Caucasian

Most of the time

I am very experienced

6' 0, 362 lbs. (Overweight)

Bald Multi-Colored

Brown

I have glasses, and I wear them all the time

30 - 75

Single Men
Couples

Phone
Meeting in person
Short Term Relationship
Long Term Relationship

Phone Sex
1 on 1 Sexual Relationship
M-F-F Threesome
M-M-F Threesome
M-F-M Threesome
F-M-F Threesome
Group Sex

I am a bear of a man that is bi and married to my wife that would divorce me if she ever found out that I am was on this site. I am 6' tall and a lot over weight, about 362lbs. Shaved head and long beard. My wife has known for over 2 years because I told her that I was molested when I was 8 y/o and was in the Bi/Gay lifestyle for over 20 years, but she is totally straight and would never become Bi. I have never cheated on my wife since we have been married for over 20 years. But I am in a sexless marrage, ever since my wife had her total hysterectomy her libido is no where to be found and I still am can perform like when I was in my late 40's although I do have some problems getting a hard on but my tongue get's hard and I am a bottom.

iluvcum has never gotten together with someone through a site like this before.
iluvcum can not entertain at their home.
iluvcum would like to meet at a Restaurant.
iluvcum can travel up to 100 miles.

Discreet and safe meeting, I was molested by an older boy when I was 8 y/o and it went on for 3 months, then I found out his Bi parents told him to do it. I was then brought into there Bisexual swing club where about 12 boys and 10 girls would start the swinger parties on the weekends. But during the week I would go over to his parents house and they would teach me how to be a bisexual/Gay servant to the older people in the group. At 8 y/o I didn't know much of anything so I was a good student, and I liked it a lot, but I was told that if I told my parents or anyone else they would kill my parents. I never said anything to anyone. I stayed in the group until I was 16 y/o and I got my drivers license and then I found my own gay friends 2 counties from where I lived and continued the gay/Bi lifestyle until I was 24 y/o about the time that Aid's made it to our state. I tried to use protection when when having anal and sometimes oral but my friends shunned me and I just hung out with my straight friends. I didn't tell you that I led 2 lives a Bi/gay lifestyle and a totally straight lifestyle and neither knew of the other. I didn't have the skills to ask a girl out because I was afraid of rejection, where before I would meet a man with how I sucked him off.