seamus
It does happen. ual orientation runs on a spectrum. I think most bisexuals realize they are bi after believing they are straight. You may be in the minority that way but there are others.

SquidlyJones
I always tell people not to stress out over the labels. You are attracted to men and women, so you are bi.

So: will this bother women? To some extent, yes, some women will be bothered. But it's just human nature, so don't sweat it. I'm sure that some will be put off by just about anything you care to mention.There is no way to please everyone.

byronnn
There's no "normal" . . we're all unique individuals and by definition all have different preferences. "Normal" is merely a polite word for "boring"

AllenMarks
As Seamus wrote, sexuality is along a continuum from extremely hetero to extremely homo- sexual with a million points along the way. this is from the Kinsey research at Indiana U. However, I don't agree that people necessarily go from gay to bi, straight to gay, etc. Also, I believe people can move along this continuum throughout their journey.

For me the discovery started with a male friend introducing me to pleasures with guys in my early teens. Oral and stroking only, and I liked it! I was also just starting to be sexual with gals, oral and stroking also, I really liked that. I stopped playing with guys though, because I thought it was an either, or choice. It took me several years to shake off the binary idea that you are either straight or gay. Along the continuum I would put myself at 75% MF oriented and 25% MM oriented, and 100% horny.

As I mature I find myself more comfortable about who I am and care less about what others think about me. So I am more open to my attraction to and interest in sex with men. Though I enjoy guy to guy fun, my favorite still is three fun with a bi guy and a gal.

dancinglibraguy
I was straight for many years,had a lot of female lovers,still enjoy fucking a hot lady,but feel I have the best of both worlds,when I started playing with guys;
love sucking a hot cock,abd etting sucked;
one must find what works for their life;

Ravensteel
Seems to be a common thread here, I've recently indulged in man play in my older years,an idea which never crossed my mind in my 20s 30s . Many I've talked to are in a similar situation;wife loses interest in sex or medical reasons so man explores options.

nybili
i started playing with guys in my forties. My interest started in my thirties. They do have an online test to see what flavor of bi u r. it can be 50 50 75 25. its an interesting test.

The way i see it, if you like both men and women you are bi or bi curious if u have never actually had contact with someone of the same sex or different one for that matter.

either way, who cares? u have the best of both worlds.

utahguy_99
Interesting subject. Personally I believe there are gay people who enjoy straight sex acts as part of their existence and straight people who enjoy gay sex now and then as part of their existence. That alone does not make them different from what they live.

I was introduced to day sex, basically quite young, while working on church projects, by one of the church leaders. I not only enjoyed it, I LOVED IT...the whole nine yards, oral, anal, mutual masturbation, you name it. sometimes being involved with 4-6 different people in the neighborhood.

Then at 16 I was introduced to hetero sex....AGAIN I LOVED IT.

Today, the spirit is strong, but the flesh is weak....following prostate surgery, which showed up just prior to my wife's passing, I reluctantly chose surgery which has left my dick limp, my semen missing, but surprisingly my hunger for sucking cock or licking pussy has not diminished one bit. BUT, what has is the availability of a partner, or partners....the more gray the more it goes away....the only abnormal part of life is the absence.

nybili
hey guys and gals, here is an interesting test for your bi scale. try it out mine was 6.5



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StPattieboy
Yes I beleave bi is so natural. We are sexual beings and the human body is so erotic (male and female) so what is not to LOVE

dancinglibraguy
I found I like having sex with both,very sensual and satisfying

Indima
I agree. I like sex in general.

patrg
Life is too short to overthink some things. If you are enjoying doing what you are doing, no matter who it is with, go with it. Variety is the spice of life so why live with a bland diet? Swing both ways, have twice the fun and don't ask why.