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am a 51 married male and swinger. Basically, I am a quiet guy at first but I open up once I get to know someone. I enjoy intimate dinners, going out for drinks and just talking to get to know someone! I am friendly, caring, and most of all, honest to a fault. My interests involve around Atlanta Braves baseball, University of Alabama football (ROLL TIDE!), bowling, going out for walks around parks or hiking. Being in the swinger lifestyle, I do also enjoy attending swinger club parties, whether they are for play or just to meet new people. The friends we've met through our swinger club are some of the best friends we've ever had! I am a person that looks for the best in people and the best in all situations and am optimistic almost always. I love to have fun and it is seldom that you won't see me laughing or a smile on my face.
I am a flirty, funny, kinky, social butterfly. I bartend at a swinger club in the Tampa area.... best of both worlds, i get paid to hang out in a swinger club! I love cookouts, the beach, dancing (with women), but i'm a big fan of couch potato movie night. I'm easy to talk to, and brutally honest. I am not looking for quickie one nighters, i'm looking for like minded friends that may or may not make it to the "friends with benefits" status... Take care, have fun, and be safe!
I am bi curious and I want to know what it is like to be with another woman. My partner and I are outgoing and we like going to clubs together and drink socially. I met a girl from New York in the club and we danced and ended up kissing and feeling on each other and I liked it. She wanted us to finish it up in bed a couple of days later but she ended up having to go back to New York. I talk to her from time to time and whenever we see each other again we plan on getting it on. That could take forever and I am ready now.
I'm a single guy and very adventurous and have partied in many places in new york city,my Fav was at the hellfire club on 14th St.I love a big dark scene,the more the merrier,from couples to transgenders mixing and exploring,touching and felling to caressing.One on one can be excellent though not male on male.
Very orally gifted 41 yr old male, single, swinger into FMF threesomes.Looking for friends into attending swinger parties and private get togethers.
We're a couple just dabbling into this 'lifestyle' and wanting to learn more. Kelly has had one threesome experience and it was quite mild, so she is rather inexperienced with it. Though, she has been entertaining the idea of going to a swinger's club. Rich on the other hand, has had more experience with this type of lifestyle. He's been to swinger's clubs, has had threesomes as well as 'hooking up' with another couple. We're both interested in adding this aspect into our relationship to enhance something we greatly enjoy!
Hey Newbiguy,
the show does show alot from San Fran but I have also seen segments from New York, Las Vegas, Florida, and several other locals. There is probably something going on in your area. check the local swinger club sites. I have also found local swinger magazines that have workshops listed in them. And, as darklillith says, you can always create or set up one on your own as well.
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Single bi guy looking for a bi female to go to a swinger club tomorrow night in San Francisco with a bi couple
Hi everyone!
We recently got involved in a discussion about Swingers and we want to hear all your thoughts and opinions on it.
Specifically:
1. There are lots of different definitions out there, so let's hear yours. What is your definition of a Swinger?
Flower

2. If you are in a relationship, and ONLY ONE of you is being romantic or sexual with other people outside the relationship, does that classify that mate as a swinger or would it classify them as a cheater or something else? Does that depend if the uninvolved mate knows or does NOT know about the outside partners, or supports his/her sexual mate in being involved with the outside partners?
Flower

3. Can a single person be a Swinger? If so, how? Would the single be a swinger, if the single person is involved with a swinging couple? Is a single person considered a swinger if they are involved in multiple sexual acts or relationships with other single people (not couples) or would that just be considered dating/playing the field?
Flower

Let's hear your thoughts!
Hugs,
BillnPattie
The Webmasters
Is it cheating if your spouse knows you play, and is o k with it? Even though she does not play? I am not only open here about what I do but I will openly tell her I am going to meet people from swinger sites, and she was a swinger in the past herself.
I also agree the bigger issue is single men on here who only want single women.
La Trapeze is a good club to go to......I personally recommend it. The facilities are excellent and most of the people who go there are civil if not pretty nice to the women and couples. Single-guys, however, should expect the usual unpleasantness associated with hyper-competition from the other guys there for the attention of couples and women who'll swing with single-guys; and the couples who want absolutely nothing to-do-with the single guys. The club has an only one admonishment rule for single-guys. There're no second chances for any single-guy. When they talk to a single-guy for the second time: its to escort him out of the club and revoke his membership. This policy reduces a lot of the tension in the atmosphere caused by the guys' inappropriate behavior.
That is some story!

It reminded me of when my ex-hubby played a sissy prison bitch in the film "The System Within" He flew up to New York first for auditions and then later flew back to film his scene..it was based on a true story where the protagonist was a pro football player who also owned a club, had introduced a guy from Miami to a guy from New York and unbeknownst to him they set up a drug deal in his club. He went to prison and his life was nearly ruined. The guy who was behind the movie later went on to be a model and entrepreneur. "The System Within" was shot both here in North Carolina and in and around the New York City area.

Hugs and Kisses,

T

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It looks as if things are beginning to change in the world of swing clubs with respect to bi-males..... I was just at the web site for a club in Phoenix (Club Chameleon)that has set Thursday nights aside for bisexuals and all bi's are welcome Couples, "single gents", and single fems. So far that makes 3 clubs that we know of. There is a lifestyle hotel/club near Miami called Rooftop Resort that has had all bi events but I don't think that they are regularly scheduled weekly affairs
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We've been to the Swinger's Palace in Pittsburgh, and had a good time. It's a house that's been converted into an on-premise swing club. They have bi nights the first Saturday and third Friday (or perhaps it's the other way around) of each month where straight single guys are not allowed, but bimale activity is accepted the other days as well as they accept CDs, TVs and TSs. They have a hot tub on the main floor, and party rooms on the second, three open rooms (including a couples room where single men are not allowed) and three private rooms. We had a really good time there watching other couples fucking including watching a "shy" woman doing three men, and being watched ourselves including a threesome with a bi male. Hopefully we can go there another time. David & Marie
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Anyone know where we can find a Swing Club in New York area?
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Would love to find a bi-sex club in Western New York!:-P
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Any onen know where we can find a Swing Club in New York area?
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hey does any one know of a bisexual swing club near the lanc-york area in PA let me know email me cause i need some pussy an i wanna give it too ladiesKiss

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chandle
Thanks for the warm welcome! The site looks quite organized, and well-populated. I'm sure we'll have a wonderful time seeking out fun bisexual males. Swinger sites really aren't geared for us. If we need any help, we'll let you know. :) --C&L