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First off, I'm in a long term relationship; of the "long term for life" variety. My partner (female) is an unbelievable individual and I'm truly in love with her. Through our years of being together, however, we've learned that our sexual desires are quite different. We make great love, but when we're in the mood to satisfy our purely sexual desires, we don't fare so well. We've both come to recognize this and have made some serious decisions, among them going outside the relationship in an attempt to satisfy these desires. Optimally, one day, we hope to mature enough that we can integrate those we've met outside the relationship and involve them in our personal encounters together. Until then, exploration on our own will have to do.
With that said, I am a fairly domineering individual in my daily life, particularly in business. Because of this, perhaps to balance out myself, I generally like to be a submissive bottom. In one of my more rambunctious moods, I make a great top (females only), as well. I've had quite a bit of experience, but find that there's always more to learn. Ultimately, I think that learning is what I need to take away from my sexuality.
Small aside... In no way, shape, or form, do I claim to understand sexuality. I'm a highly analytical person, and I'm content with my conclusion that now one know's what the hell is going on. I do know, however, what I like so far and I want to learn more.