Guys, I may be shy and hesitant and first, but just keep reassuring me and I'll eventually come out of my shell. And once I get that first kiss, look out -- there's no stopping me! A great kisser really turns me on, and you'll find my hands and lips all over you.
With a woman, I would like to meet her and talk about how we both came about discovering our sexual preferences.

is not necessary at the first meeting -- becoming friends is more important. Being open and honest is the first step to finding out if we want to try a first kiss, and go from there.