I don't mind where it is. It could be a cafe, a bar, a restaurant or a club. But, I like to get to know the person first. I have to have a connection that fits like my hand in a glove. You know when that happens. You both laugh and enjoy talking. Things may be a little awkward at first, but it's easy to open up and start talking. We have a few drinks, maybe shake it on the floor. When it sizzles, I love it and I can hang with that. A slow dance is fine. A kiss or two starts to get us going. Then it's hand in hand for the rest of the night.

doesn't have to take place on the first date or even the second one. But, I would be looking forward to it. And if it does happen on the first night, that's great too. I'm not a one night stand. But, I can handle disreet relationships if that is what she wants. I chose unlimited miles for the farthest I would travel because back in May it happened. A lady from California that I've know for years invited me out to San Francisco. She flew me and we had a great time. She looked great too. The first time I met her in person even though we had collaborated on a few writing assignments and had known each other for years.