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My Introduction to Swinging

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dodgerfannwa
I'm a 6'0 white male with a PhD. I had been married for a long time and have alwyays dreamed of meeting a swinging couple. I'm clean, good looking and looking for an introduction into the swinging life.
roboxford
Single guy looking for bi couples for an introduction into the bi swinging way.
wolfdreamer
We are newlyweds and open to new things. (Rikki) has a past in swinging and little in bi-sexual swinging. (Christy) Has not yet done any swinging but is interested in the experience, and has no experience at bi-sexualality either
Lubbock_Bi_Couple
We are an attractive bi couple who are very open, friendly, outgoing and love to have fun. We enjoy sharing pleasures, and have been swinging for several years, and have found that swinging bi is twice the fun..........we will never go back to the straight swinging............no fun!! We love to entertain and hope to make some new friends soon.
woollescotecple
we are an open minded couple been swinging 8 years done most things in swinging. we are open minded love life enjoy meeting other people especially in swinging we are very happily married.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx x mark and sheila
janeroy
newbies looking for introduction
Fmlooking
Bait and switch, Bad introduction to the site. I wrote to them as well and told them it was a bad policy. Doesn't cost then a thing to leave your 30 day Introduction intact. What happens after they get your money??? NOT A GOOD BUSINESS MODEL
ionsawmill
First of all, I'm sorry no one has answered your post in three months.

Three things you must have before opening up your relationship to swinging are honesty, communication and a healthy self-esteem. I can already see that you are missing all three. If you're worried about your girlfriend finding someone else, you shouldn't be swinging. That worry is a sign that you're insecure about your relationship, and swinging will not cure insecurity. If you aren't sure whether your girlfriend is looking for a woman to swing with or a man, you shouldn't be swinging. There's a lack of honesty and communication there that swinging will not cure.

On a side note, I read your profile, and if you've got no problem hooking up with other women and other couples, but the idea of your girlfriend being with another man bothers you, you shouldn't be swinging. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Have a serious talk with your girlfriend, and decide whether what you want is to be swingers, or if you just want to be single and have casual sex.

I wish you the best no matter what you choose.

T.H. (He's Bi) & D.E. (She's Str8)
IonSawmill - Coastal Alabama, USA
Sizzlestix
One my 10th anniversary my late wife arranged for a hotel room that had an adjoining door. When we settled in the door opened and another couple entered nude. She told me this was her present to me (yes this really happened!) an introduction to swinging. Yet, she gave me the option of choosing the gender and the room.

The man was an Adonis and stood there hard as a rock. I soon was too and I spent much of the three days with him. We did switch it up with each other but, I'm glad I was much younger then and had more stamina. He was very experienced at being Bi and taught me to love making love to men.
ionsawmill
I’ve been putting off my introduction for a long time. I’ve actually been on the site since 2004. Figured it was time to go ahead and post something. I’m a 55-year old bi guy in an open marriage. Back in 2004, my wife and I tried swinging, but found the Lifestyle to be pretty closed-minded in a lot of ways. It just didn’t work for us. Between her being a BBW, and my bisexuality, we just didn’t fit in. Anyway, after a bad experience at a party in 2009, she decided she really didn’t want to keep swinging, but she’s supportive of and accepting of my bi identity, so she gave me carte blanche to date whomever I choose, as long as our sex life doesn’t suffer. In her words, “As long as I’m satisfied, I don’t care what you do.”

The thing is, I found the swinging lifestyle to be pretty unsatisfying too. There didn’t seem to be the connection I was looking for. I’ve tried the hookup apps, and have the same problem. I’m looking for a connection, even if it’s only short-term, not anonymous sex. At the same time we decided to drop out of swinging, my best male (platonic) friend moved away and we lost touch, so I’m suffering from both a lack of male companionship, and a lack of same-sex intimacy. What I’m looking for is a bi or gay guy who lives nearby, either in my county (Baldwin) or in Mobile County, Alabama or Escambia County, Florida; basically someone within an hour drive. Ideally, we’d share enough in common to enjoy non-sex things like fishing, kayaking, biking, movies, concerts, hiking, camping, etc. but also feel free to explore our sexual desires. I don’t want to contribute to anyone’s infidelity, so he’d need to be in an open relationship or single. My wife is already my true love and my anchor, so I’m not looking for a nesting partner. More of a long-term very close friend, with benefits.

