Caucasian

Caucasian

Only when it's requested

Only when it's requested

I have a good amount of experience

I have a good amount of experience

5' 5, 160 lbs. (Proportionate)

5' 7, 160 lbs. (Average)

Long Red

Short Black

Blue

Brown

I wear contacts instead of glasses

I have glasses, but I don't wear them often

25 - 50

25 - 50

Couples

Couples

Internet
Phone
Meeting in person
Short Term Relationship
Long Term Relationship

Internet
Phone
Meeting in person
Short Term Relationship
Long Term Relationship

Foursome
Other Alternative Lifestyle

Foursome
Group Sex

We are not legally married but we are loving, committed partners. Sophisticated, deep thinkers, professional. Looking for friends in and out of the bedroom for adult playtime as well as a committed friendship. We are not "swingers" who do parties, we are much more interested in a married or committed bi couple to be steady, long-term friends with. We are comfortable with full-swap if it fulfills a fantasy, but he is eager to have a beautiful cock in his mouth again. He loves kissing, loves to give and receive oral, long-lasting, and only goes as far as oral with men. She likes oral, toys, light bdsm. We are looking for a couple willing to share and be respectful of boundaries, no drama, and not wish to dominate the whole situation.
Discretion is a MUST as we spend time in the public eye and act as a husband-wife team in life and in business. If you want face pics, you must send some to us.
Hobbies: grilling, swimming, outdoors/nature hikes (in the right weather), sitting by the fire pit and relaxing. We prefer to host and have no kids.


ual Activities
Have you ever had cybersex?




No way. I only want skin on skin.



What kind of night life do you enjoy?




Intimate gatherings in my home



How big of a role does sex play in your life?




I love sex, but if I don't have a partner, I just masturbate



What types of sex activities do you regularly enjoy?




She likes toys and is very adventurous, thinks outside the box. He loves oral, oral and more oral! His favorite position is 69.



How much enjoyment do you get from receiving oral sex?




I love oral, but not every single time



What are your thoughts on anal sex?




She loves anal of any kind, he will do light ass play if coaxed



What's the largest number of people you've shared a sexual encounter with in one session?




We have swapped same-sex with another couple with us







ual Interests





What types of sexual activities turn you on?




Giving Oral , Receiving Oral , Anal , Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/s/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, /Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage



What types of sexual activities are OFF LIMITS to you?




Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Role Playing, s, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Coprophilia/Scat



What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?




ual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, ual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level



What types of new sexual experiences would you like to explore?




One of his fantasies is for the male partner to penetrate me and then lick my juices off of his cock. One of my fantasies is to have my partner in my pussy, the other male partner in my ass (DP), and the female partner sitting on my face enjoying the ride



Besides the obvious, what areas of your body do you consider erogenous zones?




Ears, Lips, Neck, Hands/Fingers, Chest, Back, , Knees, Mind (Intelligence), Hair, Hips



Have you ever had erotic pictures or video taken of you?




I'm not into "capturing the moment".



Does size really matter to you?




Yes definitely.



Do you enjoy talking dirty during sex?




I really get into it sometimes.







Swinging/Swapping

What are your favorite places to play in? (e.g. clubs, conventions, hotels, outdoors, parties, private homes, resorts/cruises, etc.)




private homes - we haven't had the pleasure of being able to explore anything else yet



What type of environment do you prefer to play in?




Everyone in one room



Tell us more about each partner's amount of participation when you're swinging/swapping?




We are soft swap only to start. If we find the right couple to build up a trust and friendship with, then full swap is a possibility.



How open are you to "full swap" (i.e. having penetrative sex with someone other than one's partner)?




see above



How do you get comfortable with new partners?




We like to relax, get to know each other, and be very candid and graphic about what our fantasies are. We think wine always helps!



How long have you been involved in the swinging/swapping lifestyle?




3+ years



How much experience do you have with swinging/swapping?




We have both had multiple partners of the same sex, but as far as being in a situation as a bi couple, we have only had a few experiences.



How much do you prefer to get to know other people before playing with them?




A few "dates" is good - we don't like to bare all on the first meeting unless the chemistry is really there. We don't dive headlong into something until we know it's right between us all.



