Ideally we would meet someone who interests us in a public place. Quite frankly we'd suggest a bar because I'd need a stiff drink to lubricate the situation (a latte just won't cut it!). We're not so seasoned that this would be casual for us. We'd chat and giggle over a couple of drinks and in an unpressured way perhaps discuss if we all think there's a connection we'd like to pursue. Maybe the connection is only between me and our new friend, maybe my husband will have nothing to do with it. I'd imagine we'd make a date to get together again - possibly our place, and I'd light some candles (setting the right environment is a high priority on my list - I love a seductive and subtle erotically charged atmosphere), there's some music playing (I think Marvin Gaye's music is SO sexy) and a bottle (or 2) of wine.

t with some converation over a glass of wine (martini?), a massage, light kisses and the rest is up to us!