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Bisexual, Bi-Curious, Bi-Friendly

by Tom & Jen (MysteriousUnison)
Disclaimer: We are not experts in anything except maybe Final Fantasy or aspects of D&D. As such, this is merely our view and not to be intended as a definitive guide to deciding any aspect of your life.

What does the term "bisexual" mean to most people?
Generally speaking, it describes an individual who is equally attracted to either sex for the purpose of a relationship, whether it be physical, emotional, or a mixture of the two. A person who identifies as bi-curious is commonly considered to be curious about their sexuality, most likely in the physical sense.

A lot of people get confused by the terms. Some will consider anyone who engages in any sort of same-sex physical activity to be fully bisexual, while others will call a man bi-curious even if he's been performing oral sex on male lovers for years, just because he hasn't experienced every possible act.

It's a personal choice. Some people dislike labels. Some people cling to them and proudly proclaim their orientation, while others are forced by necessity to remain silent about their lifestyle.

This is where I bring out statistics and affirm that at least one out of every ten people identify as GLBT, whether they're honest with themselves or not.

The fact is that like all labels they only apply to those who are willing to take them. It is no one's decision but your own as to how you identify. No one can or should try to change who you are for any reason; everyone has the right to their preferences as long as all involved are consenting and aware. So, are you bisexual, bi-curious, omnisexual, transgendered, gay, lesbian, straight, slightly bent or do you merely not care? It doesn't really matter, after all, not to the ones who truly care about you.
Lady of Mysteries, Daughter of the Arcane

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