How many couples do you prefer to have involved when you swing/swap?




One



How many women do you prefer to have involved when you swing/swap?




Two



How many men do you prefer to have involved when you swing/swap?




Two



What are your thoughts about including single women or men?




The single man would need to be very interested in him, but not so interested in being in a with another woman involved. We would only consider singles if they are "truly" bisexual.







Fantasies

What role-playing scenes do you fantasize about?
I'm not into role playing, She wishes she had a cock!



What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?




A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, The stands at a sporting event, Under a waterfall, A store dressing room, A hotel room



Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?




Him: Christina Aguilera because she's just yummy! Like eating a piece of fine chocolate. For a male, it would be the gay son character on "Shameless." I don't know that actor's name but I think he's so hot. Her: s, it's Dita von Teese. Hands down. Her curves are incredible, her skin is so milky and smooth, and I have always loved the black hair/white skin combination. In males, Christian Bale is my baby-daddy. LOL I also loooove Clive Owen. There's something so sexy about a man who's a little scruffy, toned but not too muscular.



Tell us about your favorite sexual encounter.




We had this couple one time we clicked with so well (they since have moved away). We spent a fun evening with them getting to know each other at a strip club, then went back to our house, broke out the wine and started kissing each other. It was a slow, sensual kissing orgy for a while. The men started sucking each other like wild animals and the women decided to let them be and play with each other's breasts. I then finger-banged her and sucked her clit until she came, and she did the same to me. The ONLY thing that would have made our encounter better is if we were all on the same bed sharing instead of separate guy/guy and girl/girl. My partner and I don't like to be separated like that - what's the point of doing it as a couple that way?



Using the location you chose as the best fantasy setting for a sexual encounter, tell us (in detail) about that encounter. Fact or fantasy?




(female here) I was with my now-ex. We had sex in the middle of the college auditorium after hours - it was so risky and dangerous that we'd be caught by a student walking in looking for something they dropped, or the after-hours cleaning crew... it made me so wet that there was a little smear on the stage of the auditorium! I get a big rise out of the thought of going shopping with a girlfriend one day and making out/eating each other out in the dressing room while trying on the clothes. (male here) To be on a blanket on a beautiful day at the beach with nobody around except the seagulls, sea lions, and us. She would be reverse-cowgirl on her man, and we'd be licking her clit together and we'd take turns pulling his cock out and licking her juices off. Then have them do the same thing to us!







ual Accessories

What toys have you used in sex play?




s/Vibrators, plugs/probes, Anal/Climax beads, ring, Ben Wa balls, Clit stimulators (battery operated), Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs or bullets, Whatever your partner likes/wants, All of the above and more!, most of this stuff is for her, he likes very light and small ass



What sex toys would you like to use and why?




(female) I miss using toys during sex/foreplay so much. He doesn't enjoy doing it often and would rather do oral or intercourse. But I love just about anything and everything - no holds barred for me.



What bondage type gear do you enjoy using during sex play?




I've got even more gear in my arsenal!, is into it all - male would like to light top (spanking,



What food items have you used in sex play?




ped cream, Ice, Cucumbers, Carrots, Popsicles, Frosting, Bananas, Honey, Champagne



How do you play with food during sex?




(female) I enjoy cucumbers in my pussy and ass. I would love to go to one of those sushi bars where you eat the sushi off the naked woman. I would like him to pour champagne or wine on me and drink it off.



What kind of porn movies do you enjoy the most?




Hard, Gay, BDSM, Lesbian, Anal sex, Group sex, Oral



How do you enjoy your porn?




He likes to watch/fantasize with it often, she rarely watches







Dreams & Goals

Where would you like to live?




At the beach



What would be your dream house?




She likes the idea of living in a big, boho loft, he likes cozy



What's your dream job?




We are jazz musicians - to tour the world playing music would be the dream for us both! She would love to do music and makeup/costumes all day and nothing but. To be her own boss, ultimately. He would love to be a musician and free agent all the time.



What's your dream vacation/getaway?




Anywhere!!! We want to take a cruise someday.



If you could do anything what would it be?




