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katlove
I was thinking about when I knew I was Bi the other day. I think I have always fantasied about bisexual love making. I had come close to having some gay sex when I was about fifteen.I put it down to raging hormones and avoided it. It was also against the law back then, plus coming from a blue collar background, there would be all the peer pressure. Besides, I like girls!
For me knowing I'm Bi, it was back in the 1980's at work. The guy was a stunning young man, about my height, short dark hair and almond shaped brown eyes, slim almost girlish figure with pale brown skin and of mixed Malay English race. . We stood facing each other chatting about things, then found ourselves making eye contact. We both mirrored each other and drew closer to one another. We were flirting quite intensely and I remember looking down and seeing his erection bulge. He became embarrassed, but then noticed mine. We stood for a moment, then in a very flustered manner we both started talking about our girlfriends. We never did anything about our obvious attraction to each other. It was the 1980's and attitudes of the time were different. The flirting continued every time we met. I'm sure he enjoyed attending my department as much as I enjoyed seeing him turn up. Unfortunately we both moved on.The last time I saw him was in a supermarket. We were both with our ladies and only passed pleasantries. As we headed off in our different directions, my girlfriend whispered loudly to me "He fancies you"! She teased me about that for months. She wasn't into sharing.

Newbigent
I've known since I was a kid, maybe 13 when my best friend and I used to touch each other while looking at nudie mags. Bi curious was a term I used until I came to terms with the fact that I like cock as much as I like pussy! At this point in my life I crave both!

txcouple1967
Straight as a teen and through early marriage, late 20s. Curious in most of my 30s while my wife started experiencing in her early thirties. Knew I was bi the first time I had sex with a guy in my late thirties. My wife is now almost exclusively straight while I continue to be actively bi. I personally believe that our sexual orientation can be a lifetime shifting emphasis. For me, bi is the best of all worlds.

sexy_sean
I've always been attracted to both genders; however, I spent most of my life convincing myself I was just confused since I hadn't had any sexual experiences. I also spent nearly twenty years as a Christian, and I tried my hardest to deny my feelings for men because it was "sinful." Finally, at the age to 30. decided to be more honest with myself. I'm still pretty inexperienced, but I've been with a man and a woman, and I know I'm bisexual and I've accepted it and came out to all my firends and family.

smoggytomcat
only when both sexes enjoy both sexes

sexonly40s
We both discovered our bi side in our late teens and have been enjoying it since then. These days we are almost exclusively playing with other bi's, just more fun that straight sex.

crushed
I basically knew for as long as i can remember. i knew i was different than most the girls. i was introverted and just stayed away from the popular girls, mostly because they were so hot looking. i did have my first real experience as the age of fourteen. i have a post in forums if you want to know more about that. i finely admitted it to my self when i was about fifteen. i explored the bisexual world extensively after that but still had a boy friend in high school. it think it was more to fit in than really in love with him now that i look back.
when i meet max i told him up front i was bi. naturally he loved the idea like most guys do, when i brought him in to his first threesome he turned into an animal. he fucked the hell out of us all night. i knew he was OK when we finely gave up fucking and went to sleep. I was on one side of max and my girl Friend was on the other side of him. i was awoken by max turning over and snugged up to me waking me at 4 am. max put his hand over my mouth and took me again.she finely woke up when max was pounding the hell out of me. i was surprised she was able to sleep though most of it. he still wakes up at 4 am, rolls me on my belly, hold me down, pulls my hair as he takes me. i love it especially when he whispers in my ear "ok bitch your mine" god i am getting wet just thinking of it
Teri
anyway with today's society we don't need to hide anymore. male or female. enjoy life to its fullest, we only have one on this earth. i say fuck long, hard and many

cory4all
I knew I was attracted to both sexes whilst in my teens. But that was during the `70s and I grew up in Mississippi, where you were either straight or queer. So I waited for my body to decide which I was. Finally in college a lesbian friend told me I was bi. But I didn't have my first experience with another guy until I was 22.

