Thanks for launching and keeping this lively and thought-provoking post going all.