(male here) I would be Superman and would take care of countries with dictators that are killing their people and annihilate them! I'd be a defender of people and mankind, and fly around wherever injustice is and defeat it. (female here) I would be a world-renowned performer, producer, and director. I would be a kind of Renaissance woman of unlimited means, free to travel, give back to people in need, bring people creativity, joy, entertainment, color, and beauty.



How do you handle set backs to your dreams?




We both have a deep faith - when things don't go our way, we believe that God is opening a different door or closing another door to put us in the right place.



How important is it to share the same dreams as your partners?




(male) very important (female) very important. I think you've found the right partner when you help each other grow and blossom together.



Tell us about some dreams & goals you recently realized.




(female) I recently began breaking through my fear of the phone! haha I have a direct-sell business and have been so afraid to pick up the phone and call prospects - until recently. That was a victory. (male) I want to be a better person and my goal is to be a great fucking jazz drummer.



What is your ideal fantasy "date"?




(male) easy! Another couple on a warm beach alone, with great food, good wine, and we're all sharing each other. (female) we all head to Vegas or an exotic location on a whim, or spend a weekend in a secluded part of the jungle living like Swiss Family Robinson. I have a bit of a Tarzan complex. Sounds weird, but true!



What kind of relationship(s) do you want?




Play partners, Discreet relationship, Long term, Activity pals



Where do you see yourself in a few years?




(male) relaxed, wealthy, and doing what I wanna do. (female) strong, powerful, being my own boss and having enough money and time to give back to others.







Physical Stuff

What is your favorite clothing style(s) during the day?




Casual, Classy, Urban, he's casual, she dresses for the mood - but always sharp!



What is your favorite clothing style(s) during the night?




Classy, Sharp and sophisticated



How would you describe your body, style, and appearance?




We make a very attractive, sharp couple. We always step out in style when we go out - no jeans and T shirts for us except at home. Him: 5'6", dark Mediterranean olive skin, deep brown eyes you can swim in, goatee, beautiful chest hair, toned and trim but not muscular or too skinny. Her: 5'6", 36C, natural redhead, porcelain skin, some brick-house curves. (Yep, 36-24-36). Went through a spectacular 70lb weight loss and working hard towards a slim, tight, toned body especially in the abs/tummy.



Describe your most attractive feature.




Him: This might sound odd but his face is perfectly symmetrical. He has deep brown eyes and the most beautiful thick black lashes. Makes me jealous! Beautiful Italian nose. He has beautiful lips and kisses my puss the same way he kisses my mouth. Her: Her gorgeous face and her incredibly beautiful pussy that I can eat all day.



What body part do you first notice when you meet a person?




Face



What do you consider the most attractive feature when looking for a sexual partner?




Face



How much does physical appearance matter to you in a partner?




For both of us, the face is THE MOST important thing. Body parts are body parts - of course we like anywhere from average to athletic build, somewhat like us.



What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?




A little of every factor



How important is physical attraction to you in a sexual relationship?




If the face is beautiful/handsome and the body is proportionate, then everything else is gravy.



What do you wear for underwear?




he's commando mostly, she wears sexy panties of any kind



What do you think about tattoos?




A few is attractive but not too many



What do you think about piercings?




It's not very attractive



Do you exercise? How?




(male) I work in a very physical job that keeps me in shape. (female) I just started to work out to shed the Christmas cookie pounds, but when I'm in the gym I'm an ass kicker - 30-45mins on the elliptical, free weights (weight lifting is my favorite), and if someone coaxes me I'll do a boot camp. I even made it through 3 full weeks of P90X (ass kicker videos) and my goal this month is to get to 60 days of the 90 day program.



What is your sexual health status?




STD free (untested/not recently tested), None of the above



What STDs are you comfortable with your partner having?




STD free (untested/not recently tested), None of the above







Entertainment, Sports & Hobbies



What type of television shows do you enjoy watching?




Sports/Racing, News, Dramas, Arts & Entertainment (A&E, Food Network, Home Improvement, etc.), Variety Shows/Stand-up/Comedy, Documentary/Learning/History, Movie Channels, Sci-Fi, Porn, Reality TV



What are your favorite television shows?




