AllenMarksI'll add my voice to the chorus of praise for BiP and the community of like-minded, friendly and sexy folks here.
I became a life member a few months after discovering the site, and it took a while until I first played with someone. Several of the people on this thread I would consider friends, though we haven't met in person.
Around the time I joined BiP I was also on a couple other sites, they were more expensive, were not bi-focused and the people there were more transactional. It was all about how many can they meet and hook up with in as short a time as possible. Taking your time and getting to know folks or testing the waters, did not win friends or playmates on those sites.
BiP is the only place I have found with the depth and breadth of bi focused friends and possible playmates.
One point on finding bi-gals to play with. You may have more luck if you connect with couples. I think single gals are more cautious, especially meeting and playing solo with an MF couple.
Good luck and I hope you find some playmates near you, soon. If you have a hand or some fingers free, and you take photos, I hope you share
Enjoy...A