stillhard45
Can't come out, will lose my friends and family. Don't want to be by myself. Like men and women. I don't know what to do or how to make my life happy again. What a whiner I am. Not winner -- but whiner. Not a loser either.

ridernmich
Well,, I think your in the same boat as most of us. Most friends and family would not understand, So why tell them? Something's are better left unsaid. I know when we moved in our girlfriend. Cindy lost a lot of so called girl friend's. LOL our guy friend's where good with it.

crushed
Life isnt about someone elses acceptance. its about your happness. there are millions and millions of people in this world. if the people around you cant accept who you are, there are plenty of others out there who will love to be around you. its time for you to start loving your self. if you were to go to a car dealer and all they had was white cars, what would you do? you would go to another dealer where you can select the color you want. this is kind of what i feel you need to do. there are lots of fantastic people in this site. come to the chat room or message some people in your are to meet you in the chat room.
time to start to love your self. when you love your self other will be attracted to you.when you are felling down drop in the chat room or send me a message and i would be happy to meet you in the chat room or just e-mail me if you just need a friend..i travel extensivly with my work so i am in here at the strangest time. ust watch of me and say hello
Teri

stillhard45
Hello crushed . thanks for the reply. I appreciate it. You are correct.

stillhard45
Thaks for your reply ridernmich. I have found that out about so called friends with other things.

iLoveCouples
I think that all of the advice given to stillhard45 is wonderful and caring...and true. That is what makes this website "community" so great!

stillhard45
I Agree with you I love couples. It all helps.

Countygal
I can feel for you I'm in similar situation but realized that my happiness comes first and don't mind if people know that I am Bi sexual . So if you want to chat I'm here for you.

hungwolf57
Yea I know what you going through,I was married for 9 years and I thought I could trust mine wife and be open about mine Bi sexual dam was I wrong she divorced me and I was a faggot in her eyes.So maybe I kept it locked up I might be still married but I wouldn't be happy with mine life.David

samrae
I'm sorry you're sad and depressed I hope you can find happinesssomeday but you must just keep going on and live your life living as you must and have my family doesn't know that I'm bisexual and it's my choice for them not to know .so just keep smiling keep on living fun with everything

stillhard45
You are right hungwolf --- no need to stay in relationship if you aren't happy and not getting any better. I thank samrae and country gal for their kind words. We do what we like to do to keep us happy an if it makes another person happy that's good to . we only live once so guess we need to have fun !! You folks are a big help . thank you so much !!

AtlBiCpl
I'm terrible at giving advice, so take this with a grain of salt.

Mary and I haven't intentionally "come out" to anybody, but we're not in the closet either. We live our lives as we see fit and when we "get busted", we discuss it then. Life is too short to feel you have to be in hiding. How does it change you being a father / brother / uncle / etc whether you like women, men, or both? Since it shouldn't have any bearing, we decided that we wouldn't force the issue but would deal with it once it was discovered. We are neither in the closet nor did we have a coming out party / event / announcement. I realize that us being a couple is far different than a single.

Friends who cannot accept your bisexuality aren't really friends. Trust is the foundation that friendship is built upon and whether you suck dick, eat pussy, or both should have no bearing on your trustworthiness. It sucks when people can't deal with you because of the people you have sex with, but that is their issue and not yours.

Personally I believe that bisexuality is natural because humans have sex for procreation as well as recreation. Most people have both male and female friends, so it makes sense to have both male and female sex partners.