(female) RuPaul's Drag Race/Drag U, Jerselicious, My Fair Wedding w/David Tutera, Suze Orman, Oprah, even Joel Osteen's weekly TV service. The DVR is the devil. lol (male) movies (especially true stories), Fox news, History channel, Science/Animal planet



What kind of movies do you enjoy the most?




Drama, Comedy, Horror, Action, Romance/ Stories, Porn, Independent, Cult Classics, Cops and Robbers, Westerns, Sci-Fi, Documentary, Mystery, Foreign, Suspense/Thriller, she likes torture porn/horror, he likes true stories



What are your favorite movies?




We love all types of movies! We'll watch anything.



What kind of music do you enjoy listening to?




anything and everything! Music is LIFE



What does listening to music do for you?




It's relaxing, It's inspiring, It helps me get my anger out, It's good background noise, It gives me time to sing, It's how I express myself



What are your favorite musicians or bands?




anything and everything - except country and rap/hip hop



What are 5 albums you can't live without?




(her)I have to pick just 5!!??? In This Moment - Beautiful Tragedy, RuPaul - Champion, Joni Mitchell - Blue and Ladies of the Canyon, Sophie Milman - Take Easy (him) James Taylor - Mudslide Slim, Led Zepplin - 1st album, Beatles 1st album, that's it... those are my essentials



Tell us what you're reading now.




(Him) Steven Tyler's autobiography (her) Feel The Fear and Do It Anyway - Susan Jeffers



What are your favorite authors or books?




Her: Dan Brown, self-help/business workbooks. Him: James Michner, childhood favorite was Hardy Boys



What types of activities interest you?




Business researching, Computer programming, Surfing the internet, Playing music, Healthy living, Yoga/Meditation, Cooking, Reading, Writing poetry, Photography, Collecting knick-knacks/coins/stamps/etc., Board/Role-playing games, Card games, Sports



What do you like to do in your free time?




Music, music, music! Grilling, swimming, sunbathing/relaxing outside. She likes to shop (of course), he likes to surf online and research different things



What types of sports and activities are you active in?




Snorkeling/Scuba diving, Football, Baseball, Hunting, Camping, we both like shooting/hunting sports, he likes the water especially



What are your favorite sports/teams?




Football: New England Patriots all the way!! Baseball: Boston Red Sox We're New Englanders - loyal and true blue







Work & Living Environment

What best describes the pace of your life?




Organized



How much time does your job take up in your life?




I work full-time



Describe what you do for a living.




(him)Postal worker but getting ready to retire and be a full-time musician/recording engineer. (her)Insurance adjuster by day, Mary Kay rep and musician by night.



How often are you online?




I'm on several hours a day



What kind of place do you live in?




House



What do you like about where you live?




It's just the right size for the 2 of us but a party house at the same time, pool, fire pit, incredible view.



What is your current dating situation?




We are life partners but will never legally marry



What types of relationships have you had in the past? Share your story with us!




(him)Been married before, raised 1 son and 4 stepchildren. Before we were together I had a crazy blind dating streak! (her)Before we met I was with someone for several years. I honestly can't remember life before him - he's the love of my life.



What is your family life like?




We both love our immediate families but his all live elsewhere - her family members visit once/twice a month



How can Adult FriendFinder help you change your life?




We are looking for the bi couple out there that will satisfy us sexually and make our lives whole. We've been through so many couples that were not "right" - maybe looking on a website geared towards SEX will help us out. We're very sexual beings and even though we love each other very much, we'd be even further enhanced together to have our same-sex partners.







Outlook on Life

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What words best describe your personality?




Outgoing, Intelligent, Optimistic, Quiet/shy, Daring, Honest, Funny, Realistic, Cautious, Loyal, Sensitive, Open-minded, Happy, Compassionate, Horny, Adventurous, Passionate, Confident, Laid back, Caring, Creative



What qualities do you look for in a mate?




a little bit of everything



What factors are most important to you when looking for someone?




Looks, Religion, Political views, Personality, skills, Openness, A little of each



What animal best describes your personality?




Wolf, lone wolves in a pack together



Tell us what things in life are most important to you.




Faith, caring for others, support, and a good comfy lifestyle.

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A few "dates" is good - we don't like to bare all on the first meeting unless the chemistry is really there. We don't dive headlong into something until we know it's right between us all.