Now I'm married to a wonderful woman who, though straight, lets me fool around with guys. And I'm constantly on the lookout for what I call fierce friendships, friends with benefits where the emphasis is on the friendship, not the benefits.

Poulmark
I had been dressing for a woman friend for a couple of years and she was into using a strapon on me. After some time I started to wonder what it would be like withaguy. I told my gf but she was not happy about it, so I put the thoughts away. I joined a site for crossdressers and one afternoon another guy asked to meet up. I was very nervous but agreed. We met at a local bar and got on really well. I invited him back to my apartment and he accepted. Driving back home I was excited and nervous.
At first we just fondled each other but suddenly he was sucking me. This turned me on so much that I soon found myself returning the favour. I knew from then on I was bi.
However he was only into oral and I still had thoughts about having full sex with a guy. I updated my profile and after some time I had several guys contact me. The rest is history and I became a real slut.

goodfelt
I was getting ready to go swimming with 2 of my neighborhood friends changing in the pool house looking at Penthouse with 2 girls licking each other. Noticed we all were erect the older one said "no reason for us not suck each other" with that game OMG it felt so great and most of all it felt so natural sucking my friends cocks. That was 1972 going strong sucking cock having my cock sucked and having my sweet hole fucked. I think when the situation is right men usually try otherwise it just happes
Seeme4real
The first time I kissed a girl I was about 7 or 8, but I was also attracted to boys. I really realized it when I was high school.
katlove
No BigBear55. In my books there isn't anything wrong with that at all. I can only wish you the best of luck in finding one or more (hehe) soon!

txcouple1967
Better now than never, I frequently wish I had started sooner but absolutely enjoy the opportunities when I can.
luvsdrkdck
My older brothers made me suck their dicks when I was not even 10 years old. But I thought I got over that when I was in my tees. But one day, after a baseball practice, I went to the urinal and saw a huge dick on this guy. He was much older. maybe 25 or so. I must have stared too long because he came over to me and put my hand on it and pretty soon I was sucking his dick. I really wanted to do it then. I got so fucking horny and now I get the same way when I see a nice dick.
Loubiguy
I realized I was bi the first time I sucked a cock. I was in my early 40s, divorced and not having much luck finding a sane woman so I got relief through the gloryholes at an ABS. A cock came through the hole one night and I leaned down and sucked it into my mouth. I found a woman who understands my cock sucking side.
insomnia808xxx
When I had a dick in my mouth....

Gr8PlayM8s
I'm aware that I'm bisexual and have been for a long time. I haven't had the pleasure of a woman in a very long time and it's long overdue. I would love to meet a woman that would allow me to share her with my husband, nothing hardcore or painful I just want to have sex with a woman badly

Thongs4All
When my gf gave me my first thong and then only wanted more. When we had a 3 some with another guy it felt so natural and easy and then I realized that there was no sexual limits
Jdhdh
Hey I'm new here I'm straight but have been rlly into tranny porn lately and cross dressers, I don't know why but that's all i can get off too. What do u guys think?

Doogiedreamer
I am 70 and started having bi-fantasies about 5 years ago, at first mainly cds and shemales. Now, although I still have no experience, I feel that I am willing to explore more. I have done some on line research and found that it is pretty common for older men to become bi-curious.

