African American

Yes, always

I have had a few experiences (still a beginner)

5' 9, 120 lbs. (Slim)

Medium Dark Brown

Brown

I have glasses, and I wear them all the time

20 - 30

Single Women

Meeting in person

Cyber Sex
Phone Sex
1 on 1 Sexual Relationship
M-F-F Threesome
Foursome
Group Sex

I'm a very reserved and subdued individual. I enjoy the simple things, so if I ask you for something insignificant don't get me something bigger and better, just get me what I asked for because I had my reasons for asking for that and not the bigger better thing. Some people may say that's very selfish or stuck-up but if you automatically upgrade my selections because you are unsatisfied with them, what's to say you don't feel the same about me and won't try to change or upgrade me? I like me and if you can't hang with me, my low-keyness, my shyness, my fear of confrontation, my need to be held, and my sometimes messed up attitude, then I don't want you and you REALLy don't want me.

Phatz has gotten together with someone through a site like this before.
Phatz can entertain at their home.
Phatz would like to meet at an Organized social gathering.
Phatz can travel up to 100 miles.

I don't know about IDEAL but this one I have had. A pool party at a quiet hotel, friends around, laughing, talking, and just enjoying each other's company and openness. You see someone you like. You can approach them with no fear because it's an open and friendly environment. You can't help if the personalities don't mesh, but there's no mistaking that you both get down the same way.