Ideal situation is getting together with a couple or group. They are all attractive. We go out for dinner or coffee to see if there is interest. The setting is something wiht a nice view. The conversation is wide ranging, and fuelled by humor.
It goes so well, we spontaneously decide to go to someone's place...with a jacuzi. We are a bit uncomfortable--shy--at first. We go in our underwear. And then with some more Ice

, we get more comfortable and the clothes start coming off.