mrbisexualnudist
Well for me,IT Actually Really Did t Right At Brith,And Became Something That Was Very,very Definitely Going To Be With And A Very Significant Part Of My Life, Right From The Day That I Had Turned 18 Months Old, After all I Was Indeed Born Into An Bisexual Nudist Family, And From The Very Frist Time, That I Had Seen Our Entire Family Totally Nude I Had,Had A Very Strong Desire To Actually Have With Both s And s,
Even Though I Could Not Talk Until I Was Six Months And 48 Days Old,By The Time That
I Was 18 Months Old, I Could Actually Walk And Also Talk In Full sentences And Very Clearly Express What It Was That I Wanted And/Or Did Not Want, And Yes I Really Did Very
Fully Understand Just Exactly What I Was getting My Self Into,When I Had Asked My Dad If
I Could At The Very Least Play With His And His Balls,Hold,Touch,And Feel It, If Not Really Get to Lick,,And Suck On it,He Asked If I Was Very Shure That This Was What I Really Wanted To Do, And I Told Him that Yes, I Really did, and knew and understood just exactly what I Was going to be doing and not only with him alone, but also
with his very special boyfriend, and one of my uncles that day,he was my Mothers Eldest
Brother, And After Having Finished With The Men For A Little bit,I Then Decided That I Also Wanted to Try with Women ting With My Mother And Aunt, In This Case My Dads Younger Sister Who Was Also Having Lesbian With My Aunt Which Had Continued Right Up Until My Mother Had Died At 78 Due to ill health, My Younger Sister Who Is Likewise Two Years Younger Then Me, Also Likewise Was Very Fully And Completely Ready For Her Introduction And Initiation Into Our Bisexual Nudist Family World On The Very Day That She Too, Had Turned 18 Months Old,And Very,Very Much Wanted To Have Lesbian With Our Mother Frist And Then With Our Aunt,As well As Then Having with Our Dad,His Very Special Boyfriend,{ A Gay Man Actually Married To A Very Stunningly Beautiful Lesbian Women},And Our Uncle,Once Again They Had Come To Realize That These Really Were Our Very Own Well Thought out Wants,Wishes,
Most Very Importantly Our Own Ideas,And They NOT!!!,Only Very,Very Wisely Totally And Completely AND Very Openly Also Fully Accepted Our Bisexuality,Which Actually Had Very,Very Many,Many,Many Times Over Gotten Us Out Of Troublesome Situations When
Certain Idiots Were Trying Very Hard To Make Us Think That Our Natural Higher Power Given Nudist Bisexuality Was A Very Bad Thing,Well We Knew very much different and never again paid those people any attention, But Rather just carried on as usual,But we did have some not quit yet nudist friends who we had felt that we had,had to come out to,
we also even then knew and realized that we could very easeally have lost these little friends, If Thire Parents had,had any form or type of problem with it, And With even just the fact that our have always been and continued to be nudists, Well as our very good luck had,had it very,very many,many of Them X-12k Had been Looking for A Way to get back to something very many of thire Families had actually been forced to leave behind because of some one else's very bad stupidity,They only very strange part of it, Was for Them To then come out to our Family And Tell us just how very relived That They Now Felt About Thire Own And Thire Families Bisexuality,Like I Have said our Family Have been Bisexual Nudists For Nine Generations, So Actually Having A seemingly very Young
Child Of 18 Months Old Is Nowhere Near as far fetched as it might seem to so people, Besides If It Is done with actual genuine And Kindness It is Actually the Very Healthest Way that any Child And/Or Group of Childern Can Ever Be Raised.Like I Have Said for both my younger sister and my self this was how our parents had Raised Us, Rather then Draging Us,Up the way that some of our little Textiled/Fully Clothed Friends were, Very many of them were indeed very well aware of our bisexuality all through grade school,high school and even collage and yes university,And some of them even said that it would be much better if they had never been born, because they had found out that thire
parents were going to certain bisexual,lesbian, and gay family nudist clubs and leaving them out of it,in an number of cases some of them had tried very hard to tell thire parents
that they to were lesbian,gay,bisexual, and very totally shure of it, However, The Only Time Anyone Ever saw These Parents shedding any real or what looked to be like real tears were when several of these very wonderful kids had ended thire lives by commiting
suicide rather then feeling that they were the very biggest most disgusting problem thire Parents had because of thire trying to be open and hounest as they could with Parents Who were very much less then hounest with them,So there is yet another reason to be so
very proud of our Parents Who Very Lovingly And Patiently Accepted And Very much helped us to Experience,Explore, And Enjoy And Discover the very true depths of not only
our own and certain other peoples actual sexual orientations, So Yes I And My Sister Are
Very Truly Very Lucky And Over Super Blessed Very,Very Many Times Over To Have Been Born Into A Multie Generational Bisexual Nudist Family

mrbisexualnudist
Actually come to think of it, Just how many other bisexual nudists knew that they were bisexual at a very early age, and were allowed to accept in them selves as well as others, and when did they frist really get started?

