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Looking for a Playmate for My Spouse

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Easy going open, mind,,honest, sincere elderly man who is searching for a local (hopefully) playmate. My spouse knows that I am bi-sexual but we do not let that bother either of us. Out of respect for her I just don't rub her nose in it.
I am a married woman look for another half to fit my puzzle! ;-) I have two children and have been married for 3 years. I desire a playmate for myself, possibly for my spouse, depends on how it works out... no pressure!
Happy male with a wonderful spouse. Tries to be in a good mood and enjoys a good time. Love to enjoy the beauty of women. Spouse enjoys the beauty of men. Wonder why I'm curious? Spouse is straight.
I am a married bi poly female who enjoys being with females mostly. Very rarely do I let another man in my life other than my spouse. I am in search of a girl who is open & honest who would enjoy being with me & maybe my spouse if all are aggreable to it.
I'm looking for a playmate to try new things. Playmate can be male or female. Looking for discrete people.Looking for a playmate that practices safe sex.
I have a great fasination of being with another woman but I am married and enjoy my spouse too. But he is away alot and my desire of being with another woman really turms me on, but only had a few experinces. Also my spouse don't know I feel this way so this is something very new to me right now.
I really have a bone to pick with some women. Why would you reconsider your sexuality because of a boyfriend or spouse? Now hear me out ... I find often that while browsing profiles or the forum posts that I will see 4 out 5 females stating that they are in search for a playmate so their significant other can watch or play or whatever. The other 1% seems to be like myself ... they are bisexual or lesbian ... they are in hopes of fulfilling desires because of their own agenda and in some cases like mine they have a spouse who may or may not want to be involved. I don't put myself out there to attract attention nor to arouse my husband. I am looking for a fulfillment of my own which my husband understands. It really irritates me though to see these type of statements because of the simple fact to me it is a turn off. I find I don't really want to go there due to the fact that I am not sure if this person is really into other women or purely doing this for gratification from their significant other ...... am I alone in this thought? Or do others feel the same way upon seeing this? Just wondering .....

Mrs. Cutie
Something I have seen on the profile that helps though, is that it asks specifically if the spouse is okay with it and accept their lifestyle andtheir are other options that include the spouse part. Yes, my hubby knows I am interested in females. So, I put on my profile, spouse knows and accepts lifestyle.
[color:Blue][b]Well here is DareUs2DoU2 Males opinion. I do not think it is totally wrong to do it as long as the spouse/wife/husband knows the basic conversation even if the archives are deleted or not. Alot of people use it to get them selves ideas on what to try or even to help spicee it up with there spouse. Not all the tie is it to get them off or for those type of means.

I for one would use it to spice up my Love life with my wife. Yes how ever it can cause some attraction between the 2 people that are doing it. Sometimes it can cause it to become reality also, but if you say you trust your spouse/significant other then you should trust them and not question what they are doing. No matter what. Trust in your spouse/significant other cannot be there one minute and not the next. If that is the case then that shows you really do not trust your spouse/significant other. That in itself can cause problems. If there is no trust then there is really no marriage in some peoples eyes.

My best suggestion is if there is any question in your mind of trust then I would suggest you sit down and ind out what you really want.

DareUs2DoU2 Male
I too would like to see members fully complete a profile. It is extremely frustrating to travel only to find out that you and the other member are not compatible.
I also find it extremely frustrating when married guys either don't put that in their profile or don't indicate if their wives are aware of their bisexuality. That tells me that she probably doesn't know and that they are cheating on her. Personally, I can't stand anyone who cheats on their spouse - whether it is a male or female. If you want to have sex with someone other than your spouse, tell and tell them if you are bi. If the spouse accepts your desires and is willing to let play or engage in sex with others themselves, then it is not cheating. BUT, if your spouse does not agree or you are too afraid of telling them, then you should either confine yourself to your own marriage or get out of the relationship.
One must remember we BP peeps are a minority. Oh, I am sure most have the same thoughts as us but are very reluctant to voice or act upon those thoughts like BP people. Most just can not be as open as us because of their spouse or whatever. You can call them any negative thing you choose but I prefer to have some compassion and mentor them through this process. I tell them to start getting a little "kinky" in the bedroom. Do things they have never done before with their spouse whether their spouse approves or not, like "accidently lick their asshole while eatting their pussy. You get the idea?
we all go through the unasered email syndorm.....lord knows i have...just take it with grain of salt and just move to the next person you may be interested.....dont take it personel.......some folks join for trial period only others are paid members......it just takes time thats all....my spouse and i have been looking for playmate locally now for a while.......i do answerer all my mail weather im interested or not.....its the proper thing to do........
cynthia25

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Watching Spouse
Watching spouse
Affairs
affair: having sex without spouse. but does it count if u get hardly any at home.if then i need an affair with no strings i am looking in athens texas area
Threesomes
I'm a free-spirited prof. male that craves new sexual adventures with either 2 women or 1 man and 1 woman. I'm open to most situations and love to turn on each spouse or significant other while being with the other. Love watching always.
Friends With Benefits
I have an educated and experienced opinion on the FWB matter. The benefits often cause confusion that can be perceived by our brains as love due the same hormones (dopamine, endorphins, etc... ) being released. During my marriage, where even wearing a pair of panties was forbidden and grounds for psychiatric care or counseling, my "playmate" Steph and I still got together regularly in private and played. I thank her for all she did with / to me in those times. HOWEVER, she was the on who became confused. And the drama came with her unraveling. Looking back I see the playmate as a maintenance drug, kinda like methadone is used to treat, or replace, the body's craving for heroine.
Bisexual Men Getting Fucked
one of the best feelinga I can think of is being penetrated by a hard cock or a strap-on as i give oral service to the spouse of the penetrator. and having a hard cock in my mouth while another one is deep in my ass is about as good. I enjoy being fucked and I am always hoping to find people who will fuck me. :-D
Cheating Men
Cheating is wrong no matter what you may think. It hurts and anything that hurts someone else against their will is horrible. If you cant get your needs met at home, then either talk with your spouse about it and have an open marriage, bring someone into your life that you both can share, or find someone new all together. Anyone who hurts another human being just to get their rocks off is a horrible person themselves. But hey, that's just my opinion.

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