Description:
Well, going with exteriors first, I'm tall, fairly fit, gray hair and beard, blue eyes - and really big feet. Moving south, I'm just over average length, thick, cut, shaved and trimmed.
To offer an overall impression, I'm frequently described as laid back; objective (but like everybody else who's honest, I do have opinions - and yes, even some prejudices, I suppose); contemplative; but have a very active sense of humor with a large sense of irony, so I'm sometimes the guy who laughs in the "wrong" places in films, plays and life. And I do laugh a lot and really enjoy sharing some laughs with others.
My interests have always been truly eclectic, born, I suppose, of an abiding curiosity, and I love all things outdoors.
I've lived border-to-border and coast-to-coast in the USA, and have a well-stamped passport (perhaps the curiosity thing), and I've been living deep in the heart of Mexico for several years now.
When I go north a couple of times a year, it's to California as a rule, but also sometimes to the Houston area.
I'm a lifelong lover of (almost) all types of music, and an avid reader as well. Not unrelated there, is a portfolio of freelance writing, with a chunk of that as an outdoor writer and editor.
I've always been a very sensual and sexual guy, I suppose, and I'm attracted to that in others as well.
What else? Well I'm not very tolerant of affectations, so I have no interest in queens or CDs. I'm just a straight-ahead guy and a straight-talker, so I appreciate that in others as well. While I do appreciate nice things, of course, I truly don't care about your car, clothes, collections or zip code.
When it's playtime, I especially prefer the kind of long, slow, hot, sex that builds to a volcanic event where, afterward, we both feel as though we're floating back down from some distant place or planet, with no sense of time or place.
But then there's nothing in the world wrong with some red-hot-slam-the-door, jerkyerpantsdownrightfuckin'now, sex when the mood and moment demand it, is there?
So if any or all of this sounds like we might be a nice fit, then let's begin the conversation. And please do make it a conversation, and not just a line or two, as that just won't merit a response. We all need and deserve a bit more if there's to be even a spark that will start a fire within, don't we?
Ideal Situation:
Well, first some initial description and information in a message or two, at least, along with a word about why you feel we might enjoy each other's company, and then if we're to meet, let's do it in some neutral place that we're both comfortable with, where we can sit over coffee or a cocktail and find out if the vital but elusive element of chemistry might really be there for us.
If it just doesn't seem to be, then no harm/no foul. We're all grownups and we know how it all works - or sometimes just doesn't - and we go our respective ways.
But if it does, well then, hell, we all know why we're here!