BeccaCD
I was 12. It was the summer after 7th grade.My 2 stepsisters my best friend and I were playing truth or dare. At one point dared my step sis to take off her bra and panties, It wasn't long before she dared me to wear her bra and panties and in the blink of an eye she next dared me to suck my best friends cock. Now our version of truth or dare dares like that were taken to the closet for privacy. Not sure what got into me but I waived off the closet and sucked him with an audience. We all sucked cock that day the only difference was I was the only one wearing anything....the bra n panties

nybili
I knew i was bi in my mid thirties. Found a mens mag in a park one day. took it home and proceeded to enjoy myself to the pictures. Although i didnt act on it till my early forties. both men and women. Its all good in the right setting. Fully bi now.

paul_bi_nudist
I suppose I changed from bi-curious to bi right after my first encounter with another man. I was no longer curious about it and enjoyed it. Unfortunately, I was almost 30 years old when I first tried it.
OrallyFixated36
There never was a time I didn't know. I knew I was different when I was a kid, but not in what way. I wasn't sexually interested in anyone as a prepubescent child. But within a week of those adolescent hormones hitting the brain good and hard, I had my sexuality figured out...no doubt in my mind about it.

liketotryboobancock
yeah, i'm probably bi, Because I want to try cock, but dont really find men attractive at all. ladyboys/ts/tg I definatly do. i cannot get off to men/men stuff. I really wanna try some cock though, and get stupidly dirty would also love to be fucked by a large group of ladyboys et al, have them cum in my ass, mouth and all over, Cant wait for the day when i can lick multiple loads of cum from multiple asses, any offers lol?!!

wedoitallinidaho
when my wife talked me into letting her fuck my ass for the first time with her 13 inch dildo, I NEVER came like that before in my life!!!

justforfun67
was always against guy to guy sex after wife passed and am 67 want to try a guy in all ways given and receiving does that make it wrong or am i bi

MORTISER
justforfun67 there is nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality, it is perfectly natural and good for you
yorkie111
I remember at school when I was around 12 or 13 in the showers after games. I was always looking round at the other boys. It wasn't till I was 16 I got to hokd another guys cock.

StPattieboy
I think 13 yes old when I knew but didn't know the name for it I would get a ragging hard on
And my heart beating out of my chest as I jacked off while looking and thinking about males
And females body's. So both turned me on equally and still do.

Biguy4inch
I was straight in till my 40th b-day I had thought about being with guys but never went there. My cock started to shrink maybe cause the meth. I don't know so I began to focus on big penises and how my wife at the time might like to have a big cock. So through the internet I Found one for her and me.My life with my wife never was the same.I'm now single and still have small cock that doesn't get hard.

Freakyfun2425
I want to put a strap on on and fuck her with it on also i want to streach her ass out with anal beads and eat her pussy im bicurious

utahguy_99
After having moved into a new neighborhood, an 11 year old neighbor boy, asked me one day had I had my first cum yet. I told him I played with myself a lot, but had always stopped when the feeling became overwhelming. He said, "let me show you." He pulled my cock out of my pants and proceeded to suck me off...I am not sure I had much of a discharge when I did come, but OMG it was the best I ever felt in my life. I then sucked him off, got a load, swallowed it, and my stomach wondered what the hell I had done. LOL Second, third and thousandth times were much better.

