FIRST OFF: No MEN, we are here to PLAY with couples and bi-females, but really like to meet that sexy BI-FEMAL since we have not done a 3-way in 7+ years! We hate meeting people that are here to just flirt and play games with people or not even show, all a total waste of peoples time. We are here to swing! Also wife never goes out on loaner or I can do yours, but you cant do mine(???) LOL, yes actually heard that one and have had people misrepresent who they are or what they are looking for! We have 2 kids and each other to go on dates with and keep us busy, so don't need endless e-mail, chat, dates etc. to know if there is a connection in-order to be intimate and have fun. We prefer fun 4 all with no games or drama and if a friendship develops outside of the lifestyle that is an added bonus too!
We like to go out meet/play/dance/play or just hang out for drinks and chat/play. In other words we do not need a long commitment to say we can or can not, we are flexible weekday evenings if close and weekend days or nights with little notice, drop us a line maybe we are free?
After 15+ years, we are secure with our marriage, but WE DO REQUIRE respect, trust, discretion, clean D&D free people who are professionals. We are not looking for any one on one action and prefer to have fun as a couple with a couple or bi-female with NO ONE being left out!
She likes a man who ht/wt prop. has a clean shave face, no beards, go-tees or the just crawled from bed look. She like a man to be a man, not a metro sexual! LOL HE likes women only and prefers Asian/Latina women has a think for the dark hair/eyes and tanned look

but find women of all backgrounds to be very sexy and also loves blonds, brunets and reds too....darn lets just say I love them all so long as ht/wt prop, not barbie, but you get the idea... hope that makes is simple! LOL...