Description:
I'm wild at heart and passionate. I live my life in compartments because I can't live as I'd like. I am a father who takes that job very seriously, but have a marriage that is only 20% of what it should be. So, for the most part I deal with the crap I have to and get glimpses of sanity and fulfillment when and where I can. My life is complex, and if I didn't have brief escapes from it I'd feel like there were no rewards. I am well balanced for the most part, am considerate and understanding. Things being what they are, they're not always what they could be, but I usually make the best of things anyway.
My ideal life whould be having a partner who is committed but who likes to explore pleasure in friendships, sometimes alone but mostly together. (my wife is lazy, sometimes selfish and mean-sje means well, but blames her sloth on depression and chooses to stay "medicated"..ie:on the couch watching t.v. and bitching, instead of keeping a clean house and taking care of her home and man-so I am mostly celibate, and cover working and taking care of a bulk of the housework. Lord God forbid if I ever even suggest exercise or cleaning-and if it wasn't for my son I'd run like hell. I miss the woman I married, but she stays smothered by the Rx depression excused selfish sloth that replaced her, and while I hope she'd change and get the light heart she once had, I don't think she ever will++and I don't intend to live so alone and unrewarded and unhappy anymore, so I have fun and friends when and where I can, but when its right, and when it is a good thing)
Ideal Situation:
Arrange to meet at a park or restauramt or bar/club, and spend some time in conversation to see if there is a common ground we can stand on. Having an interactive setting can give you a fel for what a person or people is or are like.