Seems he had a little group of horny cocksuckers which my addition made it 8...so now everyone could party. Then one day, a different neighbor boy about 15, approached me with the offer of letting me fuck him, if I let him fuck me first. I DID and discovered an entirely new heaven and orgasm. I didn't get to do him, but I did a few, and never quite took to fucking guys...but any erection around could use my hand, my mouth, my ass.

First time at 13, an adult male wanted to fuck me, if I was willing. HAHA I practically raped him. Now the validation of being queer had been completed.

At 15 a 46 year old female friend of my dad's took me to bed, introduced me to pussy....Now I knew where my hard cock was meant to be for penetrating another...with a woman...However, it was still the most exciting sex of my life, when a hard cock was slowly sliding into my ass...to this day, 70 years later is still a treat, but sadly not as often as I would wish or hope for.

To those who are finding their way into bisexuality, CONGRATULATIONS...is a life full of love, caring, cums, being ignored, being refused, but when it works, there seems to be nothing like it.... ENJOY

laflip
This falls under - “IF YOU SEE SOMETHING SAY SOMETHING”
Yes we are all bi here on this site (well most) But - You all need to stop and think about what you are doing and condoning here!
IF YOU ARE TELLING A STORY OF UNDER AGE SEX, CONSENTUAL OR NOT I.E. YOUR MOLESTATION EXPERIENCE, YOU ARE PARTICIPATING IN CHILD PORNOGRAPHY !!! Don’t believe me? When this site gets shut down and you idiots get arrested I’m going to laugh and applaud those that do it. I know every last one of you are saying I’m nuts and over reacting and what do I know, well apparently a great deal more than you all do. No one can discuss these things on a sex site like this without breaking the law. Look it up. (Be clear, I am NOT saying you should have these conversations anywhere but in a clinical setting). Yes, you are entitled to your own history and experiences but no one is allowed to share them in a form for who’s purpose is to arrouse and promote sexual activity. This is not a therapeutic setting with qualified clinical professionals. Many of you have gone way to far in postings like this for far to long and it’s time it stops, NOW.
To be clear, I have never been molested or molested anyone at any age ever. But some of you have that’s abundantly clear.
IF YOU SEE SOMETHING SAY SOMETHING
You can yell and scream all you like but you all know I’m right!

stevo1960
I was bi curious at 12, and my first bisexual experience I 15

floppy2
I didn't realize how much I would like bi but I finally had my first guy about 15 years ago. Prior to that I enjoyed cross dressing and wearing women's panties and bras. I fantasized about another guys cock but never acted on it till one day I went to a park where I knew guys went to meet. I finally made eye contact with a guy and we proceeded to go back into the park. We chatted and I finally decided it was now or never. He kept looking at my cock and I reached over and unzipped his pants and proceeded to kneel down and take him into my mouth. It was so amazing I just sucked and licked till he finally told me he was going to cum and I sucked him dry. I have had my anal cherry popped and I love it. I have even kissed another guy, it really wasn't bad at all. My only problem is my wife wouldn't understand so I keep it on the down low. I love cock and sucking and being fucked. I just wish I hadn't waited so long. Anyone in Goldsboro NC hit me up

kinkybictguy
I have been on BP for a few years now and the people I have interacted with have been fantastic; That being said - I never liked guys at all - As far back as I can remember; My ex wife got me wearing panties when we messed around and soon the dildos and strap-ons followed; I was concerned I might be gay, but to me her "cock" represented by the toys was more of a conceptual nature ; The idea of kissing a guy turned me off (If I as gay, wouldn't that turn me on?), but the idea of sucking a cock or taking one in my ass turned me on; BIG TIME; To me they represented the balance of power in my marriage - I was always a take charge guy, much to my ex's chagrin; This gave her an opportunity to have absolute control and authority over me; and it was hot! We even would look at taboo porn like Shemales/Tranny's;

