Native American

Caucasian

Yes, always

Yes, always

I have had a few experiences (still a beginner)

I have had a few experiences (still a beginner)

5' 4, 148 lbs. (Curvy)

6' 2, 250 lbs. (Big boned)

Long Black

Dirty Blonde

Brown

Hazel

I don't have glasses

I don't have glasses

18 - 40

18 - 40

Single Women
Couples

Single Women
Couples

Internet
Phone
Meeting in person
Dating
Short Term Relationship
Long Term Relationship

Internet
Phone
Meeting in person
Dating
Short Term Relationship
Long Term Relationship

M-F-F Threesome
Foursome

M-F-F Threesome
Foursome

We are a Married couple from North Central Arkansas, we have been practicing the lifestyle for the last year, but have talked about if for about 2 yrs before that. We have been together for the last 6 years and just have become stronger as a couple over the years. We are a go with the flow couple, but we play as a couple or not at all. We are doing this to experience life without boundaries, but we have come to learn that you also can make life long friends in and out of the bedroom. I've come to believe that everyone when they first hear about swinging they think sex, but that is so wrong. The lifestyle is the ability to open up and be able to share your Mind soul and body with others, and its about the sex too. hehe:P We want to meet other couples and single bi fems. Any thing yall might want to know but we forgot to add it just ask we will always be honest and answer the best way we can. One more thing.....NO means NO!

Wraith_N_Rain has gotten together with someone through a site like this before.
Wraith_N_Rain can entertain at their home.
Wraith_N_Rain would like to meet at a Residence.
Wraith_N_Rain can travel up to 100 miles.

Well, first off we like to start up and ongoing chat via email and try to get an idea of what they are looking for and if we start to feel comfortable talking about anything with them. Then we like to get web cams started not for cyber but to be sure that who we think we are talking to is really them. After that we will continue to ask and give as much information about us as we can. Passing a few pictures here and there mostly pg or pg13 rated, but with that its mostly how we feel about them. We listen for gossip like names of people they brag about being with, because we hold descretion above everything else. If we continue to open up we will start talking about meeting and what each other might be expecting from it. We like to invite or be invited to peoples homes for dinner and social drinks just relax and talk. By then all involve will have a good idea of their feelings. And if everyone clicks and comfortable with the situation. We then might pull some cards out play poker or some other game having drinks maybe play strip poker because that really breaks the ice well. After we all are pretty undressed and have drank enough to allow ourselfs to shed our shyness or nervousness. If we are with a couple we like to begin with each other kissing and fondling, slowly getting closer to the other couple, so then we will be able to feel each other next to one another and then begin massaging each others bodies so we can begin to ease and be comfortable with the touch of others. We always like first to take one person and begin to all concentrate on that one person so say Rain is first we all basically try to make her go insane with pleasure and down the line, but we can say we want this and we want that, but at this point everything we may have plan will be more then likely pushed aside and going with the flow begins. Like we said we are open and like to see what is over the next hill you may say. So same room swapping or a big pile up on the bed(thats always fun) making ones or all the groups fantasies come to past. Trying things that we have imaged and just going by the seat of your pants. Once things start winding down we always like to finish with one another so we can remind ourselvethat we do this not for sole enjoyment but we do this for each other. Once we are pretty much finished we like to talk maybe let the group know how something made us feel or what made us hottier or what made us feel like we were taking a cold shower. If we are comfortable we love just lounging on one another bare butt and just relax, we have gone so far once to all fall asleep together and slept the nite away together.
With single females we also like to start off having dinner and talking around the table for hours. Talking about everything that might come to mind. Finding out everything we can about one another, but having drinks relaxing and allowing ourselfs to drop those feelings that bar ourselves sometimes from being as open as we can be. Then Wraith will pretty much take a back seat and let the females controll whatever may begin, allowing them to become at ease with him and each other. Which he will continue to do as long as we need him to do it. Then might start ganging up on one, trying to make them screams with pure joy. Trying to see how far there you can take them and once done with one they switch and so on. Until everyone knows pretty much every inch of the others body and has a good idea of what they like and dont. Then we all should be so comfortable that we are going with the flow and can try new things like letting the women play while i watch or letting Rain watch our partner pleasure me because she likes that as do I watching her be and give pleasure. But mostly we look towards the single female and always make sure that they are enjoying themselves and no one is stepping on others nos and donts. An allowing them to set the tempo. Until they are ready to go with the flow. And yes WE say flow alot but its the best way to describe it.