So that’s where I find myself, somewhere between swinging and polyamory. Age and race are not an issue, as long as our ages are close enough that we have some common ground. My tastes in music, movies, books, and other entertainment tends more Gen X/Millennial than Boomer, so I have trouble finding people older than I am who I can relate to.

Anyway, ask me anything. I’m sure I left some stuff out. I’m composing at the keyboard.

T. (cis-male-bisexual/biromantic he/him/his)
hurricane55
My wife and i were into swinging for about 6 years and we were in our early 50 s.We are in very good shape weight wise and we were also both nudest. We got started at the nudest park into the swinging game and it seemed like a good thing at the time. There are many pitfalls in swinging and both partners have to know who they love and who had their children.Making love as we called it is the wrong term and i guess just having sex with someones husband or wife was a blast. I saw more skin and sex than i care to mention,but the bottom line is sex is just sex and not love. The one that loves you and you love her and you both are having sex with other people either by there side or in another room. When a couple split up to have their private sex with another person most couples draw the line and don't let that happen. The most fun i think is watching your partner with another man or woman in the same room.I know i'm rambeling but i really believe we both could write a book on swinging.The bottom line is go home with the one that you went with if your married. We have been married now for 21 years and i am 62 years old and would not trade my swinging experience for anything. thanks Robert
ionsawmill
My wife has always wanted to try double penetration, either DV or AV. It's actually why we got into swinging. So far our fucking machine has been a reasonable substitute. She decided a few years ago that swinging really wasn't for her, so unless I find a FWB who I feel comfortable bringing home, we will just keep using toys.

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NeedSexyManRimming
My first introduction to sex with a man was when I was very young and had discovered playing with my ass while I jacked off. This man saw me and i didn't know he was watching! The next day he gave me a naked massage and licked my ass for a little while, then lifted me on my knees and squeezed my cock and balls while he stuck his fingers up my ass! I loved it, I was going absolutely crazy! Then he turned me over and sucked my cock while he finger-fucked my ass for a while and then he put me bak on my knees and fucked me until he came up my ass! I was so hot and so horny by then that I loved the feeling of his cum up my ass as he laid me back down and sucked me off with his fingers back up my ass!! We had many hot experiences in my introduction to becoming a woman for men after this, and having men lick my asshole in front of other men and women has always been an incredibly hot turn-on for me this drives me wild!! heck out my photos and my profile and you will see that I love showing my naked shaved ass to people! Want to lick it and fuck me, come on with it!!!
NubianSunriseWomen Who Love Anal
I have never really been a lover of sex in the AM when i first awaken until.... the introduction of anal sex by a very patient man... I love Sucking Cock & Anal Sex In The AM...Kiss Kiss Hug Flower
niagarabi4mfmAnal Stimulation
I luv to have my ass licked and played with .I have many toys and also like cucumbers slid into my man pussy.Strap on fun with women was my introduction to ass play as the two bi women i lived with were heavily into anal play.playing with someone Else's ass m or f gets me so hot.wish to find more couples into this.
MMMofNJSex With Couples In Same Bed
Isn't this called swinging?:|
rjs7007Couples With Bisexual Men
Any one in the Boston area let me know and we'll have a swinging time.
ohDenizenNevada Swingers
Don't be shy - My Nevada swingers ? Do come on out swinging ? Them sweet titts and cocks of yours ?

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stlcruiser
Thanks for the introduction. So far I am impressed with the site. I hope it works for me. I am a gay man that wants to experience new and different things. I'm mainly interested in meeting men but will try my first MMF with the right people. Thanks for the opportunity and for opening it to people of different orientations. David.

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