We eventually ended up doing a threesome with a male friend; It all started with playing cards drinking and having a good time; Next thing it morphs into strip poker...and I end up loosing...Now my wife wanted me to wear a pair of her panties under my shorts; We had talked about it and it was a good opportunity; You can imagine how embarrassing and humiliating it was to take the shorts down and our friend sees me in baby blue panties;

We were pretty far down the "Ill have another drink "road and next thing you know we're laughing and showing off the toys; the turns into groping fondling and the threesome; We did a few times and it was always him with my wife and that was it; But after he'd leave my wife and I would "fantasize" about being naughtier, nastier and kinkier with him; Probably the 4th or 5th time we did it, my wife tells him she wants to fuck his ass with a small vibrator and he agrees; She has me "help" and I'm touching his ass and rubbing his asshole , slipping a finger in, which he responded favorably to, but that was it; By this time - I constantly was thinking about sucking his cock and getting fucked by him; one of the subsequent sessions the 3 of us were in the shower together and my wife made us stroke each other for her. There was some light touching and all that, but no BJs or cock-in-ass play; Had I fetishized the toys and my friends involvement to be representative of my wife power in the bedroom? Maybe...A few weeks later he ended up moving to Chicago and we just lost touch; To this day I wish I had sucked him and fucked him and had him suck and fuck me; There was no pressure or issues with "Who is this guy?" - We were good friends; I'm still connected with him via Facebook and occasionally will pull up a pic of him and imagine if he and his wife like to get kinky.

Fast forward 10 years to today; I still was jerking off to Shemale/Tranny porn over those 10 years; I still would wear a pair of panties, secretly from time to time; Just ended a 3 year relationship in October; Great girl - We are still friends; but the sex was horrific - totally lame, nothing remotely interesting; And I have spent the last 30 days re-evaluating what am I doing in my life, sexually; If I get an opportunity to have a relationship with someone that seems to be in alignment with me on the sexual adventure side and they are a good person - I think I'm just gonna pursue it, regardless of any label "Gay" "Straight" "Bisexual" - Life is too short to be unhappy; As George Carlin said in the movie Dogma -"Gay? Straight? These days - Its all the same; STOP BEING SO SUBURBAN" - my .02 for what its worth

Dicktodick
If it feels good do it
ded2007
Young 20s in the military and stationed away from home for the first time. I got tipsy and an older bi Sgt took me home and seduced me into letting him suck my cock. I ended up letting him do it several times or a few months.

Wetmouth629
When you finally try it. You will either like it or not.

SloStroker4U
I sucked my best friends dick when I was 15. I loved it. I loved him cumming in my mouth or spraying it all over me. I've loved cocks and cum ever since.
bitimes
I guess I knew I was bi at a young age. I was about 9 when I saw my first pussy she was 10. Then I had a friend and probably around 11 or 12 we played around you know jerking in front of each other rubbing our cocks together stroking each other. I even sucked on his cock and one time he peed in my mouth. Was weird but something was hot about it. Didn't do any guy sex during high school but the idea was always there. I still liked the girls and did have a girlfriend but those times with my friend kept coming back. In my 20's I learned about cruising in parks and got sucked and sucked. Was about the same time I took a cock in my ass first time. But my bi side was always a secret for most of my life. My girlfriend I am with now thinks it is hot that I am bi.

kylookin4fun
I knew when I watched pornos and got hard on when I saw those big hard cock when my wife worked nights i started renting gay porn I'd get hard and best off thinking about sucking cock and being fucked.I really knew when I met my first guy and he pulled out his cock I didn't even have to think about his cock was in my mouth in seconds and I was sucking it like my life depended on it be came in my mouth and I swallowed ever drop been hooked since

kylookin4fun
I knew when I watched pornos and got hard on when I saw those big hard cock when my wife worked nights i started renting gay porn I'd get hard and best off thinking about sucking cock and being fucked.I really knew when I met my first guy and he pulled out his cock I didn't even have to think about his cock was in my mouth in seconds and I was sucking it like my life depended on it be came in my mouth and I swallowed ever drop been hooked since

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