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smoggytomcat
For some reason I'm into certain guys and gals that are truly bi. And if the rare couple cums by, I'm all into that. But its rare when all three of us can enjoy every scenenrio. My dilemma is that I have a man that I've played with and enjoyed in oral sex exchanges of finishing and enjoying that, and he has actually penetrated me. It was in the understanding that we both would love the enjoyment of another person enjoying us, man or lady. Then ive met a bi couple that actually did meet and we had fun until he turned more into me and not into much more. Now I have a lady that interests me greatly, that's local , but only wants to flirt and calls me for an instant meeting. And then theres a couple who wants me to fuck her man while she wants to watch, up close, and they share oral sex. Now I'm a simple man, and all of the above intrigues me. I'm at the point that I need some advice! Am I Bi or Gay?

crushed
does it really matter? bi,gay who cares you are you and what you like is part of your personality. I use to wonder the label. am I bi-sexual, bi-curious, lesbian with male tendencies or straight lusting woman. who gives a shit. I am me and I love who I am bi / straight / and lesbian all put together.so does that make me biraightian?
don't worry about labelling who you are. labels just create confusion and prejudice. be your self and enjoy who you are, your the only one you got, you cant trade your self for a newer model--trust me I tried
Teri

SENSIE
well said Teri..you are totally right.

Tommy.

Facesprayer
Well stated Teri!

PixieAndDaddy
We're both bi with the right play partner (s)

Almonius
Teri pretty much summed it up nicely. I like to think I'm just horny all the time and it doesn't matter if I'm with a woman, man, couple, couple of couples or an orgy (anyone?) I like sex. Think the "femanized" term for that is slut. Know that's not PC, just don't know what male term is. No offense meant ladies

smoggytomcat
Lol, biraitian, lol! And mostly ty you Teri for your sound advice! I actually consider myself as an open person that enjoys going with the flow of the evening.

Lionessa
I think Teri really did sum it up perfectly! I have always believed, as long as you are happy, enjoying what you are doing, then it really shouldn't matter. Those are just labels anyway and not always right
VINCENTTTY
LOVE COOK SO MUCH LIKE...

BiGuyLewisville
Bravo to Teri. I was kinda wondering where I fit in label-wise myself because I am not attracted to men at all but I sure do like cock and cum! Maybe I'm just trysexual. LOL

Blugrassbi
Teri, you hit it on the head. I like being with naked people doing whatever is fun for everyone in whatever combination we can agree on. I'm not sure what that's called, but regardless I'll keep doing it as long as I find other who want to as well.

nybili
Who cares? do you like sex with women, do u like sex with men. i like both. U seem to like both. i dont think im gay. i still go to gentlemens clubs, naked women turn me on. so do naked men. I think thats what being bi means.

ridernmich
LOL Well if you have to have a label,,, How about just sexual.

smoggytomcat
I love all of your comments! And welcome all. I am the same with BiGuy with not really being attracted to men, but I like cock and feel its useless without him to cum, Either in my mouth or ass. And Bluegrass has a main point of mine in the interest of being naked and enjoying being so. And then just lets all enjoy ourselves. And then ny has great point also, who cares about a label? I myself never have, it is about enjoying sex with another willing body. I so agree with rider and claim myself as sexual! So where is that on my profile preference?

ShinyAndSlick
I find sexuality to be a fluid things, especially for folks who can enjoy going both ways. Sometimes in our lives we might desire more the opposite gender, sometime the same gender, and yet sometime both. And even each one of us is different — with our own little kinks that make us unique, not only as sexual beings, but as individuals. It's hard not to label and categorize. Sometimes being bi is confusing. But ultimately, I think an open mind and an open heart is the healthiest approach to how we connect with other in between the sheets and in the public domain.

Nadia

smoggytomcat
I guess my search on the idea maybe over. Although I feel like a sexual person I can be attracted to both sexes sexually. It does involve me being inticed by other sexual beings and their openness to have fun and enjoy what cums along. So I guess on my profile , I'll remain bi.

Susurrus
The stupid and unfair thing out there is that a lot of people (gays, too) think that men HAVE to be one or the other, while women can be truly bi.

chillywilly
i was young (12 yo) when i first sucked dicks and i figured I was gay but when i was 15 i was fooling around with a neighbor girl my age and when i saw her vagina i was in awe and then I tasted it and i realised i was not strictly gay, I later realised i was bisexual and I have been all my life. I prefer women, but i do enjoy queer sex so I will always be bi and love it

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