Most any public or private pace is just fine for a first meet. If we find that we are simpatico, I'm really fond of starting to be as intimate as you'd like as soon as you are comfortable with it.
I'm a hopeless romantic, so I hope that it does not surprise you when I say the dancing makes a perfect icebreaker. Especially, group or just couple, nude dancing
Maybe fast at first and then slow. But all of us naked to the bone
to dance but I'm not a pro at it. Just love to have fun with it. Sure, 3 of us can dance together just fine.
And that nude slow dancing? Ooooo, La La! Can be just great fun, but also makes a really great foreplay
That said, I'm perfectly happy sitting around with you, clothed or not, just shooting the shit about really nothing at all. Or sex, or porn, or our desires, swapping stories, sharing fantasies or what we might do together at some point.
I'm not predisposed to any particular outcome of our first meet, except that we get to know each other. Of course, if it happens to turn into a romp, that's perfectly fine too
No pressure or rush. I'm perfectly happy to part company after our first meet, to leave you to consider if you want me in your life/lives. If you don't, no harm, no foul. At least we will have enjoyed each other's company? Absolutely!