Caucasian

Yes, always

I am a newbie (no experiences)

18 - 35

Single Men
Single Women
Couples

Internet
Phone
Meeting in person
Short Term Relationship

1 on 1 Sexual Relationship
M-F-F Threesome
M-M-F Threesome
M-F-M Threesome
F-M-F Threesome
Group Sex
Other Alternative Lifestyle

I am very new to the idea of having a sexual encounter with another man and what i have been finding on yahoo chat rooms is that most men think that just because you are looking to possibly hook up with another man you are either an male fem and calling you names like sweetheart, hunny, baby and some rude ones like bitch and slut or the other ones that think they can order you to do things that you haven't even considered and to me these men are the ugly men, yes they may be bisexual but the think they can treat you like one of their women that they abuse or take advantage of and that is not what I am looking for. Like to try to find a friend as well as a possible partner someone that will treat me like an equal not a Sub or a Dom either like to maybe have a young man for my first time someone 35 or younger and at least be 18 average build and I am willing to try both the bottom and the top as well as sucking so i am willing just to learn how to be comfortable with a guy and just go from there.

a_gentleman_first has gotten together with someone through a site like this before.
a_gentleman_first can possibly entertain at their home.
a_gentleman_first would like to meet at an I am not sure yet.
a_gentleman_first can travel up to 100 miles.

Willing to meet just about anywhere just so long as we can sit and talk about things in general and not have to just jump into bed or go somewhere to have sex seeing I will need to be comfortable with that person and be willing to trust him that he is d/d seeing I still will want to be with women and not devote my life to this lifestyle only so as I keep saying, just be nice and meet me with an open mind and attitude.